{"id":20104,"date":"2018-06-28T13:15:03","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T13:15:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=20104"},"modified":"2024-11-18T04:05:05","modified_gmt":"2024-11-18T03:05:05","slug":"what-its-like-being-a-sex-toy-tester-for-lelo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/what-its-like-being-a-sex-toy-tester-for-lelo\/","title":{"rendered":"What It\u2019s REALLY Like Being a Sex Toy Tester for LELO"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ever wonder what it\u2019s like being a sex toy tester for a pleasure company like LELO? I&#8217;m an open book ready to share my experiences with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to this topic, it&#8217;s hard to know where to start. At least, in writing this. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/tinder-online-shopping-experience\/\">When people ask me on Tinder<\/a>, it depends a lot on WHAT they ask &#8211; I\u2019m open about my job because it&#8217;s actually a great tactic in weeding out overly-intimidated or overly-intrigued men, and let\u2019s just say I\u2019m often unamused by the pick up lines and dirty puns they try on me. I&#8217;ve pretty much heard it all at this point.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes up at dinner parties &#8211; it invariably is brought up by someone &#8211; I do my best to brush it off, both because really, it isn\u2019t THAT interesting, and because I don\u2019t always want to have explicit conversations with a group of people I may or may not know well. It&#8217;s also pretty much guaranteed that someone will approach me after with their personal questions or physiological fantasies, and sometimes I just need a break from mixing business and&#8230; <em>well maybe not pleasure,<\/em> but, social life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s primarily in the casual and private conversations with women who don&#8217;t know about my profession that I realize how important my job really is.<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0I don\u2019t glamorize it (because if it\u2019s anything, it\u2019s not that) but even I can start remembering both how exciting and intimidating it can be to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/lelo-recommends-gateway-vibes\/\">look for your first sex toy.<\/a> In the end, I want to make women more orgasmically aware and break down the taboos of sex toys since masturbation is both physically and emotionally beneficial.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keeping all this in mind, I&#8217;ve compiled a list of the most important things to know about being a sex toy tester. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3>You Try Some Weird Stuff<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018Weird\u2019 is, of course, extremely relative, so perhaps I would do better to applaud some of the more \u2018creative\u2019 shapes that my vibrators have come in. A lot of times these odd angles and edges get quite literally smoothed down in the refining process as I give feedback about where the controls are in relation to how I would hold it and such, but still sometimes we end up with some really unique looking sex toys. You&#8217;d also be surprised at how far sex tech has come over the years. There&#8217;s some neat-o and genius stuff out there, and the pleasure landscape is always changing as we discover more about masturbation through science.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>You Spark Some Fun Conversations with Your Partner<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As LELO has quite the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/get-together-best-toys-erotic-coupled-play\/\">collection of couples\u2019 sex toys<\/a>, my boyfriend already has some idea of what to expect when I come home and say \u2018Look what I\u2019ve got from work!\u2019 and I like to think he still finds it fun &#8211; my grilling about the experience directly after the fact perhaps less so, but impressions the day after aren\u2019t always as specific as I need!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>&#8230;And Friends!<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, it&#8217;s hard not to talk about work with my friends. It&#8217;s actually really useful because as someone involved in the product refining process, I get feedback from friends who have different perspectives than mine &#8211; since<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> we are all different (especially when it comes to sexual preferences and desires) after all! I&#8217;ll admit, sometimes I do feel like I&#8217;m living out a &#8220;Sex and The City&#8221; episode. And I&#8217;m of course Carrie Bradshaw.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>You Don\u2019t Always Feel like Testing<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone always makes the assumption that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/where-sex-drive-gone\/\">my sex drive<\/a> is insanely high. Seriously, even if you\u2019re thinking it, maybe don\u2019t ask a relative stranger how many times a day they masturbate. It&#8217;s not a switch that you can just turn on (well, on the toy it is) and there are definitely days when you really just aren&#8217;t in the mood to test. Sometimes you can procrastinate, sometimes you can amp yourself up, and sometimes you just need to get down to business &#8211; like nearly any task at any job!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>But Sometimes You\u2019ll be Surprised!<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most impressive might be the products that you aren\u2019t excited about testing, but actually end in an amazing orgasm anyway! Faking it til you make it can account for a lot, but others, like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sona-cruise-control-actually-work\/\">SONA, use an amazing mix of technology<\/a> that will take you completely by surprise! Laying in your bed and orgasming is definitely a perk of the job, but there is so much more to it. In the end you realize that a sex toy is a tool to what the root of an orgasm really is, which is about being vulnerable in order to achieve a mind-body connection.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever wonder what it\u2019s like being a sex toy tester for a pleasure company like LELO? I&#8217;m an open book ready to share my experiences with you. When it comes to this topic, it&#8217;s hard to know where to start. At least, in writing this. 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