{"id":16859,"date":"2023-12-10T20:00:16","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T19:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=16859"},"modified":"2024-01-21T02:12:19","modified_gmt":"2024-01-21T01:12:19","slug":"yuletied-5-ideas-for-kinky-holiday-themed-role-play","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/yuletied-5-ideas-for-kinky-holiday-themed-role-play\/","title":{"rendered":"Yuletied: 5 Ideas for Kinky Holiday – Themed Role Play"},"content":{"rendered":"

There are many that might argue against the sexiness of this season, what with the heavy meals, shopping stress and extensive family obligations\u2026 yet there are an equal number of those who can\u2019t help but get turned on by all the possibilities of tying fancy knots and sweet yet spicy canes\u2026<\/p>\n

Here are our most creative suggestions for getting kinky at Christmas; just make sure your safe word is easier to say<\/a> than \u2018Good King Wenceslas!\u2019<\/p>\n

1. That\u2019s \u2018Madame\u2019 Claus to You<\/h2>\n

Santa Claus might be the big man around the North Pole when he\u2019s preparing to spread cheer around the world, but in the bedroom we like to imagine Mrs. Claus says what\u2019s what.<\/p>\n

Female domination<\/a> (or Femdom) can involve sissification of the submissive, or just good-old fashioned bossing around. Either way you\u2019ll want some comfy cuffs to tie up your St. Nick, so we suggest the lusciously leatheresque Maze Wide Cuffs<\/a> and matching Maze Tassel Flogger<\/a> if you’re partner is being extra naughty.<\/p>\n

2. Make Your Elf Work Very Hard this Year<\/h2>\n

We\u2019re not going to delve too far into the exact working conditions elves have at the North Pole, but let\u2019s assume your elf really loves working hard during the holiday season. As in, really <\/em>loves it.<\/p>\n

There are two main ways to go about slave-play and it\u2019s up to BOTH you and your partner to decide: is your little helper very keen to bring you milk and cookies before you even realize you want them, or must they remain silent and motionless until instructed to do as you say?<\/p>\n

3. The Naughty List<\/h2>\n

Do you think you know whether you\u2019re on the naughty or nice list? There\u2019s only one way to find out!<\/p>\n

For this kinky role play, the submissive partner must list all the naughty things they\u2019ve done this year to their Dom, who can accompany each confession with a light spank from a flogger<\/a>. Afterward, it\u2019s up to them to decide whether they deserve a Christmas treat or not.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019ve Caught the Gingerbread Man<\/h2>\n

This role play is greatly improved by a bit of sensory deprivation\u2015ie a blindfold<\/a>\u2015as it relies on a lot of sensation play. To make it kinkier, you can also tie<\/a> and gag your gingerbread man or lady.<\/p>\n

Once blindfolded, you\u2019ll start with a sensual massage<\/a> (like you\u2019re kneading gingerbread dough). You can use warming sensations from your toys placed in warm water to help heat things up, until delicately placing icing and other sweet treats on their body. It can take hours to make gingerbread cookies, so make sure you take your time before you put any in your mouth!<\/p>\n

5. As Pretty as a Present<\/h2>\n

Ribbon can be used as a pretty introduction to bondage, but while it may not seem as extreme as rope, it comes with its own challenges.<\/p>\n

Disposable gift-wrapping ribbon lets you make fabulous curls when tying up your submissive, but special attention needs to be paid when tying as it can easily cut off circulation, and your sub will also have to take care not to burst free from their bounds. Silk ribbon, particularly when it\u2019s wider, may feel luxurious against the skin and be more comfortable but will wrinkle when making knots so that may impact the look of repeat tying! Of course, while both types of ribbon are infinitely easier to cut a partner out of, they do not make for easy adjustment of knots, and will be more likely to cinch up; so keep the scissors handy and watch a few gift wrapping tutorials for help making the right type of knot!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There are many that might argue against the sexiness of this season, what with the heavy meals, shopping stress and extensive family obligations\u2026 yet there are an equal number of those who can\u2019t help but get turned on by all the possibilities of tying fancy knots and sweet yet spicy canes\u2026 Here are our most creative suggestions for getting kinky at Christmas; just make sure your safe word is easier to say than \u2018Good King Wenceslas!\u2019 1. 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