{"id":24122,"date":"2019-07-08T14:01:17","date_gmt":"2019-07-08T12:01:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=24122"},"modified":"2024-08-19T06:28:33","modified_gmt":"2024-08-19T04:28:33","slug":"college-sex-experience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/college-sex-experience\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Guide To a Sexy, Safe &#038; Guilt-Free College Sex Experience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Goodbye high school, hello adulthood!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarking on the college experience is both exhilarating and frightening at the same time. And if you\u2019re brand new to the game, you\u2019re in for one heck of a rollercoaster adventure (for the old-timers, you know what we\u2019re talking about!).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whichever phase of college you\u2019re in though, the following tips will prove invaluable when it comes to your sex life. Because, let\u2019s face it, YOYO (You\u2019re Only Young Once).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With that, you can consider this your official guide to sexy, safe, and guilt-free college sex! Exciting times ahead, indeed.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Experimenting in College\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Long are the days where being who you truly are is something to be embarrassed about. And while kids in high school love to bully, make fun of, and ridicule those who are different to them, college is all about discovering who you are, what and who you like, and enjoying it!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Individuality is cool in college!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if you\u2019ve always wanted to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/triple-your-pleasure-with-threesome-advice\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">try a threesome<\/span><\/a>\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; go for it! If you have bi-curious feelings, embrace them! If you\u2019ve been hiding your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/lgbtq-pride-month\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexual orientation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or gender aspirations, let it out! Be you, unapologetically! College is the time for experimenting!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Places to \u201cDo It\u201d<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you live in a dorm and have a roommate, this may not be the best place to have naughty fun. It sucks, but it\u2019s true.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For one, it\u2019s kind of disrespectful. And two &#8211; those who you share a room with, or those who live near to you (picture the dorm room next door, and those staying directly above and below you) need not know the intimate details of your sex life (i.e. sex noises). It could lead to embarrassment, gossip, and rumors.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you do feel comfortable doing it in your dorm room, and you\u2019ve gotten the go-ahead from a roommate who\u2019s often out, enjoy the heck out of it &#8211; at your own risk.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you or your partner live alone off-campus, this is an ideal situation. If not, you could go for:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A car (again, at your own risk as you could face legal issues)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A cheap motel (or a fancy hotel if you can afford it)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A very <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/outdoor-sex-tips-succeed-sex-outside\/\">discrete public space<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Choosing a public space however also holds a big risk, as <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/public-sex-legal\/\">sex in public is illegal in many parts of the world<\/a>. Do your research, and be extremely careful.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then, preparing for your sexy fun&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A DIY One Night Stand Kit<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In an ideal world, you\u2019ll be ready for wild, crazy sex with whomever, at any given time. Sex that not only evokes passionate ecstasy, but also sex that doesn\u2019t result in anything undesirable the next day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But guess what? Having this kind of experience is actually within your power. And it\u2019s so easy to prepare.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><strong>For Women:<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re hoping to get lucky on a night out, ditch the clutch bag. It may look classy and it may match your outfit, but for the sake of good and stress-free sex, choose a purse that\u2019s adequately-sized. In it, you will have:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Flat shoes (if you\u2019re wearing heels)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A T-shirt or hoodie, and a pair of jeans (roll them up, they won\u2019t take up that much space).<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make-up remover wipes (and basic make-up if you fancy)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A small deodorant or perfume (a tester perfume, for example)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">An external phone charger<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/survey-ladies-carrying-condoms-is-it-enough\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Condoms<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4><strong>For Men:<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lucky for men, they need a lot less in order to experience a sexual adventure. You\u2019ll need:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/6-reasons-to-enjoy-using-condoms\/\">Condoms<\/a>, preferably in a cool, dry space<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/15-common-mistakes-that-make-condoms-less-effective\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t store a condom in your wallet or in your pocket<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, as heat and friction may compromise its quality. Instead, get one of those small metal tins (like the ones some breath mints come in) or a case for glasses. In this way, it has some breathing space and cannot overheat.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4><strong>Men and Women:<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider carrying one of those mini travel toothbrushes and toothpaste with you for minty freshness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And when it comes to the walk of shame, try to avoid strutting the streets 30 minutes to one hour before the first class starts in the morning.