{"id":25752,"date":"2019-10-13T12:58:58","date_gmt":"2019-10-13T10:58:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=25752"},"modified":"2024-09-16T04:37:40","modified_gmt":"2024-09-16T02:37:40","slug":"hate-being-single-you-actually-have-it-all","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/hate-being-single-you-actually-have-it-all\/","title":{"rendered":"18 Pros of Being Single"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For ever and a day, we\u2019ve been socialised to believe that true happiness comes when it\u2019s shared\u2026 with a romantic partner. All romantic comedies and fairytale storybooks say so, so it has to be true, right?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But all jokes aside, our bodies are even built in such a way to support and encourage finding a mate. We emit pheromones, a chemical that attracts people to each other, and a woman\u2019s body prepares itself for <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">childbirth<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And when it comes to evolution, men have the capacity to experience \u2018mate guarding,\u2019 which is when he uses tactics to prevent his partner from <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">infidelity<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Basically, all signs point to courtship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But guess what? In a massive plot twist, it turns out that it\u2019s actually OK to be single!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s OK to Be Single!<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As society evolves, so does the mentality that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/brief-history-marriage-equality\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">men and women are equal<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">! And despite the fact that we still have a long way to go, women are praised and encouraged to be independent, to make their own money, and to form their own careers. They don\u2019t need a husband in order to have financial freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is also far less stigma against single mothers and fathers today, making the world a friendlier place for singletons to choose their own direction in life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men need not open their feathers and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">engage in jealous tactics to find their one true mate<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. We\u2019re living in a culture that accepts dating around, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">being single<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or having a partner in any capacity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, statistics don\u2019t lie! And between 1970 and 2010, the number of single people almost doubled!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Downside of Being Afraid to Be Single<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, before we tell you why being single means that you actually already have it all, here\u2019s a quick cheat sheet of all the reasons why it isn\u2019t at all beneficial to fear being alone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you fear being alone, you\u2019re prone to:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jumping into unfulfilling relationships<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Setting for less\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focusing more on your relationship status rather than the quality of your relationships<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Staying with unsuitable partners and in bad relationships solely to avoid being alone<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This surely isn\u2019t you, is it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">18 Reasons Why Being Single Equals Having it All!<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Behavioral Traits Most Common Among Singletons\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><strong>1. They tend to be more optimistic\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A study<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> found that over 10,000 Australian women in their mid 70\u2019s who had been single for the majority of their lives were more optimistic than those who were or had been married.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>2. They tend to experience increased personal growth<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Five-year research<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> showed that those who were single for prolonged periods of time were more likely to agree with statements such as, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cFor me, life has been a continuous process of learning, changing, and growth\u201d.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>3. They tend to be more determined and self-motivated<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The same study found these singletons to be more likely to agree with the statement, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI judge myself by what I think is important, not by the values of what others think is important\u201d.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>4. They tend to have more friends<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/living-single\/201905\/the-social-lives-single-people\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> undergone in the U.S., Netherlands, Australia, and Britain showed that single people had more friends and bigger social networks (neighbours, co-workers etc.) than those who were in a relationship or married, with or without children.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>5. They tend to do more to maintain relationships with friends, relatives, and co-workers<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/living-single\/201509\/single-and-lonely-the-truth-may-be-exactly-the-opposite\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to sociologists, Naomi Gerstem and Natalia Sarkisian<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, married people are more likely to invest a lot of their time towards each other as opposed to their friends and social networks.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Single people, on the other hand, are more likely to help a friend in need by giving them advice, visiting their family more often, and socialising with those close to them several times a month.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>6. They tend to be more emotionally independent\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Single people are less worried about and often <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">don\u2019t fear rejection<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. They\u2019re also less prone to getting their feelings hurt as easily as those who\u2019re in a relationship or married.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lifestyle and Personal Life Benefits of Being Single<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>7. Adventures<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you ever wanted to go surfing in Bali for a month? Or maybe you want to explore the streets of New Delhi for a week? How about climbing one of the most beautiful mountains in Switzerland? Who\u2019s stopping you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To be single<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> means no compromise on adventure, your own time, your own itinerary, and the writing of your own story. