{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Volont\u00e9","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog","author_name":"Stuart Nugent","author_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/author\/stuart\/","title":"The Difference Between Agreeing to Sex and Consenting to it","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"QUJChn0nmE\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/consent\/\">The Difference Between Agreeing to Sex and Consenting to it<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/consent\/embed\/#?secret=QUJChn0nmE\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;The Difference Between Agreeing to Sex and Consenting to it&#8221; &#8212; Volont\u00e9\" data-secret=\"QUJChn0nmE\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/consent.jpg","thumbnail_width":660,"thumbnail_height":330,"description":"Warning: this article is about sexual consent and will, by its nature, discuss issues surrounding sexual assault and, in places, will use frank language to do so. Sometimes, to say \u2018no\u2019 to sex is to say \u2018yes\u2019 to yourself. I hold that to be true, but consent goes beyond saying yes or saying no. In principle, consent is incredibly simple. But in other very important ways, it\u2019s necessarily complex. I\u2019m going to set out a simple premise: agreeing to sex [&hellip;]"}