{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Volont\u00e9","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog","author_name":"Helena Lorimer","author_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/author\/helena-lorimer\/","title":"The True Cost of Loving a Narcissist","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"z2ng1NXoeF\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/signs-youre-dating-a-narcissist\/\">The True Cost of Loving a Narcissist<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/signs-youre-dating-a-narcissist\/embed\/#?secret=z2ng1NXoeF\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;The True Cost of Loving a Narcissist&#8221; &#8212; Volont\u00e9\" data-secret=\"z2ng1NXoeF\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/cost-of-loving-narcissist_850x425.jpg","thumbnail_width":850,"thumbnail_height":425,"description":"By definition, a narcissist is a person who has an excessive interest or admiration of themselves. It\u2019s an extreme self-involvement to the degree that it makes a person ignore the needs of those around them.\u00a0 Of course, all of us have the capacity to have certain narcissistic behavioural tendencies from time to time, but in the case of a true narcissist\u2014they frequently disregard others or their feelings. They also don\u2019t have the understanding of how their behaviour affects others.\u00a0 Does [&hellip;]"}