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Book the flight ticket<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, we dare you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>8. New opportunities<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it\u2019s climbing the corporate ladder you\u2019re after, a promotion that comes with longer hours and extended <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sexiest-summer-getaways\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">travel is of course possible for couples<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but is nothing but a breeze for singles. And if you\u2019re looking to start all over again, being single gives you the freedom to do just that&#8230;\u00a0 whenever, wherever.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>9. Passion projects<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many people love to engage in passion projects as a way in which to bring more meaning to their lives. It\u2019s also a great way to set and achieve goals.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if your much-sought-after six-week <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/5-secret-ways-to-transform-your-sex-life-through-yoga\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yoga training<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> course takes place three times a week at 20:00, you are free to do as you please without causing a disruption to anyone else\u2019s life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>10. Active Social Life<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s already been proven that singles have a more active social life than those who\u2019re taken, but think about it from your own perspective&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/girls-night-in-sex-toy-parties\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">girls night in<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or a lad\u2019s weekend sounds like the perfect way to wind down and have some fun, doesn\u2019t it? Fancy seeing a film at the cinema randomly at 24:00 with your bestie? Not a problem! And what about impromptu road trips? You definitely can\u2019t \u2018up and go\u2019 when in a relationship!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>11. Money<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in a relationship often means talking about and sharing your financial earnings with one another. It also sometimes means justifying purchases and asking permission to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">spend a bit more than usual<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Doesn\u2019t sound like fun, does it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>12. Explore sexuality<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With sexuality now being more fluid than ever, now is the best time to have fun and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/can-our-sexual-fantasies-come-true\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">enjoy all of your fantasies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. There\u2019s literally no one to judge you for trying new things and exploring your sexual side.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6 Other Reasons why Being Single is the Best<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>13. TV binging session<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Imagine a world where you love watching <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Downton Abbey<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but your partner hates it. Every Saturday night seems like an endless war over the TV remote, which often time leads to both of you sitting in separate rooms watching your own individual TV shows. Nah, not fun!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>14. Side of the bed<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes it\u2019s fun to be \u201con the right side of the wrong bed\u201d, if you catch my drift. And even when it\u2019s just you chilling at home, you have all the space in the world! You can sprawl out, snore, watch TV shows, or even eat pizza and drink wine until your heart&#8217;s content. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/cuddling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sharing a cuddle or two<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is fun, sure, but when it comes down to business, sleep wins all.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>15. The apartment<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having your own space is something so sacred to many. And having the freedom to bring your interior decorating vision to life is a great passion for some. Not only that, but you can leave your dirty socks on the floor\u2026 or not, without having to worry about anyone else and their things!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>16. No compromising<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s date night and an argument brews about where to go for dinner and what film to watch at the cinema. When you\u2019re single, you don\u2019t need to compromise. You can do whatever you want! And while compromise is an important behavioural trait to master for all humans, being single means a hell of a lot less compromising\u2026 which is really fun.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>17. Excitement of a first date<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you\u2019ve been on 50 horrible <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/35-first-date-ideas-and-everything-you-need-to-know-about-acing-a-first-date\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">first dates<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019re still more than likely to have butterflies in your stomach before your next one. It\u2019s a beautifully awkward feeling that people love to hate, and often rears its flapping wings when meeting someone you\u2019re intrigued about for the first time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>18. Guy\/girl friends are allowed<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some argue that a certain amount of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/jealousy-comparison-really-get-us-anywhere-killing-kittens-guest-post\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">jealousy within a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is normal. And while that may be true, it can be difficult for people to let go of friends that are of opposite sex due to a jealous partner. Being single however, means having as many friends as you want, regardless of gender.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, the case has officially been solved\u2026 being single (as opposed to being in an unfilling relationship) is basically the equivalent of winning the lottery (yourself being the prize).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you\u2019re fairly new to Singleton Avenue, you\u2019ll soon learn that personal time is exactly what you need to become more powerful, more motivated, more social, and more self-confident than ever before. You deserve it.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For ever and a day, we\u2019ve been socialised to believe that true happiness comes when it\u2019s shared\u2026 with a romantic partner. 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