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September is here and so is your chance to reignite and intensify your passionate sex life. It\u2019s a good reminder that giving can be incredibly rewarding, so get between the sheets and celebrate Pleasure Your Mate Month (which is guaranteed to offer you some pleasure, too) by trying something new. Finally, a sexual holiday that lasts not one, but thirty, orgasmic days.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Go Somewhere New<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s totally normal to get bored of the bedroom and want to change up the environment. Please keep in mind that <\/span>public sex can be legally risky<\/span><\/a>, and although that\u2019s part of the rush and fun for some people, there are a lot of \u201cprivate\u201d public spaces that can be just as fun without all the risk. What do we mean by \u201cprivate\u201d public spaces? Somewhere that has a lock on the door. For example, a beach restroom, dressing room, or <\/span>even your parked car<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

And if this element of being semi-public just isn\u2019t for you, you can also plan a little romantic getaway. Go to that place you\u2019ve both always talked about going to, and make an effort to focus on each other for the entirety of the getaway. Put the phones down, leave the work and stress at home, and dust off the pleasure treasure chest you wish you frequented more. If you don\u2019t have time for a staycation, <\/span>take a trip to the sex shop<\/span><\/a> as a couple and create your wildest fantasies right at home.<\/span><\/p>\n

Be Someone New<\/h2>\n

Explore your sexual power! Switching up the power dynamic can be an eye-opener to couples who have been stuck in a rut or thinking about trying something new. Switching from a dominant to a submissive, or vice versa, can help us gain a new perspective, literally and mentally, during intimacy and help us understand our partners better. While <\/span>pegging<\/span><\/a>, which generally refers to a ciswoman penetrating their heterosexual male partners, might be too much too soon for you, start by simply changing up who\u2019s on top and experimenting with new positions.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sexual roleplay<\/span><\/a> can also help partners communicate their inner inhibitions far beyond the classic teacher\/student or nurse\/patient scenes without the fear of being judged by their partners. There are also a ton of wearable accessories from <\/span>couples massagers<\/span><\/a> (if you\u2019re really looking for a thrill, wear them in public) to <\/span>nipple clamps<\/span>. If you\u2019re a guy who\u2019s adamant about leaving an impression in the bedroom, check out this <\/span>tux that is taking penis fashion by storm<\/a>. Your partner won\u2019t be able to resist going gentle on your gentleman.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Feel Something New<\/h2>\n

Indulging all of your senses can also heighten your stimulation in the bedroom. Ever tried dragging a cold spoon across your blindfolded lover\u2019s body? Or tickling them ever so lightly with a <\/span>suede whip<\/span><\/a>? There are a <\/span>ton of mild sensation plays<\/span><\/a> you can introduce to feel incredibly erotic by typically blocked senses.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Now is also the time to communicate to your partner if you want to try something new, as in try <\/span>somewhere<\/span><\/i> new on your body. The beautiful and intriguing thing about sexuality is that it is a total evolution over your lifetime. What you said you would have never have been willing to try x years ago could be something that\u2019s peaked your interest as of late. Maybe you\u2019re <\/span>curious about anal sex<\/span><\/a>, maybe you want to <\/span>connect on a more spiritual level<\/span><\/a>. Whatever it may be, utilize this September\u2019s Pleasure Your Mate Month to discover your partner\u2019s desires and rekindle your intimacy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Taste Something New<\/h2>\n

The integration of food and sex isn\u2019t something new. This combination dates back many centuries and even Cleopatra considered eating a sexually pleasurable activity of indulgement. In fact, \u201cFood is like sex\u2014a natural appetite.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

There are many ways to incorporate food into pleasuring your partner, directly and indirectly. You can <\/span>add fun foods to your oral love making<\/span><\/a> or try and whip up an <\/span>aphrodisiac meal plan<\/span><\/a> for date night. If that doesn\u2019t make you believe in aphrodisiacs, we also conducted a deep dive into the history and research of <\/span>how food affects sexual libido<\/span><\/a>. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard that old recommendation for the pineapple diet when it comes to the <\/span>taste of cum<\/span><\/a>. Regardless of your stance, incorporating food into the bedroom can be the cherry on top of a fun evening, so explore that forbidden fruit and pleasure your mate in new ways!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

September is here and so is your chance to reignite and intensify your passionate sex life. It\u2019s a good reminder that giving can be incredibly rewarding, so get between the sheets and celebrate Pleasure Your Mate Month (which is guaranteed to offer you some pleasure, too) by trying something new. Finally, a sexual holiday that lasts not one, but thirty, orgasmic days.\u00a0 Go Somewhere New It\u2019s totally normal to get bored of the bedroom and want to change up the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":24677,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[921],"tags":[525],"coauthors":[947],"class_list":["post-24667","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lelo-newswire","tag-better-sex"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nDid Someone Say 30 Days of Pleasure? 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