{"id":20280,"date":"2018-07-06T06:30:03","date_gmt":"2018-07-06T06:30:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=20280"},"modified":"2024-07-18T08:10:29","modified_gmt":"2024-07-18T06:10:29","slug":"how-kinky-are-you-quiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/how-kinky-are-you-quiz\/","title":{"rendered":"How Kinky Are You? A Sort-Of Quiz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hey, how kinky are you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your answer is OMG \u2018LOLA\u2019 IS AN ALL-TIME BANGER I LOVE THE KINKS then I would say to you first of all; congrats on that A+ joke and secondly, fist bump. However I\u2019d have to then ask you for a second time \u2018Hey, how kinky are you?\u2019.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At this point I hope you scratch your head and say \u2018Huh. You know what? I\u2019ve never really thought about it. I don\u2019t know.\u2019 because that will be my cue to take you by the hand as we jump into the nearest computer screen so I could literally walk you through this very blog post.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seriously though, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/light-dark-kinky-vanilla-suggestions-add-bdsm-to-the-bedroom\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how kinky are you?<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A healthy sex life is great, but an adventurous sex life, undertaken with a partner you trust, can yield amazing shared benefits. All new heights of intimacy with your partner and exploring new pleasures are just two of the things that await you when you open yourself to the possibilities of stepping outside your lane, sexually speaking.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For the following questions, your answer can lead you to some all-new pleasures that you might not have considered before, so let\u2019s get started.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>What is it about sex that you enjoy the most?<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a) The physical pleasure<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">b) The intimacy of trust<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c) Seeing your partner in a way no one else does<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>If you answered A;<\/strong> what if I told you there was a method to increase your pleasure in a way that will really turn your partner on as well? I\u2019m talking about <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/pegging-what-why-how\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pegging<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, with the explosive pleasure of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/everything-youve-wanted-to-know-and-more-about-prostate-massage-infographic\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">prostate stimulation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and the switch in roles between you and your partner. With a little practice, and a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/personal-moisturizer-review\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">liberal amount of lube<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019ll be sharing an exciting and incredibly pleasurable experience with a partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>For those who answered B,<\/strong> I can tell you that your choice hits on a very important aspect of intimacy. Putting total trust in your partner can pay off in pleasurable dividends, and this is where some light BDSM play can really amp up your experience. Allowing your partner to limit your movements with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sutra-chainlink-cuffs-review\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sensual handcuffs<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/boa-silk-pleasure-ties-review\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erotic pleasure ties<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and giving in to being restrained and pleasured is truly an exercise in trust: will you literally hand your partner the reins?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Was your answer C?<\/strong> I totally get it: seeing your partner in the throes of ecstasy, in a way that nobody else does, can be extremely arousing. Perhaps a way that not even you\u2019ve seen them is when their pleasures are private, in which case\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/mutual-masturb-another-tool-for-your-sex-toy-toolbox\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mutual masturbation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 pleasuring yourselves without touching each other \u2013 can give you an the most personal view of your partner that they\u2019ve perhaps not shown anyone before.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>What level of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/exposing-the-truth-what-is-exhibitionism\/\">exhibitionism<\/a> are you comfortable with?<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a) None at all.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">b) The possibility of being caught or seen excites me. <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c) I want to be seen, and I want those who see me to join in!<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>If you answered A,<\/strong> you\u2019re really not being helpful here. Do you want to get out of your comfort zone and enjoy some increased pleasure or what? You\u2019re in Time Out and I want you to think on that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Moving on to the people who answered B,<\/strong> it sounds like you need to test out some public lovemaking in a controlled setting. Spontaneity isn\u2019t really part of your equation yet, so plan for semi-public places like in a park after dark or on a beach during off-hours are good places to start. Be sure to read our tips on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/9-ways-explore-exhibitionism-public-play\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">having sex in public <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/beach-blanket-bingo-tips-for-sex-in-the-sand-2\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">getting busy on the beach<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to make sure all your bases are covered, and have fun!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Was C your answer?<\/strong> If so, it sounds like you and your partner are ready to graduate to adding some other people to the mix. There are many configurations to try; like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/triple-your-pleasure-with-threesome-advice\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">setting up a threesome <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to spice up your lovemaking, or just another person to watch you and your partner or for you to watch your partner with. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our advice: look up<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/attending-first-sex-party\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sex parties <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in your area and contact the organizers. Go to one with your partner without the expectation to join in and talk to fellow attendees to see whether or not it&#8217;s your scene. If you are both into it, you\u2019ve just opened up a new world of erotic possibilities, and you might even make some new friends!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, how kinky are you? 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