{"id":28929,"date":"2020-03-04T13:00:18","date_gmt":"2020-03-04T12:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=28929"},"modified":"2024-12-19T06:15:08","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T05:15:08","slug":"pussy-eating-101","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/pussy-eating-101\/","title":{"rendered":"Pussy Eating 101: How To Eat Out for Beginners"},"content":{"rendered":"

There are tons of guides and classes out there on giving blowjobs<\/a>, but cunnilingus<\/a> just doesn\u2019t get the same amount of attention. <\/span>This is unfortunate, because around <\/span>three quarters of women<\/span><\/a>\u00a0need clitoral stimulation to consistently orgasm, and oral sex is one highly effective way to provide that.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Some people are intimidated by eating pussy, but you don\u2019t have to go nuts with your technique \u2014 it\u2019s actually pretty simple. Here are some ways to give great head to a woman.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Draw Out the Anticipation<\/h3>\n

The clitoris<\/a> gets engorged and becomes more accessible when someone is aroused<\/a>, so you want to make sure your partner is excited before you even go down there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Spend time playing with your partner\u2019s breasts, kissing their inner thighs, and doing other things to build up the anticipation as much as possible. Make them ache for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Stay On the Clitoris<\/h3>\n

Some people think eating pussy means getting all fancy and putting your tongue in the vagina or all over different parts of the vulva. You can do a little bit of that to tease your partner in the beginning, but for the most part, you\u2019re going to want to focus on the clitoris. <\/span><\/p>\n

For those who don\u2019t know, the clitoris is right at the top of the vulva<\/a>, above where the labia meet. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Get Under the Clitoral Hood if Needed<\/h3>\n

For most vulvas, at least the top portion of the clitoris is covered by a piece of skin called the clitoral hood. Many people will feel more sensation if you get below the clitoral hood, directly on the clitoris itself. You can usually do this by licking upward from right below the clitoris. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, for others, the clitoris is too sensitive for direct contact, so gauge your partner\u2019s reaction. You can even try it both ways and ask what they prefer. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Lick In an Up-and-Down Motion<\/h3>\n

Again, you don\u2019t need to get too fancy and recite the alphabet or anything. A good bread-and-butter move is to flick your tongue repeatedly up and down over the clitoris. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can ask your partner if they want you to switch anything up. Otherwise, consistency is key, so just keep doing what you\u2019re doing. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Engage Your Hands<\/h3>\n

If your mouth gets tired, that\u2019s no excuse to stop \u2014 it\u2019s just an invitation to take over with your hands for a bit. Rubbing the clitoral hood from right to left or in circles is usually a good bet. Then, once you\u2019ve recovered, dive back in.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

You can also get your hands involved while you\u2019re going down on someone by putting a finger or two into the vagina and pressing upward. Sometimes, just having the finger in there is enough to intensify the sensation, while some may prefer you move it in a come-hither motion. Find out what your partner prefers and do it.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Finish the Job<\/h3>\n

Too often, people think of oral sex as just a warmup for intercourse \u2014 something to do until your partner is wet and ready for penetration. But having someone stop in the middle of oral sex can actually be very physically frustrating. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember, most people with vulvas don\u2019t consistently orgasm through intercourse, so if you want them to orgasm, it\u2019s best to take care of them beforehand. If it doesn\u2019t seem like what you\u2019re doing is building toward a climax, ask your partner for feedback and adjust accordingly<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

See also:<\/h4>\n