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Blended Orgasms – What, How and Why?

It’s no secret that when you mix two brilliant things, the result is often more than the sum of its parts. This is absolutely true of orgasms: a clitoral orgasm is brilliant; a G-spot orgasm is incredible. But combine the two and you have a recipe for a mind-blowing mixture of complex sensations.

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What Is a Blended Orgasm?

While ‘blended orgasm’ might sound like some kind of orgasm smoothie (and I’ll be first in line when someone invents those), it is in fact a broad name for an orgasm that’s brought on by orgasmically stimulating more than one erogenous zone at the same time.

For example, people generally agree that there are two primary types of orgasm for women: the clitoral orgasm and the G-spot orgasm. There are of course many other more subtle and personal types of orgasm (and since everyone is a little different, you could reasonably argue that there are at least as many types of orgasm as there are women on the planet), but let’s not overcomplicate things for now.

The point is that a blended orgasm, which is a combination of clitoral and G-spot pleasure, is at least twice as intense as either of those orgasms by themselves.

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How Do I Have a Blended Orgasm?

A blended orgasm is a more “advanced” kind of climax, because it requires you knowing your body (or your partner knowing your body) quite well.

It’s a strange thing to consider that even now, with all our medical and scientific expertise, there is still debate and confusion over female anatomy. Many women, for example, are unaware that their clitoris is not simply that little external bundle of nerves we know and love so much, but in fact has “legs” that extend around the vaginal opening and then inside the vagina (in fact, there was a paper published recently that argued that the clitoris and the G-spot are not distinct organs, but part of the same complex of tissue – in short, that the G-spot was the “back” of the clitoris).

At any rate, the point is that when you start paying attention to the entire clitoris rather than just the external part, while stimulating your G-spot at the same time, the result is likely to be a far more intense orgasm than you might be used to.

What Do I Need For A Blended Orgasm?

You don’t really need anything: if you have patience and some time, then your hands or those of your partner will provide good results.

That said, the most efficient way to reach a blended orgasm is by using toys. The more aroused you are, the better and easier it will be, so make sure you take lots of time building up, spoiling yourself, teasing yourself.

Then, when you start to feel yourself getting close, apply a powerful vibe to your clitoris and another, longer vibe to your G-spot. Use lots of personal moisturizer too.

Multiply Your OrgasmsFind a rhythm, alternating between the pressure you’re applying to your clit and your G-spot, experimenting with slightly different angles and intensities. Try to apply the vibrations all over and around your clitoris, tracing its length inside yourself. Continue to tease and prolong the pleasure – the longer you delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be.

When the blended orgasm finally overwhelms you, you’ll notice the muscles contract all the way along the inside of your vagina; it’s this depth that gives the blended orgasm its intensity.

To Sum Up

Practice makes perfect, so the more you experiment and indulge your body with blended orgasms, the easier and more powerful they’ll become. Exercising your Kegels will also help to strengthen the muscles you use in this kind of orgasm, which in turn will intensify the sensations even more.

So good luck, and most importantly, have fun.

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About Donna Turner

Donna is a Volonté contributor and freelance writer who lives in San Francisco with her husband and two sons. Her work has appeared in Psychology Today, Go! Magazine (Australia) and is regularly featured in the San Francisco Herald.

7 comments

  1. Since I have a tipped uterus, is my G-spot in a different place? Harder to find/reach? Inquiring minds (aka my husband) want to know.

  2. This is, succinctly put,, a crock of shit. There’s only one kind of orgasm, and that’s a clitoral orgasm. The clitoral tissue is a large mass, and encapsulates the tissue around the so-called Gspot. Therefore, whether your orgasm is from stimulating the clitoral glans, the Gspot, your vaginal walls, or just your brain, you’re having a clitoral orgasm. Additionally, not all women enjoy Gspot stimulation, or even report the ability to find their Gspot. It’s dishonest and misleading to sell sex toys based on a myth; and detestable to sell toys by making women think they’re inadequate if they aren’t having “blended orgasms”.

    If you’re someone who enjoys multiple forms of stimulation, wonderful! And if not, do t feel you’re missing anything, because all orgasms are good orgasms.

  3. Alicia I wonder the same thing! Me being the husband of a tipped uterus. It seems to be different, harder to find or something and all sex toys for stimulating that area seem to be uncomfortable for my awesome wife. Someone help us!

  4. Satisfied in SF

    Dear anonymous:
    I’m sorry you only have one kind of orgasm, but you don’t have to try to ruin it for the rest of us.

    I’ve been having orgasms easily my whole life and so have plenty of data on my various “kinds”. While they may all technically be caused by stimulation of various of the octopus branches of clitoral tissue, how I achieve each one is very different, and blending them does, in fact, make them even better.

    My personal favorite is the orgasm trifecta, vaginal & anal penetration/vibration with a vibe on my clit. Feels like the top of my head comes off. Good stuff.

    Thanks LELO!

  5. As long as satisfaction is achieved that is the main thing. Some cannot it have not found that yet but with everyone it is achievable. Using the right sex toy and experimenting is vital. See my Mail Online advice article 9th May. Also visit libidina.com for more advice or tips. Enjoy your orgasms however you have them

  6. Anonymous I agree with SF, Im terrible sorry you can only have one kind. Im also sorry I wasted the better part of my adult life not being able to relax during sex. I would suggest you try. At 54 Im having the best sex with mind blowing orgasms, and never just one more like 5 or 6 and sometimes more! if the vagina and clitoris are one and the same who cares but work them both equally. By the way I can orgasm with just my nipples being stimulated. Yes Im a lucky lucky girl!
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  7. Anonymous, sorry but you are wrong. My wife gets her “G” spot going with me inside her (mostly doggie, but other positions work too), after she feels like she could orgasm, she adds a bullet vibe to the clit and goes for the home run. Don’t get me wrong – I’m sure she could orgasm from vibrator on clit alone, but with me inside, hitting “G” spot, and vibe, that leads to “Blended Orgasm” that she claims is better than either of those two alone. The sum is greater than the parts.

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