{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Volont\u00e9","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog","author_name":"Stuart Nugent","author_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/author\/stuart\/","title":"Dominance: Does Topspace Exist?","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"Ou6c8IaF5i\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/dominance-top-space\/\">Dominance: Does Topspace Exist?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/dominance-top-space\/embed\/#?secret=Ou6c8IaF5i\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Dominance: Does Topspace Exist?&#8221; &#8212; Volont\u00e9\" data-secret=\"Ou6c8IaF5i\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/dominance-does-topspace-exist.jpg","thumbnail_width":660,"thumbnail_height":330,"description":"They say it\u2019s lonely at the top. When it comes to sex I\u2019d disagree; it\u2019s not lonely, but it can be dark. It can be complex, challenging and conflicted. There\u2019s a lot of literature out there about the phenomenon known in BDSM circles as \u2018subspace\u2019, which is a kind of euphoric mental and physical state the submissive partner sometimes assumes under the control of their dominant partner. However, there\u2019s very little discussion of the dominant\u2019s mindstate, so I\u2019m going to [&hellip;]"}