{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Volont\u00e9","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog","author_name":"Nikita Andester","author_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/author\/nikita-andester\/","title":"Sexual Boundaries and Saying \u201cNo:\u201d What You Need to Know","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"jr5WU8RUaf\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sexual-boundaries-and-saying-no\/\">Sexual Boundaries and Saying \u201cNo:\u201d What You Need to Know<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sexual-boundaries-and-saying-no\/embed\/#?secret=jr5WU8RUaf\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Sexual Boundaries and Saying \u201cNo:\u201d What You Need to Know&#8221; &#8212; Volont\u00e9\" data-secret=\"jr5WU8RUaf\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/sexual-boundaries-saying-no.jpg","thumbnail_width":850,"thumbnail_height":425,"description":"In a culture that applauds people for being as easy-going as possible, it can feel hard to speak up and state our boundaries. Even in the wake of the \u201cMe Too\u201d movement and a shifting dialogue about what consent actually is, putting that boundary talk into practice is a whole other issue that many folks don\u2019t have practice with. After all, it\u2019s one thing to watch TikTok and say, \u201coh, hell yeah,\u201d alongside the person laying out how to tell [&hellip;]"}