{"id":15901,"date":"2016-08-26T18:39:21","date_gmt":"2016-08-26T10:39:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=15901"},"modified":"2026-03-14T05:39:46","modified_gmt":"2026-03-14T04:39:46","slug":"lelo-sex-position-of-the-week-the-hard-lean","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/lelo-sex-position-of-the-week-the-hard-lean\/","title":{"rendered":"LELO Sex Position of the Week: The Hard Lean"},"content":{"rendered":"

Whether you\u2019re looking to shake up your bedroom routine or simply find a new way to prioritize your own pleasure, sometimes the best approach is to just lie back and let your partner take the lead.<\/p>\n

This position (a variation of the classic missionary but with a high-intensity twist) is the ultimate “relax and receive” setup. It balances deep intimacy with a unique physical angle that hits all the right spots, making it a go-to for anyone who wants to feel every sensation without doing all the heavy lifting.<\/p>\n

Below, we break down why this position is a game-changer for depth and stimulation, along with a few practical tips to keep it comfortable for both partners.<\/p>\n

The Hard Lean Sex Position<\/h2>\n

Position Difficulty: 2.5\/5<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Pros<\/h3>\n

Are you ready to lean back and relax? This is one of the best positions for the receiving partner to lie back as their partner showers them with stimulation all over their body (may we suggest adding a small handheld massager<\/a> to the mix?)<\/p>\n

This position is particularly good for partners who have a smaller penis<\/a>, as the angle and legs-over-the-shoulder will allow for deeper penetration. The one tricky aspect is getting the rhythm right, which is most easily done if the receiving partner uses their forearm (flat on the ground or clasping their partner\u2019s legs) as support while the thrusting partner \u2018bounces\u2019 up in their kneeling position.<\/p>\n

Cons<\/h3>\n

Given that this position is a using a lot of one partner\u2019s movement, it may not be ideal for a thrusting partner who is prone to sore knees from holding a position for too long! As well, while switching up roles can be fun from time to time, if the receiving partner is not used to being so passive during sex, they may find themselves bored!<\/p>\n

As well, while this position certainly offers a visual treat to the penetrating partner, if you are self conscious about your body it may leave you feeling very exposed.\u00a0 Of course, that can also be managed with some creative dress up outfits that allow for keeping some clothes on!<\/p>\n

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Enjoy 15% off LELO.com<\/a> with code VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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