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As the taboo of talking about sex diminishes year by year, sex literacy grow and grows. However, for every term like safe word<\/a>, prostate massage<\/a> or polyamory<\/a> that becomes mainstream, our history of using euphemisms to talk about sex<\/a> is not so easily shaken off. Even in instances where we might use blunt wording, we may not use it in exactly the correct way, such as the use of \u2018vagina\u2019 to refer to the vulva as opposed to what it actually is.<\/p>\n

In this way there is similar confusion when it comes to sex toys. From calling everything a \u2018massager\u2019 to confusion over whether there is a difference between dildos vs vibrators, we at LELO are seeking to clear the air to help you!<\/p>\n

What is a Dildo?<\/h2>\n

Simply speaking, a dildo is any sex toy that is used for insertion; be that vaginally, anally, or orally speaking. The word dildo has a fascinating history<\/a>, and it seems only every few months that archaeologists unearth a distinctly phallic-shaped artifact from ancient civilizations. While today stone or animal horn are not usually the materials used to make dildos, they do come in quite a range, from glass to stainless steel to medical grade silicone, and even 24k gold like OLGA<\/a>.<\/p>\n

What makes a dildo a dildo is not necessarily that is shaped like a penis (in fact, a trip to any sex toy shop today will show you the great range of shapes both semi-realistic and fantastical that are on the market), or whether it\u2019s used for masturbation, pegging<\/a> or otherwise used as a strap on with two women; rather the general consensus of what makes a dildo is not all the things it does do but what it can\u2019t: vibrate.<\/p>\n

What is a Vibrator?<\/h2>\n

Whether you believe the story of Cleopatra having the first vibrator created for her out of a clay box with bees trapped inside or not, it cannot be argued that the invention of the vibrator did a lot for women in terms of unlocking sexual satisfaction. After all, with over 80% of women requiring clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, a dildo that you insert clearly isn\u2019t going to do it.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s where today you find all manner of handheld vibrators and vibrating bullets<\/a> that are meant to be use externally.<\/p>\n

What then, of toys that are designed for internal use, particularly G-spot targeting toys<\/a> like the MONA 2<\/a> or GIGI 2<\/a>? While they could arguably be called \u2018vibrating dildos,\u2019 common usage tends to put these in the vibrator column rather than the dildo one, for reasons that are as mysterious and inexplicable as, well, very nearly anything in the English language.<\/p>\n

So What is a Massager?<\/h2>\n

When people talk about massager, they are generally talking about products that were ostensibly designed and marketed as exactly that; a handheld, vibrating personal massager that helps you take care of any body aches and pains on your own, without the aid of professional massage therapist.<\/p>\n

Does \u2018taking care of your own body’s needs without requiring someone else present\u2019 sound pretty similar to a sex toy to you? You\u2019re not alone; one of the arguably most famous sex toys ever made was a gigantic plug-into-the-wall back massager from the 80s (though thankfully, we\u2019ve gone ahead and made a massage wand<\/a> that won\u2019t give you a cramp in your arm AND can go into the bathtub with you).<\/p>\n

While many a curious yet shy young person has figured out that massagers are cheaper and less conspicuous masturbatory aids than most sex toys, they do suffer from the major flaw that they simply aren\u2019t designed for to be sex toys; thus, not only do they lack the careful crafting to stimulate your different pleasure points, they\u2019re often made of porous materials that are not body-safe or can\u2019t be cleaned properly.<\/p>\n

Does that mean everything with a \u2018massager\u2019 label on it is bad for you? Not necessarily!\u00a0 We call a lot of our external vibrators \u2018personal massagers\u2019 because that\u2019s exactly what they do: massager. Whether you want to use a pocket-sized massager like SIRI 2<\/a> to massage your vocal chords<\/a> or somewhere else is up to you because it\u2019s safe for both!<\/p>\n

How Many Types of Sex Toys Are there?<\/h2>\n

There is a saying that \u2018anything can be a sex toy if you\u2019re brave enough.\u2019\u00a0 This is definitely not advice we would give out, but it is true that there are many, many types of sex toys<\/a>, and things that can be used as a toy or prop during sex for some; for instance, it might just be a\u00a0feather duster for some, but for others it’s an erotic feather teasing toy<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Our bestselling sex toy section is a great place to start.<\/p>\n

Which Sex Toy is Best for Me?<\/h2>\n

Knowing the names for different styles of sex toys can help you feel a lot less intimidated when it comes to visiting a store, but it can still be an experience that makes new sex toy users a bit uncomfortable.\u00a0 Do your research into what the best beginner sex toys<\/a> are (both for solo sex and for those vibrators made for couples<\/a>) and find yourself an online retailer or shop with a female-friendly, sex-positive ethos!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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