{"id":20928,"date":"2018-10-09T10:37:15","date_gmt":"2018-10-09T10:37:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=20928"},"modified":"2024-09-19T17:40:46","modified_gmt":"2024-09-19T15:40:46","slug":"tips-to-make-oral-better-for-both-partners","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/tips-to-make-oral-better-for-both-partners\/","title":{"rendered":"Oral Sex Tips for Men and Women"},"content":{"rendered":"

How can you improve on an already good thing? Even when it comes to oral sex, it\u2019s surely possible. And no \u2013 I am not talking about making it better for you, the receiver (you selfish little so-and-so!): I\u2019m talkin\u2019 things you can do to make it even better for both you and your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tips for Eating Someone Out<\/h2>\n

Know the Anatomy<\/h3>\n

You haven\u2019t looked at a labeled image of female anatomy since sex ed back in whatever grade in which they teach sex ed where you\u2019re from (ninth grade for me). Now\u2019s the time to bone up on what is where, what does what, and start thinking of what you\u2019re going to do with it. I am serious. This is a big help.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s Not All About the Clit<\/h3>\n

Don\u2019t just focus on the most sensitive part of the vulva \u2013 for some, it can be overwhelming to put all of your focus there. Be sure that your tongue gives every part of the vulva some slow licks, fast jabs, a couple flicks and whatever else the tongue can do. And while you\u2019re doing this, be sure to\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Listen!<\/h3>\n

Keep your ears open while you\u2019re exploring around down there. Listen to the moans \u2013 or lack of them \u2013 to gauge whether what you\u2019re doing is being enjoyed. You\u2019re not just eating pussy \u2013 you\u2019re mapping out the vagina using TONGUE SONAR. Congrats, you are now a Navy Seal or something.<\/span><\/p>\n

Use Your Hands<\/h3>\n

While you\u2019re doing all of these things, your hands should be roaming all over; cup your partner\u2019s ass cheeks, spread their vaginal lips to gain better access, heck \u2013 finger them while you\u2019re focusing your tongue on their clit \u2013 bottom line here is that your hands and what you\u2019re doing with them are also a big part of eating oral sex.<\/span><\/p>\n

Use a Toy<\/h3>\n

Maybe even better than receiving oral sex from a partner is receiving it from a device designed specifically for that purpose. There are a couple of sex toys out there that can either <\/span>replicate the feeling of oral sex<\/span><\/a>, or provide <\/span>clitoral pleasure that\u2019s just out-of-this-world<\/span><\/a>. Handing one of these to your partner as you stimulate them everywhere else might just be the next best thing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tips for Blowjobs<\/h2>\n

Truth be told, these tips for giving head aren\u2019t nearly as in depth mainly due to the fact that it simply doesn\u2019t require the same nuance and focus as performing cunnilingus, but here are the tips that will make it more enjoyable for both of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Get Comfortable<\/h3>\n

Fun fact: blowjobs definitely DON\u2019T need to be given from a kneeling position; just him lying on his back and you lying alongside him on your stomach will have you both much more comfortable.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hydration Is Necessary<\/h3>\n

Aside from a bit of pre-cum, the penis doesn\u2019t lubricate itself. Definitely get in a glass of water before you begin; extra spit will allow you to run you hand up and down the shaft in order to give your mouth a periodic break if you need one. A bit of <\/span>lube<\/span><\/a> really helps in a pinch for this too.<\/span><\/p>\n

Give \u2018Em Something To Look At<\/h3>\n

Males are very visual creatures; rubbing on yourself or masturbating while going down on him just might be the thing that puts him over the edge, but\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Get Self-Conscious<\/h3>\n

Not everybody looks good when they\u2019re giving a blowjob. But everybody looks good when they\u2019re enjoying themselves and earnestly trying to please their partner. Relax about the optics and focus on the amount of pleasure you\u2019re giving.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ask What They’re Liking<\/h3>\n

Of course this goes for any kind of oral you\u2019re giving, but when it comes to a guy, they\u2019ll tell you the how\u2019s and what\u2019s ASA-friggin-P in order to keep the pleasure coming, because they were probably close to coming anyways!<\/span><\/p>\n

Related:<\/strong><\/p>\n

What Does Vagina Taste Like?<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

50 Blowjob Tips He’ll Love<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Beginner’s Guide To Deepthroating<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How can you improve on an already good thing? Even when it comes to oral sex, it\u2019s surely possible. And no \u2013 I am not talking about making it better for you, the receiver (you selfish little so-and-so!): I\u2019m talkin\u2019 things you can do to make it even better for both you and your partner. Tips for Eating Someone Out Know the Anatomy You haven\u2019t looked at a labeled image of female anatomy since sex ed back in whatever grade […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":101,"featured_media":20929,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[915],"tags":[541,637],"coauthors":[951],"class_list":["post-20928","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-oral-sex","tag-oral-sex","tag-sex-tips"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nImproving Your Oral Sex Technique - For Both Partners<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Wow your partner with even better oral sex by following this simple advice for going down on your boyfriend or girlfriend\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/tips-to-make-oral-better-for-both-partners\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Improving Your Oral Sex Technique - 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