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Better yet, if you time your exit so that it is during class time, you might be able to dodge anyone you know as well as loads of other people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, it\u2019s time to get down to business! Follow these seven tips, and enjoy your college sex experience while being safe&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7 Essential Tips to Doing College Sex Right<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">College is a time for young adults to develop and apply their critical thinking skills, exercise their new-found freedom, engage in problem solving, and expand their social networks. It\u2019s also a time that\u2019s usually fuelled with lots and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/is-casual-sex-good-for-you-well-it-depends\/\">lots of casual sex<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That, coupled with racing hormones, is a recipe for uninhibited, and sometimes careless, fun. Fear not however, these tips will help you to enjoy the ride(s), safely and sophisticatedly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Condoms<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have a lot of them. Not just in your nightstand or in the bathroom cupboard, but in every going out purse or on your person. The chances of going home with the cute guy\/girl at the bar after flirting are high, and you definitely want to be prepared for it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Drinks<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Drinking in large amounts is basically a prerequisite of going to college, granted, but try to do so in moderation. This is for a number of reasons:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At college-going age, your body may still be getting used to the effects of copious amounts of alcohol. This could prove quite a challenge when it comes to knowing your limits.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting too drunk often leads to bad decision making like unprotected sex, and can lead to regret, remorse, guilt, and perhaps even <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/apps-safe-sexy-selfie-sharing\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the spread of photos\/videos of your sexual tryst<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting too drunk could lead to dangerous situations, such as date rape and physical altercations.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may not remember the acts of the night before, nor how your sexual partner will react the next day, or what they\u2019ll tell others.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Governments worldwide have really begun cracking down on campus date rape cases. For that reason, it will be extremely difficult for the accused to defend themselves. Too much alcohol would only make this situation a lot worse.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s the moral of the story? <strong>Don\u2019t get too drunk<\/strong>, it could change motives, and literally ruin lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Lube On-Hand<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many women may have a difficult time producing natural lubrication. And <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/experiencing-pain-sex-youre-not-alone\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">having sex while dry can be very painful<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and unpleasant. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/all-lubed-up-ready-to-go-why-and-how-to-use-lube\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep lube on-hand and use it generously<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No one ever died from using too much lube, so why not make it a firework-worthy experience?<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. No Means No<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having great sex during college is all about feeling sexually satisfied, empowered, and happy. And before anything (we mean, anything!) happens, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/consent\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">make sure both parties consent<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cMaybe\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> doesn\u2019t mean yes, and <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI\u2019m not sure\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> doesn\u2019t mean yes either. <strong>Yes means yes<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Additionally, you or your partner need not even give verbal consent for the message to be received, as body language can, too, tell a lot about a person\u2019s feelings and experiences. Use your better judgment and respect the one you\u2019re with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And for those who find themselves pressured into having sex, or feel as though they\u2019re not sure if they want to do it &#8211; listen to your gut.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Regret and guilt is an awful feeling, and it\u2019s not as fleeting as the satisfaction you and or your partner may feel during your short-lived sexual experience. Sex is cool&#8230;when you both want it!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. Don\u2019t Go Straight for Gold\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Someone <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/human-sexuality-cycle-by-age\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">older and\/or more sexually experienced<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> than you will likely tell you that sex gets better with a partner over time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stress-free sex during a one night stand can definitely be enjoyable, sure, so don\u2019t doubt that. But, if you\u2019re starting to see someone &#8211; in a relationship or \u2018<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/friends-with-benefits\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">friends with benefits<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2019 capacity, don\u2019t expect the world to catch on fire the first time, and try not to get too kinky and crazy at first.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you become more comfortable with someone, the foreplay naturally gets hotter, and your passionate meetings become more experimental. Start slow, and build up that sexual tension.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6. Mind the Crazies<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While we don\u2019t enjoy calling anyone \u2018crazy\u2019 you may want to do a little social media stalking or digging around about the person you\u2019re planning to sex up.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you get mixed up with someone who has bad intentions, or someone who gets bitter and revengeful if they\u2019re dumped, they may resort to savage and criminal behaviour, like revenge porn.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7. Sex vs. Porno-Style Sex<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s be 100 percent crystal clear: (college) sex is not going to be like the porn you watch.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner probably won\u2019t be able to bend so ridiculously.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She may not swallow, and he might not go down on you until you scream with pure joy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/squirting-its-not-what-you-think\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not all women squirt<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and not all men can refrain from coming after a few minutes.