{"id":24379,"date":"2019-08-09T14:07:18","date_gmt":"2019-08-09T12:07:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=24379"},"modified":"2024-08-24T05:41:43","modified_gmt":"2024-08-24T03:41:43","slug":"phone-sex-for-beginners","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/phone-sex-for-beginners\/","title":{"rendered":"Phone Sex for Beginners: How To Do Phone Sex Right!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Even though we\u2019ve come a long way in terms of <\/span>sex and technology<\/span><\/a>, the sex toy industry, <\/span>sex apps for better sex<\/span><\/a>, and other various ways to get off, there are still a ton of people taking advantage of phone sex.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s changed in the past two decades, however, is the people can have phone sex at no cost\u2026 without whipping out their credit card details. And it\u2019s not just over a phone call, either.\u00a0<\/span>Now, we\u2019re looking at sexting<\/a>, skype sex<\/a> and essentially sex-messaging and video over any communication platform.<\/span><\/p>\n

For that reason, a little lesson on how to do phone sex right is something we all can benefit from.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What Is Phone Sex?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Phone sex is having sexually explicit conversations with another human over the telephone. It\u2019s the intimate moment of describing sexual acts, <\/span>fantasies<\/span><\/a>, <\/span>fetishes<\/span>, kinks, and role play ideas<\/a> with another which may induce <\/span>mutual masturbation<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

While it sounds simple, like sex, the direction in which it may go varies considerably from couple to couple.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sexting is simply the same principle, but via text. It\u2019s a less intimidating way to get to know the person you\u2019re talking to, sexually, and is an opportunity to swap sexy photos and videos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Today, we\u2019re going to take a look at phone sex for beginners, the old-fashioned way. That is, by talking!<\/span><\/p>\n

11 Pro Phone Sex Tips for Beginners<\/span><\/h2>\n

Even though this practice has been around for quite some time, there are still a few individuals who are absolute newbies. Which is why we\u2019ve compiled a little guide on how to immerse yourself into the world of getting off with a partner, via a telephone or mobile. Ready?<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Save the Giggles<\/span><\/h3>\n

Sure, it may feel weird and awkward at first<\/span>, but giggling can make erections and growing desires quickly disappear<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

And even if you feel comfortable with the person you\u2019re talking to, having a giggle only ruins the sexy fun \u2013 especially if you\u2019re laughing at your partner who\u2019s revealing his or her deepest, darkest fantasie<\/a>s, as it\u2019ll probably make them feel self-conscious and insecure.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Prepare: Feel Sexy<\/span><\/h3>\n

To be authentically sexy, you\u2019re going to want to<\/span> feel<\/span><\/i> sexy, so set the mood. Wear slinky lingerie or smooth boxer shorts that feel good against your intimate parts, light some candles<\/a>, look at or <\/span>share some filthy pictures or videos<\/span><\/a>\u2026 whatever arouses you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Then, choose a time and place that gives you ultimate privacy. Your sexual phone experience is like stepping into a different world where your daily troubles don\u2019t exists. So try to remove all distractions like screaming children, barking dogs, and friends or family who may interrupt you.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Learn the Lingo<\/span><\/h3>\n

For some, hearing certain words during phone sex can be a major turn-off. And if you\u2019re the type of person who feels strange using the anatomical words of body parts, for example, avoid it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Perhaps the word \u2018boobs\u2019 makes you feel silly, or you can\u2019t stand to say the word \u2018cock\u2019. If so, don\u2019t do it. Find the words that you\u2019re comfortable with, and stick to those to ensure sexiness and comfortability.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Technological Success<\/span><\/h3>\n

You may think that because we\u2019re so advanced in technology, issues such as a poor internet connection couldn\u2019t possibly ruin your phone sex fun\u2026 but it really can.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make sure to charge your phone sufficiently, to be in a good wifi or mobile data zone, and make use of tech accessories if it\u2019ll make you feel more comfortable, like a BlueTooth headset or airpods.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Calm the Nerves<\/span><\/h3>\n

While we don\u2019t really recommend getting hammered beforehand, perhaps <\/span>a glass of wine may help you to feel more sexually calm and comfortable<\/span><\/a>. Or maybe a warm bath or looking at some erotically-charged material can get you in the right mood. Go ahead and allow yourself to feel good for your bit of fun.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Use Your Voice<\/span><\/h3>\n

Being excited is sexy, but sounding excited\u2026 like a kid on Christmas, is not. Try to lower your voice an octave, and speak slowly and clearly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

And for those non-voice moments, use your breathing and noises accordingly. You don\u2019t need to sound like a porn actress, but try to incorporate a few auditory sounds that feel natural and you\u2019ll hit all the right spots.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Prepare for the Shock Factor<\/span><\/h3>\n

