{"id":22666,"date":"2019-01-11T01:00:16","date_gmt":"2019-01-11T01:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=22666"},"modified":"2024-07-23T03:06:29","modified_gmt":"2024-07-23T01:06:29","slug":"hooking-up-at-a-house-party-5-tips-for-sneaky-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/hooking-up-at-a-house-party-5-tips-for-sneaky-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Hooking Up at a House Party: 5 Tips for Sneaky Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"

There are many reasons why you might want to get it on while everyone else is getting down at a house party: maybe you and your partner have had crazy busy schedules and this is literally the only night off for the whole week, maybe you and your crush are really hitting off, or heck, you\u2019re hitting it off with someone you\u2019ve just met.<\/span><\/p>\n

Either way, <\/span>quickies can be hot<\/span><\/a>, and hooking up in secret doubly so, but if you\u2019re in a house that\u2019s bumpin\u2019 with 200 people, stealth sex is going to take some skill. Here\u2019s our how to on hook ups in the middle of a house party.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Clothing & Accessories<\/h2>\n

Preparing for party sex happens before you even arrive. You\u2019ll want your clothing choices to tread the line between fly and functional; you want to look and feel confident but you don\u2019t want to be awkwardly trying to arrange your outfit after the fact. Button up shirts, for example, are just asking to be done up wrong and you\u2019ll definitely get called out and roasted by your best friends – or snickered at by people you don\u2019t really know. <\/span><\/p>\n

As well, make sure you\u2019re not caught without <\/span>condoms<\/span><\/a>\u00a0or breath mints because safety first (duh) and also, absolutely no one genuinely enjoys the taste of cheap beer the first time around, and it\u2019s not any better when it\u2019s on your breath.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Location<\/h2>\n

Unless <\/span>you\u2019re attending a sex party,<\/span><\/a> we\u2019re going to assume that it\u2019s not cool to go at it in the middle of the living room. First of all, unless one of the hosts is your bff and gives you the \u2018okay,\u2019 do not use their bedroom – it\u2019s presumptuous at best, to say nothing of a bit gross. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Secondly, don\u2019t take up one of the bathrooms unless there are at least 2 other washroom options. Not only is it a logistical nightmare to take up a washroom when other people might have just broken the seal or be sick, it\u2019s just common sense not to use the main-floor washroom when you\u2019re trying to be sneaky. Try closets in unoccupied, low-traffic hallways, laundry rooms, or outside, well away from the smoking group or street traffic. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Timing<\/h2>\n

Utmost stealth in this situation is unfortunately going to mean missing some of the best party moments. You will want to aim for the time when merry-making is in full swing and it\u2019s crowded (ie not when you\u2019re still hanging out in the group you arrived with) but you can\u2019t wait until too late in the evening, lest the crowd has started to thin out and your disappearance\/reappearance in noticed. Or worse, you and your partner duck away and then return to a near-empty party.<\/span><\/p>\n

For reasons listed above, you\u2019ll want to make sure this all goes down rather quickly, so it pays to start the foreplay early, either by hitting the dance floor where your grinding won\u2019t weird people out like it would if you\u2019re standing by the bar or by using a <\/span>discreet app-controlled sex toy<\/span><\/a> if you and your party sex-ee have thought ahead.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Alibi<\/h2>\n

Now, your alibi for where you were is going to affect your entrance and exit strategy. If you\u2019re going with the \u2018I am feeling sick, and this nice person is helping me!\u2019 2-person rush to a washroom, that speaks for itself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now if you\u2019ve agreed to meet your friend-of-the-hour in a closet, you\u2019ll want to go for the 1 person at a time drift in and out. If someone questions your random descent from the upstairs, maybe you were looking for another bathroom, or maybe you had been MIA for the past 20 minutes because you had gone out for some air.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. A Friend on the Outside<\/h2>\n

What sets the best wing-man\/woman apart is not just how well they help chat up someone cute, it\u2019s that they\u2019re there for you in times of need. Sometimes, you might be finishing up your kisses and\/or unclothed cuddles in the closet only to hear that a crowd has formed in the hallway. Shoot your friend an SOS text to create a diversion (surprisingly hard to pull off casually) or at least give you an all clear.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There are many reasons why you might want to get it on while everyone else is getting down at a house party: maybe you and your partner have had crazy busy schedules and this is literally the only night off for the whole week, maybe you and your crush are really hitting off, or heck, you\u2019re hitting it off with someone you\u2019ve just met. 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