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https://www.lelo.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/why-is-recreational-sex-controversial.jpg660330We generally have consensual sex for three reasons. First is procreative, which is sex for the purposes of reproduction. Second is relational, in which sex is used to secure and maintain relationships like marriage. That’s about bonding and societal, structural stability. The third is recreational. Recreational sex is where society starts to get a bit uncomfortable with things. Procreative sex is encouraged, necessary even, for the survival of our species. Relational sex is also normal within certain confines, specifically marriage, […]