Phone sex is an opportunity to escape into a beautiful and erotic world. And when two people feel safe enough to talk about their deepest desires and fantasies, it\u2019s up to both of you to be in a non-judgemental space. It\u2019s almost like <\/span>playing a little game<\/a> of foreplay<\/span> before seeing each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your partner describes a scene of <\/span>facesitting<\/span><\/a> or if they throw out a few <\/span>rough sex ideas<\/span><\/a>, it\u2019s not the time or place to get judgy or to laugh. Instead, play along.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, it is just a fantasy and a bit of fun. It doesn\u2019t always mean that that\u2019s something you\u2019ll actually have to do. And, who knows, it may introduce new ideas if you see each other in real life.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Filling the Empty Spaces<\/span><\/h3>\n

There is no promise that your first or even your 100th phone sex session will go smoothly. And just like any other conversation in life, you may find yourself with a few awkward silences. In that time, use your go-to phrases.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

These are ordinary, run-of-the-mill questions like, \u201c<\/span>Do you like that?<\/span><\/i>\u201d \u201c<\/span>Do you like it when I do xyz?\u201d<\/span><\/i> or \u201c<\/span>If I were there right now, what would you do to me?\u201d.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You could also add in a few <\/span>dirty talk teaser lines<\/span><\/a> such as, <\/span>\u201cI\u2019m getting so wet\/hard,\u201d \u201cI want you in my mouth right now,\u201d<\/span><\/i> or \u201c<\/span>You taste so good, <\/span><\/i>I want to kiss you all over!<\/span><\/i>\u201d<\/span><\/i>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Create a Visual<\/span><\/h3>\n

Visual sexual stimulation<\/span><\/a>, especially for men, plays a huge part in feeling turned on. Use your best vocab to describe what you\u2019re wearing, where you are, what you\u2019re doing, where you\u2019re touching yourself, or even describing the perfect erotic scene<\/a> that you know will drive them wild.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Note, you don\u2019t actually have to be wearing or doing these things! Even if you\u2019re in your most comfortable pajamas, you can create the perfect imagery of wearing a <\/span>tight see-through piece of lingerie<\/span> that is exposing your hard nipples, tight boxers that show off your massive bulge, or being totally <\/span>naked<\/span> and horny.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

10. Let Them Know What You Want<\/span><\/h3>\n

Phone sex is the perfect opportunity to let your partner know what really gets you hot<\/a><\/span>. And in this way, it\u2019s not only a fleeting moment of passion, but also a little insight for them to know what you want in the bedroom.<\/span><\/p>\n

For example, if you\u2019re a woman who needs <\/span>clitoral stimulation to orgasm<\/span><\/a>, put a lot of focus on this part of the body so that they know it. And if you\u2019re a guy who loves having his balls played with or licked during a blowjob<\/a>, make sure to mention it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This gives your partner an inkling into your sexual preferences so that when you two meet in person, <\/span>your play time can be even better<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. Text First<\/span><\/h3>\n

Everyone has a life, and even if yours is more interesting or busy than your partners, you can\u2019t expect them to put everything aside when you decide to call them up for some fun. Start off by texting them something suggestive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Write them a simple yet effective text, like <\/span>\u201cI have a sexy surprise for you\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/i> or <\/span>\u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about the naughty things we did last night.\u201d <\/span><\/i>Gauge the moment, allow them to respond when they\u2019re able to, and then ease into the dirty talk.<\/span><\/p>\n

Texting also works for <\/span>those who feel exceedingly shy to do the whole \u2018speaking\u2019 thing<\/span><\/a>. It\u2019s a non-threatening and <\/span>more comfortable way<\/a> to express your deepest desires<\/span> without feeling embarrassed or intimidated.<\/span><\/p>\n

The History of the Telephone and Phone Sex<\/span><\/h2>\n

The telephone was invented in 1876 by Alexander Graham Bell, and was a way in which to connect with loved ones without delay. By 1904, three million households in the U.S. had an active phone line, and that number only grew exponentially.<\/span><\/p>\n

But when did all this phone sex tomfoolery begin? Personal <\/span>phone sex<\/span><\/a> has been said to be \u2018a thing\u2019 since the turn of the 20th century. But it was only in 1977 that the phone sex industry took off\u2026 and we have Gloria Leonard partly to thank.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gloria was one of the first mainstream porn stars who later became the edtior of the porn magazine, <\/span>High Society<\/span><\/i>. In her role, she launched the first phone sex line which was used to promote the magazine.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This pay-per-minute concept was, at first, a recorded female voice saying a few sexy phrases. But as curiosity peaked, it was more than obvious that the live version would be a lot more successful. And voila, phone sex was born.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

So, are you ready to rock your partner\u2019s (and your own) world? Start slow and see how you like it. If it\u2019s not for you, you can tick something off the sex bucket list and get on with your life. No harm, no foul!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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