{"id":27267,"date":"2019-12-18T13:20:42","date_gmt":"2019-12-18T12:20:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=27267"},"modified":"2024-09-25T21:51:30","modified_gmt":"2024-09-25T19:51:30","slug":"partner-that-is-losing-interest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/partner-that-is-losing-interest\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Tell If Your Partner Is Losing Interest"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you start dating someone, it\u2019s like slowly working your way to the top of a rollercoaster. You\u2019re excited, nervous, somewhat anxious, and full of anticipation.\u00a0<\/span>After the rush of adrenaline, the ride ends,<\/span> things level out, and you get used to one another. <\/span><\/p>\n

The dynamic of the relationship changes, and this is often a period in which people tend to wonder if their partner is <\/span>losing interest<\/span> in them. Sometimes, this could be the case. Other times, it\u2019s just the way dating evolves. So, how can you tell the difference?<\/span><\/p>\n

Signs That Your Partner Is Losing Interest<\/span><\/h2>\n

They Make Zero Effort to Spend Time With You<\/h3>\n

Does your partner suddenly have other things they need to be doing? Prioritizing other engagements or even bailing on plans? While couples who are slowly getting comfortable with each other soon start to continue living semi-separate lives again after a while, a partner who is losing interest will stop making you a priority, and often cancel plans.<\/span><\/p>\n

They\u2019re Distant, Agile, Moody, or Annoyed When With You<\/h3>\n

Does it feel like everything you say or do seems to annoy your partner? They\u2019ve become somewhat mean towards you, almost making you feel as though you\u2019re bothering them by your mere existence? This is especially true when they think you\u2019re trying to take time away from them when they want to see their friends or do their own thing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Your Time Together Feels Forced<\/h3>\n

Does it feel like being together is hard work? Before, it might have been relaxed, happy, and content, but now\u2026 you feel as though you\u2019re putting in all the work in an attempt to make them happy or to notice you? It feels like walking on eggshells, and probably a waste of energy, right? This is quite often a sign that they\u2019re losing interest.<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s No Talk of the Future<\/h3>\n

Happy couples talk about plans, whether they\u2019re long or short term. They use pronouns like \u2018we\u2019 or \u2018us\u2019. When your partner shifts, and seems incapable of committing to any <\/span>future<\/span> plans – even if that plan is attending a friend\u2019s wedding together in a month – it\u2019s usually a sign that they\u2019re losing interest.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

They\u2019re Not Emotionally Supportive<\/h3>\n

A partner should be someone who you can rely on through good times and bad. So when you need <\/span>emotional support<\/span>, and they\u2019re suddenly \u2018too busy\u2019 or nowhere to be found, they\u2019re just not truly invested in you nor have enough respect to be your support system.<\/span><\/p>\n

They Don\u2019t Want To Label Anything<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019ve been <\/span>(casually) dating<\/span><\/a> for a few weeks or months, but \u2018the conversation\u2019 hasn\u2019t happened yet, you can assume one of two things: either they\u2019re waiting for you to bring it up, or they\u2019re not as keen to call you their boyfriend or girlfriend. The best bet is to have the conversation to gain clarity. It\u2019s better to know than to not know.<\/span><\/p>\n

They Refer To You as Their Friend<\/h3>\n

Have you been out somewhere and your significant other has introduced you to someone – be it a bestie, a co-worker, or even a stranger – as <\/span>their friend<\/span><\/a>? Hmm, perhaps it\u2019s time to evaluate the situation to find out what\u2019s really going on.<\/span><\/p>\n

They\u2019re Secretive<\/h3>\n

Suddenly your partner is keeping their phone in their pocket or in their hand and they\u2019re not as willing to let you look at it. Or perhaps they\u2019ve become defensive or passive aggressive when you start to ask seemingly innocent questions. Privacy is one thing, secrecy is another. In a partnership, <\/span>communication and transparency is key<\/span><\/a>. If these two things are lacking, perhaps they\u2019re losing interest.<\/span><\/p>\n

Signs Your Relationship Is Just Moving into a Comfortable Phase<\/span><\/h2>\n

You Feel Like You\u2019re Stuck in a Rut<\/h3>\n

When two people become comfortable with each other, things aren\u2019t as shiny and new as they were. It may be because you or they feel that going on adventures in order to discover each other is not necessary anymore, and you\u2019ve gotten all too familiar with <\/span>staying in on Friday night with take out and Netflix<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t always a bad thing but if it does make you question your relationship, perhaps you could start having a <\/span>date night<\/span><\/a> once a week or month, or try new things in the bedroom to spice things up.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your Partner Takes You for Granted<\/h3>\n

Whether it is in a friendship or a relationship, when you become comfortable with someone, you get the feeling that they\u2019ll stick around no matter what. And this is when people are often taken for granted.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Your partner may feel as though they\u2019re so comfortable with you, that they need not go the extra mile anymore. Now is the time to add a new spark to the relationship<\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n

The Sex is Monotomous<\/h3>\n

You\u2019ve had all the sex, and now it feels as though you\u2019re going through the motions. There\u2019s a simple way to fix this\u2026 experiment!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sexual experimentation is always fun! You could try playing <\/span>sex games for adults<\/span><\/a>, or <\/span>kissing games<\/span><\/a>, or you could start researching other kinky sex acts<\/a>. Talk to your partner in a non-threatening environment and tone, and try not to make them feel judged when they open up about some of their sexual fantasies. Having an open mind is key.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your Partner Forgets Their Manners When They\u2019re With You<\/h3>\n

