{"id":25298,"date":"2019-09-27T13:55:10","date_gmt":"2019-09-27T11:55:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=25298"},"modified":"2026-02-19T06:16:20","modified_gmt":"2026-02-19T05:16:20","slug":"best-sex-positions-when-you-have-a-bad-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/best-sex-positions-when-you-have-a-bad-back\/","title":{"rendered":"Best Sex Positions When You Have A Bad Back"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/author\/lauriemintz\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"doctor-banner alignnone wp-image-47728 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/laurie-mintz-doctor-review-banner-white.jpg\" alt=\"lelo laurie mintz doctor review\" width=\"270\" height=\"90\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019d forgive you if you believed that spooning was the best sex position when you have a bad back. After all, spooning leads to forking, am I right? Am I right? I\u2019ll see myself out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s a common problem though, with around 84% of men and 73% of women who suffer from lower back pain say that it results in a significant decrease in the frequency of sex. Family doctors report being that they\u2019re frequently asked by couples about how to manage back pain during sex, and often they avoid sex for fear of the discomfort they know it will bring them. There\u2019s no clear solution: painkillers might alleviate the pain but it doesn\u2019t fix the problem, and they can also cause sexual problems, such as low desire.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">10 couples volunteered to have sex while wearing motion capture devices along their spines, like those used to create realistic human movement in video games, and used the findings to develop a set of recommendations for positions and techniques that ease the suffering. Possibly the best use of mocap technology ever.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>What Are The Recommendations?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are 3 types of back pain that affect sex:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Flexion intolerant \u2013 pain is increased by leaning forward, to pick something up or touch your toes.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Extension intolerant \u2013 too much arch in the back, pain is worsened by bending backwards.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Motion Intolerant \u2013 pain increases when the spine moves away from its neutral position. It can be triggered by lying down, standing straight, or any kind of movement.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Positions By Pain Type For Women<\/h3>\n<p>Flexion Intolerant<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/why-spooning-sex-is-the-best-sex\/\">Spooning<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/4-ways-to-have-better-doggy-style-sex\/\">Kneeling\/Doggy Style<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Extension Intolerant<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/6-ways-get-missionary-position\/\">Missionary<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Motion Intolerant<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Missionary<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Positions By Pain Type For Men<\/h3>\n<p>Flexion Intolerant<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/4-ways-to-have-better-doggy-style-sex\/\">Doggy Style (partner on knees)<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Missionary (with elbows for support)<\/li>\n<li>Reverse Missionary (partner on top)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Extension Intolerant<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/why-spooning-sex-is-the-best-sex\/\">Side\/Spooning<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Reverse Missionary (partner on top)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Motion Intolerant<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Squatting<\/li>\n<li>Reverse Missionary (partner on top)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you have back pain, you can take comfort in knowing that there are sex positions that are suitable (not only that, but enjoyable) for you too. Get back to the enjoyment of sex without the stress on your body and mind. Find what works for you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Spooning.\u00a0<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The spooning sex position is pretty gentle and comfortable, and it\u2019s a good all-rounder. But it doesn\u2019t suit every kind of back pain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Doggy Style.\u00a0<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The motion capture showed that this position activates the \u2018giver\u2019s\u2019 abdominal muscles and buttons, rather than the back muscles. If your back pain is muscle-based, this might be a good position to try.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Use Hips.\u00a0<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sex positions that emphasize hip-hinging motions are preferable to those that employ spine-based movements.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Let Your Partner Do The Work.\u00a0<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner doesn\u2019t suffer from back pain, just get comfortable, perhaps supporting your back with pillows, and let them do all the work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>For related topics, check out:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/aches-pains-orgasm\/\">Aches and Pains? Here, have an Orgasm<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>*In this article, for ease of reader understanding, we are using the words sex and intercourse as synonymous, as is done in popular culture in general. Similarly, we use the word \u201cforeplay\u201d the way it is used in popular culture (i.e., the sexual acts such as oral sex that come before intercourse). However, as aptly pointed out by our sex expert Laurie Mintz, we would also like to acknowledge that such language exalts men\u2019s most reliable rout to orgasm and linguistically erases women\u2019s most reliable route to orgasm\u2014clitoral stimulation, either alone or coupled with penetration. Indeed, only between 4% and 18% of women reliably orgasm from penetration alone. We look forward to the day when such language is not commonly used in culture.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019d forgive you if you believed that spooning was the best sex position when you have a bad back. After all, spooning leads to forking, am I right? Am I right? I\u2019ll see myself out. 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