{"id":24418,"date":"2019-08-20T14:04:31","date_gmt":"2019-08-20T12:04:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=24418"},"modified":"2024-08-24T06:00:22","modified_gmt":"2024-08-24T04:00:22","slug":"why-spooning-sex-is-the-best-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/why-spooning-sex-is-the-best-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Spooning Sex is the Best Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"

As far as sexual positions<\/a> go, there\u2019s a lot to be loved when it comes to sex in the spooning position. <\/span>On lazy mornings<\/span><\/a> or at times when you and your partner are lying on the couch together streaming a show, spooning sex is one of those things that can organically come up, and we\u2019re thankful whenever it does.<\/span><\/p>\n

Weird thing is though, many people don\u2019t consider spooning sex to be among the best positions, citing the super-relaxed nature of it as \u2018lazy\u2019 and even \u2018unsexy\u2019 \u2013 but these people couldn\u2019t be more wrong. Here are some of the reasons that, whether you\u2019re big spoon<\/a> or little spoon, the <\/span>spooning sex position<\/span> is great, and how you can make it even better!<\/span><\/p>\n

The Benefits of Spooning Sex<\/h2>\n

Intimacy<\/h3>\n

When done straight up, no-acrobatics or ninety-degree angles, having sex in the spooning position brings you very close, physically, to your partner. Their entire body will be against yours, and vice-versa, meaning you get the sensation of warmth and closeness from your partner all the way through.<\/span><\/p>\n

G-Spot Stimulation<\/h3>\n

For foolproof <\/span>G-spot stimulation<\/a> during lovemaking<\/span>, the spooning position puts the male partner\u2019s penis in just the right angle to <\/span>stimulate the G-spot<\/span> without having to pull off some unnatural body contortions.<\/span><\/p>\n

Check this out: The Best G-spot Vibrators<\/a><\/p>\n

Simplicity<\/h3>\n

Having sex in the spooning position is so simple, and so simply great, that it can feel like cheating. However one huge benefit of the ease is that it allows you to truly focus on the pleasure you\u2019re feeling, and the pleasure you\u2019re giving your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Honestly, what\u2019s not to love about it? The best thing of all about having sex in the spoon position is that it can be made even better with a few easy tweaks, like for instance\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

How To Make Spooning Sex Even Better<\/h2>\n

Take Advantage of Frontal Access<\/h3>\n

The big spoon is in a unique position here to be able to touch and tease so much of their partner\u2019s body, while the small spoon\u2026 can touch the big spoon\u2019s butt I guess. The onus is on the big spoon to make the most of this by teasing the nipples, stroking the breasts and torso and just generally getting handsy in the way that the small spoon will appreciate.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hands-Free Humping<\/h3>\n

One beautiful aspect of having sex while spooning is that you\u2019ve both got your hands free. So while the big spoon is busying himself with holding his partner\u2019s hips or teasing her breasts, the small spoon is free to pleasure herself with a <\/span>small clitoral vibrator<\/span><\/a> to take her pleasures to all-new heights. Depending on the level of sensation the little spoon needs, she may opt for <\/span>a palm-sized vibrator<\/a><\/span> that is easy to manipulate, or if they need a lot more extra \u2018oomph\u2019 to get them over the edge, there are always <\/span>super-powered wand vibrators<\/span><\/a> that pack some intense pleasures.<\/span><\/p>\n

Foreplay Is Your Friend<\/h3>\n

As special advice for the big spoon (male) partner, you should not forego foreplay when you\u2019re planning to have sex while spooning. Because the position is so relaxed with very little (actually no) focus on balance or weight support, it is very easy to prematurely ejaculate when you\u2019re in this position. So to make the most of what little time you might have in this position, make sure you put a <\/span>special focus on foreplay<\/span><\/a> to have your small spoon already halfway to climax by the time you get started.<\/span><\/p>\n

As long as you begin your session with some stroking, kissing<\/a> and <\/span>definitely cunnilingus<\/span><\/a>, you\u2019ll be sure that your small spoon partner will be ready for the fun to come. In fact, foreplay and spooning sex is one of them most common ways for partners to experience a simultaneous orgasm together because of all the benefits we\u2019ve mentioned above.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, what are you waiting for? It\u2019s the easiest position to initiate \u2013 simply roll over to your partner and get started!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

As far as sexual positions go, there\u2019s a lot to be loved when it comes to sex in the spooning position. On lazy mornings or at times when you and your partner are lying on the couch together streaming a show, spooning sex is one of those things that can organically come up, and we\u2019re thankful whenever it does. Weird thing is though, many people don\u2019t consider spooning sex to be among the best positions, citing the super-relaxed nature of […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":101,"featured_media":24419,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[779],"tags":[73],"coauthors":[951],"class_list":["post-24418","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-positions","tag-sex-position"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nHow to Have Even Better Spooning Sex<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"It\u2019s the easiest of them all, which is part of why having sex while spooning is one of the best positions to try with your partner.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" 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