{"id":16462,"date":"2016-11-03T18:43:23","date_gmt":"2016-11-03T10:43:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=16462"},"modified":"2026-03-23T05:24:00","modified_gmt":"2026-03-23T04:24:00","slug":"a-shopping-guide-your-friends-first-vibrator","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/a-shopping-guide-your-friends-first-vibrator\/","title":{"rendered":"A Shopping Guide for Your Friend\u2019s First Vibrator"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cMy friend has never owned a vibrator and I want to get them one as a gift. What are your recommendations?\u201d<\/p>\n

This one of my favorite questions I get in my workshops.<\/p>\n

There is a veritable wealth of vibrators available. Vibes are becoming higher in quality as discerning consumers are demanding intimate products that compete with iPhones for sophistication and design. But which ones are suitable for that friend who\u2019s new to this new world of toys? And which are actually worth their price tags?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve spent nearly a decade teaching people about pleasure physiology and sex toys. I love helping people find toys that bring joy to their solo and partnered sex<\/a> lives.<\/p>\n

I like to recommend toys that are body-safe. This means that they are made from materials that are non-porous and not harmful to the body. Silicone, hard plastic, glass, and stainless steel are all examples of body-safe materials.<\/p>\n

Sex Ed PSA: Many cheaper sex toys (like the jelly rubber kind) can harbor bacteria and contain phthalates (endocrine-disrupting chemicals that you probably don\u2019t want near your genitals). Friends don\u2019t let friends use crappy sex toys. <\/em><\/p>\n

Here are five suggestions that will make sure your gift becomes the best thing in your friend\u2019s nightstand.<\/p>\n

The Jet Setter: MIA 2<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"LELO<\/a><\/h2>\n

LELO\u2019s sleek MIA 2 is the one I\u2019d buy for the friend who travels a lot for work. It\u2019s discreet but powerful, and the design doesn\u2019t scream \u201cSEX TOY\u201d if the TSA gets curious. It\u2019s also quiet so the person in the hotel room next door won\u2019t hear it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s USB-rechargeable so they can plug it right into their laptop or phone charger, regardless of the local voltage if they\u2019re traveling internationally.<\/p>\n

The Powerhouse: MONA 2<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"LELO<\/a><\/h2>\n

Whenever I\u2019m at a conference with my sex toy reviewer friends, inevitably the MONA 2 will get brought up in conversation. It\u2019s a fan-favorite among experts who have champagne tastes in sex toys.<\/p>\n

The MONA 2 has got a great rumble-y vibration and settings from mild-to-strong. It can be used internally or externally, but is particularly nice if someone likes a toy that can be wedged between the labia to cover a bit of surface area. For fans of internal stimulation, this one is nice because it\u2019s got a bit of girth to it as well.<\/p>\n

The G Spotter: GIGI 2<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"GIGI<\/a><\/h2>\n

The GIGI 2 is a super versatile toy. It\u2019s got a curved shape and is designed to find the G-spot,<\/a> but its flat tip makes it equally fantastic for use on the clit. It\u2019s great for use during intercourse too. The long handle makes it easy to hold onto during penis-in-vagina or penis-in-anus sex<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I particularly like recommending this toy for people who are new to G-spot stimulation. That anterior wall where the G-spot lives can be hard to reach with fingers alone, so a toy like the GIGI 2 can make it much easier to explore. But if they find out that they aren\u2019t all that keen on G-spot stimulation, they still have an awesome toy to use on the clit. It\u2019s still money well spent and that toy is going to get some great use for other purposes.<\/p>\n

The Rabbit Upgrade: SORAYA<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Soraya<\/a>Nearly every time I teach about sex toys, someone asks me about \u201cThe Rabbit.\u201d And nearly every time, it\u2019s because they saw that episode of Sex and the City where Charlotte didn\u2019t leave her apartment for ages because of said sex toy.<\/p>\n

Typically, I don\u2019t recommend rabbit toys because they often don\u2019t fit everyone\u2019s genitals well. The distance between the clit and vagina varies, so one toy does not fit all. However, the SORAYA\u00a0 stands out from the pack. It has some versatility that allows it to work with a greater number of vulvas. The SORAYA\u2019s clitoral arm is flexible, so the user can move it a bit so it\u2019s hitting the desired part of their clit (which you can\u2019t do with most rabbit toys).<\/p>\n

So if your friend has expressed interest in a rabbit-style vibe (and you\u2019re feeling generous price-wise), this is one to consider.<\/p>\n

The Audiophile: SIRI 2<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"SIRI<\/a><\/h2>\n

The SIRI 2 is a handheld, powerful vibe that has modes designed to mimic various types of musical beats. It even has a function that\u2019s designed to match the environment so if your friend has some sexy music on in the background, the toy will match its rhythm.<\/p>\n

Musical features aside, the SIRI 2 is ergonomic, easy to use, and has a lovely vibration quality. It\u2019s also USB rechargeable and a bit more travel-friendly than the MONA 2 or GIGI 2 if your friend wants something a little smaller.<\/p>\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n

Whatever your choice, you\u2019ll be sending a powerful message: pleasure is important and you\u2019re a friend to whom they can turn to talk about sex. They are lucky to have you in their lives.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Enjoy 15% off LELO.com<\/a> with code VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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