{"id":18243,"date":"2017-11-01T09:04:39","date_gmt":"2017-11-01T09:04:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=18243"},"modified":"2024-07-06T20:25:53","modified_gmt":"2024-07-06T18:25:53","slug":"gotta-catch-em-6-different-types-orgasm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/gotta-catch-em-6-different-types-orgasm\/","title":{"rendered":"Gotta Catch \u2018em All! 6 Different Types of Orgasm"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018Nut\u2019, \u2018bust\u2019, \u2018come\u2019 or \u2018cum\u2019 (ugh) \u2013 no matter what you call it, an orgasm is an orgasm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or is it?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you likely know, climaxes come in different forms and intensities, with some much easier to achieve than others. And while some can be depended on when you just want to get to the point of pleasure, consider this your primer course on some of the different orgasms on offer, just in case.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>The Penile Orgasm<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most basic of the bunch, because it\u2019s so well documented and understood \u2013 just stimulate, and then stand back!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter how it\u2019s done; <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/mastering-male-masturbation\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hand job<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/give-perfect-blowjob\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">blow job<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, straight up PIV (penis-in-vagina) penetration, what you\u2019re actually seeing during penile orgasm are two distinct things: orgasm and ejaculation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019re so hand-in-hand (more like \u2018gland-in-hand\u2019 HA) that we think they\u2019re the same thing, but did you know that orgasm and ejaculation can actually happen independent of each other?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A guy can ejaculate without orgasm &#8212; think wet dreams &#8212; and then there\u2019s having an orgasm without ejaculating, which is called a \u2018dry orgasm\u2019. It\u2019s apparently a sought-after thing in some cultures as well as for practitioners of tantric sex, due to the decreased refractory period that follows, essentially meaning that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/male-multiple-orgasms-possible\/\">male multiple orgasms are possible<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>The Clitoral Orgasm<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Home to more than 8,000 nerve endings, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/clit-literate-learning-truth-behind-anatomical-wonder\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the clit<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is, for many, the go-to source for reaching climax due mainly to it being made specifically for that purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though most people can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/clitoral-vibe-queen-compare-mia2-siri2-sona\/\">climax clitorally <\/a>doesn\u2019t mean they all do it the same way; some need the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">subtle swipes of a tongue<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (or a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cunnilingus-adept sex toy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">) in order to orgasm, while others subject their clit to a good thumping from <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">wand massagers<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> do get the job done.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Of course, many of these methods only serve to stimulate the very outermost part of the clitoral structure. When you take a sonic toy like SONA, you can discover depths to the clitoral orgasm you never knew about. That&#8217;s why you should start off slow and listen tothe wonders of your body.<\/p>\n<h2>The G-spot Orgasm<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, who didn\u2019t find it but just devoted a lot of study to it, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/hot-spots-erogenous-zones-women\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the G-spot<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is that magic \u2018button\u2019 along the frontal (anterior) wall of the vagina. It\u2019s an area of tissue about 2cm in diameter that, when rubbed the right way, is capable of delivering some very enjoyable orgasms.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And despite there being so many people who are capable of reaching climax by stimulating this area, it\u2019s still somehow being debated that it even exists. Le sigh.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anyways, we\u2019ll proceed by saying that it\u2019s totally a thing, and you can stimulate yours (if you aren\u2019t already) by focusing on the frontal wall of your vagina about 5 to 7 centimeters from the vaginal opening. Feel some skin there that\u2019s slightly rougher than the rest? That\u2019s about where it is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can try to apply pressure with your fingers, however a more comfortable option would be to try out a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">G-spot massager<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that is designed purposefully for the task. What you can expect from a G-spot orgasm is a less intense climax than a clitoral orgasm, however one that is longer-lasting and uh, we feel the need to mention, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/female-ejaculation-squirt\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">might make you squirt<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>The Prostate Orgasm<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">AKA the \u2018male G-spot\u2019, the prostate is a walnut-sized gland that produces some of the fluid that eventually becomes semen, and when stimulated can provide a real leg-trembler of an orgasm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like G-spot stimulation, prostate massage can be done with a finger, but to be sure you\u2019re applying even pressure to the entire area, a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">purpose-made prostate vibrator<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will do the trick and turn you into a P-spot play pro in no time \u2013 just make sure that if you\u2019re using a\u00a0 a sex toy for prostate stimulation\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that you\u2019re using one with a flared base for added safety.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>The Multiple Orgasm<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Holy Grail or the unicorn of climaxes, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/lelo-multiple-orgasms\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">multiple orgasms<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are exactly as they\u2019re named: orgasms that can go on and on, one rolling into another for a much more sustained climax.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So how do you do it? It\u2019s the same as trying to get to Carnegie Hall: you gotta practice! The defined muscle contractions that occur during orgasm can, with pelvic floor training, be controlled to provide a more prolonged pleasure. Other methods include the practice of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/edging-what-is-it-and-how-can-i-do-it\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">edging<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, where you bring yourself to the brink of orgasm to learn your body\u2019s subtle cues and enhance your stamina in order to work your way towards that multiple O.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And even if it doesn\u2019t happen, at least the training can be very fun, and in the case of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/pelvic-floor-exercise-tone-kegels\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kegel exercises<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, very beneficial for your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/healthy-sex-5-health-conditions-sex-can-improve\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sensual health<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>The Blended Orgasm<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">More commonly thought of as stimulating the clitoris and the G-spot at the same time, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/blended-orgasms\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a blended orgasm<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a term that can be applied to pleasuring two erogenous zones at once. It can take some coordination, like a \u2018pat your head, rub your tummy\u2019 kind of situation, but the results can be pretty earth-shaking. Mix and match your pleasures from the listed O\u2019s above and see how many you can check off your list!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018Nut\u2019, \u2018bust\u2019, \u2018come\u2019 or \u2018cum\u2019 (ugh) \u2013 no matter what you call it, an orgasm is an orgasm. Or is it? As you likely know, climaxes come in different forms and intensities, with some much easier to achieve than others. And while some can be depended on when you just want to get to the point of pleasure, consider this your primer course on some of the different orgasms on offer, just in case. 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