{"id":20086,"date":"2018-04-26T10:26:20","date_gmt":"2018-04-26T10:26:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=20086"},"modified":"2024-07-17T06:21:12","modified_gmt":"2024-07-17T04:21:12","slug":"why-you-should-go-sex-toy-shopping-as-a-couple","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/why-you-should-go-sex-toy-shopping-as-a-couple\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Should Go Sex Toy Shopping as a Couple"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While the magic of the internet means that you can shop for anything under the sun in the comfort of your home with total anonymity, we think there is something to be said for getting out of your \u00a0&#8211; and your partner\u2019s &#8211; comfort zones.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Checking out online reviews of different sex toys can definitely help you figure out what you might be looking for, we have 7<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">very good reasons why you should try making shopping in an actual sex toy shop the ultimate couples\u2019 errand and foreplay!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. You Get to See the Sex Toys in Real Life<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sure, glossy photos and measurements can give you a pretty good idea of a toy, but it\u2019s a lot more helpful to actually hold one in your hands &#8211; you can tell if it\u2019s too heavy to suit your sex life if you have <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/right-moves-best-sex-positions-people-mobility-issues\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mobility or arm strength issues<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, for example. You can also see for yourself how strong the vibrations <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">actually <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">are; we don\u2019t really think the \u2018holding it on your nose to see if you sneeze\u2019 thing actually works (plus, gross) but you can see if the vibrations make your or your partner\u2019s hand buzz uncomfortably. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Fuel Your Fantasies<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you\u2019ve got a set budget when you enter the store, that doesn\u2019t mean the multitude of products that may currently be beyond your means (hey, even we don\u2019t go buying 10 toys at once) \u00a0can\u2019t inspire your solo sex fantasies AND <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/talk-way-dirty-talking-tips\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dirty talk scenarios<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. A Little Light Role Play<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to role-playing in public (especially a place where people are working) we highly encourage you to be mindful of not forcing your erotic play on unsuspecting (and therefore <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/outrageous-irresponsible-and-criminal-non-consensual-sex-at-a-cinema-near-you\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">non-consenting) bystanders<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Keep your role play low key with scenarios like this: two strangers who meet by chance in the store, the naif having everything explained to them by the expert, the silent partner who must communicate whether or not they want a toy without words &#8211; and based on the vivid explanations of how the other will use it&#8230;the list goes on!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. Play the Guessing Game<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another game that will put you on the track of desire is to guess what each of you would like to own as a sex toy. You go around the shop and each choose the tantalizing tool that makes you want: the other to find. In addition to the playful and naughty aspect of this little game, it will allow you to indirectly <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/kinks-compromise-sharing-fantasies\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reveal the fantasies that you haven\u2019t yet dared to share<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. Dare to be Indiscreet<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Entering a sex shop is not like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/outdoor-sex-tips-succeed-sex-outside\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">having sex outside<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in broad daylight, but there is a little tingling of danger anyway! Afterall, you could run into someone you know &#8211; which is really not that big of a deal, but still, that thrill is exciting for some!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6. Discover the Unknown<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a sex shop, you will also have the opportunity to discover new ways to bring pleasure into the bedroom, and even new definitions for what solo or coupled \u2018pleasure\u2019 means. Some <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bdsm-toys-tips-for-beginners\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM accessories<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in particular will show you that the possibilities of pleasure are vast. Handcuffs are a great place to start <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/get-tied-down-an-illustrated-guide-to-the-top-5-handcuffed-sex-positions\/\">exploring restraint,<\/a> but there are also blindfolds to enhance other senses, paddles or candle wax for exciting new sensations&#8230;the options are endless, and while you may want to try everything you can get your hands on, our next point is a big one&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7. Get Information from the Professionals<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Going to a physical sex shop means that you benefit from the sage wisdom and advice of the people who work there. 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