When your partner starts leaving their towels on the bathroom floor, burping after taking a slug of beer or soda, or farting in bed at night\u2026 this is an obvious sign that they\u2019re comfortable with you. But a gentle reminder about manners might be something to consider.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your Partner isn\u2019t Taking Care of Themselves as They Used to<\/h3>\n

Perhaps your partner used to be freshly showered and shaved with makeup on or a nice outfit before, but now\u2026 it\u2019s as if they\u2019ve let themselves go.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This is the number one sign of being comfortable. And while it\u2019s great to be comfortable, self-care should always be a priority!<\/span><\/p>\n

Why Do People Lose Interest in a Relationship?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Lack of Confidence<\/h3>\n

If you haven\u2019t heard this before, <\/span>confidence is sexy<\/span><\/a>! An average-looking Joe or Josephine could easily be the apple of someone’s eye if they\u2019ve got a ton of self-confidence.<\/span><\/p>\n

So if you feel as though you\u2019re not very confident, and are often self-conscious or visibly uncomfortable with yourself in front of your partner, desire tends to diminish.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being \u2018Too Much\u2019<\/h3>\n

This is like when someone calls a woman \u201ccrazy\u201d (not cool, and women hate that, btw!). But truly, when someone is so desperate for a relationship or some form of companionship that they become <\/span>overbearing and obsessive<\/span><\/a>, this is a very unattractive trait.<\/span><\/p>\n

Timing<\/h3>\n

In this case, the expression <\/span>\u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me,\u201d<\/span><\/i> is actually accurate. Sometimes you\u2019ve met someone amazing, but unfortunately the timing is just completely off.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe they\u2019ve just gone through a <\/span>bad break up<\/span><\/a>, or they\u2019ve got a lot of stress at work, and they just can\u2019t find the time to invest in a new relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Too Much, Too Soon<\/h3>\n

The start of a relationship is usually so fun, that couples tend to go at it at warp speed. By the time month four rolls around, you\u2019ve fizzled out and lost that spark because you\u2019re already basically living together and personal boundaries are non-existent.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The key is to take it slow and enjoy the ride.<\/span><\/p>\n

What To Do if Your Partner is Losing Interest<\/span><\/h2>\n

Focus on Self-Growth and Personal Development<\/h3>\n

It\u2019s never fun to imagine that the person you adore is losing interest. But if this is the case, it\u2019s the perfect time for some introspection.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of wondering what <\/span>they<\/span><\/i> think about you, why not think about what <\/span>you<\/span><\/i> think of <\/span>yourself<\/span><\/i>? As mentioned, self-confidence is sexy, so if you can start remembering all of the reasons why you\u2019re awesome, this will transcend into your personal and social life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remind Your Partner Why They Were Interested in You<\/h3>\n

If it\u2019s time to relight the spark, do something bold to remind your partner why they were head over heels for you in the first place. This could be doing something fun together that you used to do in the beginning of the relationship, or perhaps even doing a little <\/span>strip tease<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Try New Sexual Experiences<\/h3>\n

Sex is a basic, animalistic need. And as we mentioned, when things in the bedroom fizzle out, it can be somewhat upsetting. Instead of taking it personally or deciding that the relationship is doomed, <\/span>try something new<\/span><\/a>! The possibilities are endless!<\/span><\/p>\n

Communicate When Calm<\/h3>\n

Have you ever tried to have a big conversation while angry, hot-headed, or overly-emotional? And how did that work out? Probably not so good.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if there are a few things you feel you need to get off your chest, try to take a few days, get some space and some clarity, and then sit down with your partner to discuss your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

Try Not To Take Things Personally<\/h3>\n

At the end of the day, your partner may be distant and showing signs that they\u2019re losing interest merely because they\u2019ve got their own stuff going on. It doesn\u2019t always have to be about you!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This is why it\u2019s important that they know you\u2019re trusted support for them when they need it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

And to end off on a lighthearted note, here\u2019s an interesting fact concerning the correlation between fear of losing a partner and desirability\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Fear of Losing a Partner vs. Desirability\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

Researchers <\/span>Simona Sciara<\/span><\/a> and <\/span>Giuseppe Pantaleo<\/span><\/a> found that couples who were in a happy and stable relationship but then faced the possibility of a break up had higher levels of desirability during the uncertain stage. This \u2018risky\u2019 period could be due to social disapproval, parental interference, or lack of support.<\/span><\/p>\n

This all comes down to when partners are so comfortable that they take their significant other for granted. In this situation, the risk of break up is low and has shown to result in lower romantic feelings.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When the chances of breaking up are high however, one or both partners may finally realize that they had taken their partner for granted, which often leads to higher levels of <\/span>romantic and desirable feelings<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Essentially, it\u2019s the notion of wanting what you can\u2019t have, or the fear of losing something that you did have.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Interesting stuff, right?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

So, whether you feel that your partner is losing interest, or you\u2019ve now realized that it\u2019s just a matter of being comfortable with each other, you have the tools to address the situation. Hopefully everything works out perfectly fine\u2026 we\u2019re rooting for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

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