{"id":27387,"date":"2019-12-22T13:17:03","date_gmt":"2019-12-22T12:17:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=27387"},"modified":"2024-09-25T21:59:28","modified_gmt":"2024-09-25T19:59:28","slug":"female-only-threesomes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/female-only-threesomes\/","title":{"rendered":"Female-Only Threesomes: Have Your Cake and Eat It Too!"},"content":{"rendered":"

For some, threesomes have the capacity to intensify pleasure, but the experience<\/span>\u00a0varies from person to person and group to group. It\u2019s not only about an individual\u2019s experience, but also the chemistry between all three of the participants.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

With the right research, tips, and tricks, you can increase your chances of having a pleasurable experience for all parties involved.<\/span><\/p>\n

How To Prepare for a FFF Threesome\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

As much as we love the idea of sexual spontaneity, planning a FFF threesome will probably work in your favour. That\u2019s because, well, unless you\u2019re in a throuple and or have enjoyed this kind of experience before with the same two women, things may not go according to plan.<\/span><\/p>\n

The good news is, there are a few extra sexy bits and pieces you can prepare to enhance the FFF threesome experience.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lube\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

As women, we have double the amount of genital orifices as our male counterparts. And while some women have absolutely no problem when it comes to getting wet, having an adequate amount of lube on-hand is just smart thinking.<\/span><\/p>\n

Not only that, but certain kinds of lube can actually enhance arousal and sexual pleasure, while keeping the vagina soft. Natural oil-based lube, for example, can be great for genital massages.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re planning on using sex toys however, the best option is to stick with a water-based lube<\/a>, especially if those sex toys are made of silicone<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Speaking of which\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sex toys<\/span><\/h3>\n

One of the great things about a FFF threesome is the ability to use all kinds of pleasurable sex toys<\/a>. And if there is a certain sex toy that you know gets you hot and heavy, you should definitely bring it along (the same goes for your girlfriends).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This is because many women find it harder to climax than men, and having something with you that\u2019ll bring about more comfort and that is bound to get you off, will make all the difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the flipside, talking with all of the participants before bringing a bag of sexy toys is imperative. By doing so, you can find out what kind of stimulation they enjoy, and where they find the most pleasure. This can make the experience a heck of a lot better and dictate which toys may be suitable for your FFF threesome.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tip:<\/strong> make sure that whatever toys you bring to your threesome are clean before use. And if you want to be extra safe, you could use a barrier during play time. By putting a condom<\/a> on a strap-on beforehand and changing it for each use, for example, you can use this toy on all partners safely.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2018The Talk\u2019<\/span><\/h3>\n

As mentioned, a little pre FFF threesome brainstorming session can actually go a long way. This chat will differ depending on if you\u2019re already in a couple who will be inviting a \u2018unicorn\u2019 to join in (unicorn: the third person to join a couple\u2019s threesome<\/a>), you\u2019re all friends, or you are all strangers.<\/span><\/p>\n

For those in a couple, creating a few ground rules and boundaries is an excellent way in which to reduce any jealousy, complications, or post-threesome blues. Together, you can decide what is off limits and what is OK for your unicorn, as well as yourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

You may find that kissing is more intimate within your relationship, and thus decide that kissing on the mouth is only for you and your partner, for example.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can also discuss whether one or both of you would be interested in watching (and engaging in solo fun). For some however, seeing their partner with another person may spark a lot of rejection and or jealousy, so talking about these things beforehand will definitely be beneficial for all involved.<\/span><\/p>\n

After Your FFF Threesome<\/span><\/h2>\n

Once you\u2019ve enjoyed the experience of three beautiful women in passion, there is no magical genie that will whisk the second or third person away without any awkwardness. Coming up with a game plan beforehand may also be a great idea for those who feel anxious about what to do when the FFF threesome is over.<\/span><\/p>\n

For couples, do you invite the unicorn to sleep over? Or do you plan an exit strategy before your bout of pleasure? Answering these questions is a personal decision, and will differ from person to person, couple to couple, and triad to triad.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For couples, it may be a great idea to do something special afterwards, just the two of you, in order to reinforce your special bond and love\/lust for each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

For all three, going out for a drink or simply having a friendly chat or hangout afterwards is a great way to reinforce positive mutual feelings for one another. It\u2019s also a way for all three women not to feel objectified and to realize that they\u2019re actually human beings and not merely one person in a sexual experience.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The most important thing however is to make sure that all women feel comfortable and included after the event, and that no one feels used or rejected afterwards.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

FFF Threesomes: What Goes Where?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Whether you do plan your FFF threesome or not, some may want to know the logistics, such as\u2026 what goes where!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, there\u2019s no blueprint for this kind of sexual activity, and there\u2019s no right or wrong way to do it. It\u2019s merely a question of what feels good and what\u2019s comfortable for all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Essentially however, you\u2019re looking at:<\/span><\/p>\n