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every guy doesn\u2019t have a rocking six-pack, and every woman doesn\u2019t have <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">perky big breasts<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and a lady part that\u2019s fully shaved and smooth.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s not real life, we\u2019re sorry.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> real life is having respect for your fellow human beings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, with that, we present\u2026 the girl\/guy code.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Girl\/Guy Code<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is an informal and friendly bit of advice that\u2019ll keep you in the good books with your close friends, housemates, and peers.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are a few things to consider:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t sleep with your friend\u2019s ex or someone that they\u2019ve really got their eye on.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Get the location of your friend if he or she is going on a first date, for safety reasons.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rescue your friend if they\u2019re been annoyed, harassed, or hit on by someone they\u2019re not interested in.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t let your friends walk home alone, especially women and drunk friends.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let your friend know if their partner is cheating on them.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siblings are off-limits (unless given the go-ahead)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always carry extra condoms in case of an emergency\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t fight over a girl\/guy<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t leave your friend alone with someone if you feel they may be unsafe, or if they could be in harm\u2019s way.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be a good wingwoman\/wingman.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t let a friend wearing beer goggles go home with someone that they\u2019ll regret.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be available for friends experiencing <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/getting-over-your-ex-a-step-by-step-guide\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">post-break up heartache<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And just for the lols, here are a couple of things you can look forward to during your college sex experience\u2026 not!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Things You\u2019ll Only Experience During College Sex<\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Twin Bed or Bunk Bed Sex:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Two persons on one single bed, bodies intertwined in lust, and limbs hanging off the mattress&#8230;not fun.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Being Exiled:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> When your roommate is getting it on with the cute blonde they spotted, you\u2019ve got to wait patiently in the hallway or go out.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>69:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> It\u2019s really not that fun, let\u2019s be honest.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Communal Shower Sex: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When trying to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">have a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/better-wetter-top-tips-amazing-shower-sex\/\">quickie<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in a shower where ten or more people have literally just been, and seeing pubes on the wall\u2026 grossness ensues.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Bumping into Partners: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your 9 a.m. lecture with the person you bumped uglies with the night before. Cringe.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Finding Sex-Friendly Locations:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> It\u2019s hard, let\u2019s just say that.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Being Spotted During a Walk of Shame: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doing the ol\u2019 walk of shame on campus means you\u2019ll probably run into someone you know.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But on a more serious note, here are two important things to remember when it comes to college sex (and sex in general):<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Honesty Hour<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As hard as this may be, you should always <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/dear-lelo-tell-partner-sti\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be honest with your partner if you have any STI\u2019s<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or if you\u2019re living with HIV\/AIDS.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, in many places worldwide it is considered criminally and civilly illegal to have sex with someone without disclosing this information.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Laws aside, it\u2019s unfair and dangerous to sleep with someone without letting them know. It\u2019s sneaky, underhanded, and selfish. And while it is an awkward conversation to have &#8211; it is an absolutely necessary one.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Get Educated on Campus<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most (if not all) colleges provide easy access to one or more <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">health centers<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here, you\u2019ll most likely have <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">free condoms<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> available to you, receive information about sexual health, be able to get support and be tested for STI\u2019s, HIV\/AIDS, and get a pregnancy test.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Additionally, familiarize yourself with campus security. Be sure to have their phone number in your phone, memorize it, and use it under any threatening or uncomfortable situations.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, source places of safety and public phones beforehand, should something happen to your mobile.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That concludes our super handsy, I mean handy, guide to sexy, safe and guilt-free college sex! Go forth, embrace your horniness, experiment and enjoy, but above all else &#8211; be safe!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Goodbye high school, hello adulthood!\u00a0 Embarking on the college experience is both exhilarating and frightening at the same time. And if you\u2019re brand new to the game, you\u2019re in for one heck of a rollercoaster adventure (for the old-timers, you know what we\u2019re talking about!). Whichever phase of college you\u2019re in though, the following tips will prove invaluable when it comes to your sex life. 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