{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Volont\u00e9","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog","author_name":"Stuart Nugent","author_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/author\/stuart\/","title":"5 Lies You Tell Yourself When You\u2019re Heartbroken","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"okcud3sLD8\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/lies-you-tell-yourself-when-youre-heartbroken\/\">5 Lies You Tell Yourself When You\u2019re Heartbroken<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/lies-you-tell-yourself-when-youre-heartbroken\/embed\/#?secret=okcud3sLD8\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;5 Lies You Tell Yourself When You\u2019re Heartbroken&#8221; &#8212; Volont\u00e9\" data-secret=\"okcud3sLD8\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/lies-you-tell-yourself-when-youre-heartbroken.jpg","thumbnail_width":660,"thumbnail_height":330,"description":"Heartbreak fucking sucks. It\u2019s the worst. It feels like a sickness, like poison, like grief. Everything loses its importance, nothing matters anymore, it\u2019s all pointless. We feel bad for feeling bad, and it doesn\u2019t seem to end. Nothing about heartbreak is fair, we blame ourselves and those who hurt us, and everything is a cycle of despair and self-pity. But eventually it subsides, and when we look back on it after we\u2019ve healed, we often think about how stupid we [&hellip;]"}