{"id":30025,"date":"2024-06-04T08:15:00","date_gmt":"2024-06-04T06:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=30025"},"modified":"2026-05-04T06:46:22","modified_gmt":"2026-05-04T04:46:22","slug":"pride-heroes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/pride-heroes\/","title":{"rendered":"The Heroes of Pride and the LGBTQ+ Folks Who Represent Us"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Through millennia of forced silence, the LGBTQ community has persisted \u2013 and with more of us holding positions of power now than at any other time in history, our communal voice is louder than ever. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The history of pride is still in the making. Some people started it, for generations to come. These eight heroes are past and present who have laid the pavement that we now march forward on, together. Let\u2019s thank them for that by reminding ourselves of everything they\u2019ve done for us.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Marsha P. Johnson<\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30136 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/marsha-p-johnson-pride-267x300.jpg\" alt=\"marsha p johnson pride\" width=\"267\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/marsha-p-johnson-pride-267x300.jpg 267w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/marsha-p-johnson-pride.jpg 766w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 267px) 100vw, 267px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no list of LGBTQ icons complete without Marsha \u201cPay it no Mind\u201d Johnson. A cornerstone of our history, Johnson was one of the prime voices that spurred the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stonewall Uprising<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. When the police raided The Stonewall Inn in 1969, her queer community decided they\u2019d had enough. It was time to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fight back<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. The uprising spilled into the streets, lasting for several days as queer folks protested the way they\u2019d been raided, harassed, and pushed to the corners of society for far too long. The riots weren\u2019t quickly forgotten, and a year later, the first Pride parade was held to commemorate the good fight.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a transgender woman of color, Johnson\u2019s calling was to leave a road for young trans* people that was brighter than the one she\u2019d walked. A living burst of color in motion, she wasn\u2019t afraid to be a memorable presence, and often clashed with the cis gay men of New York in her quest to band the community together for the collective good.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She was no stranger to pushback, and the resistance of those men only pushed her further. Working with her close friend Sylvia Riviera, Johnson founded <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nswp.org\/timeline\/event\/street-transvestite-action-revolutionaries-found-star-house\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the first organization in the United States led by trans* women of color<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> called <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Dedicated to the young transgender community, their mission was to help people in their community find stable housing. Now, the Marsha P. Johnson Institute carries on the spirit of her work, as they fight to protect and defend \u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the human rights of black transgender people<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\r\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Arsham Parsi<\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30137 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/arsham-parsi-pride-236x300.jpg\" alt=\"arsham parsi pride\" width=\"236\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/arsham-parsi-pride-236x300.jpg 236w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/arsham-parsi-pride.jpg 766w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 236px) 100vw, 236px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a gay Iranian teen in the 1990s, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Arsham Parsi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> thought he was alone. But when he found the secret community forming online, Parsi found his spark \u2013 and he didn\u2019t sleep on it. Keeping his work secret from family and friends, he dove into volunteering for underground queer organizations, from helping a local doctor research HIV in Shiraz to organizing a secret Yahoo chat group for Iranian queers called Voice Celebration. This small thread of fifty resilient queer people was a vital pulse that kept the community resilient in the face of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">l<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ws t<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">h<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">at threatened death<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for the crime of loving someone else.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When Parsi learned that the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Iranian police were looking for him<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in 2005, he fled to Turkey and eventually found his way to Canada as a refugee. Still there today, Parsi is an <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">exile for love<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 but he hasn\u2019t let that get in the way of his goals. Instead, he established the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/irqr.net\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">International Railroad for Queer Refugees<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (IRQR), a charity that works tirelessly to help asylum-seeking queer people find security, stability, and a place to thrive as themselves. After losing a close friend during her struggle to come to Canada from Iran, Parsi went on to start the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/marjanfoundation.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marjan Foundation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a non-profit organization working in tandem with IRQR, to raise funds for LGBTQ refugees around the world to afford the journey to Canada.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Edith Windsor<\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30138 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/edith-windsor-pride-300x262.jpg\" alt=\"edith windsor pride\" width=\"300\" height=\"262\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/edith-windsor-pride-300x262.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/edith-windsor-pride.jpg 766w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Matriarch of the Gay Rights Movement, Edith Windsor, never expected to be <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in the s<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">p<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">otlight<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If anything, she spent decades shying away from it. Born in the U.S. in 1929, she didn\u2019t have the luxury to be out without <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nyu.edu\/alumni.magazine\/issue17\/17_FEA_DOMA.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">risking her career<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and safety. But when she met Thea Spyer, Windsor knew she\u2019d be worth any risk. Their first night out dancing together, they \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nyu.edu\/alumni.magazine\/issue17\/17_FEA_DOMA.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">just fit<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,\u201d she said.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For the next forty years, Windsor and Spyer were inseparable, but when Spyer got ill, Windsor couldn\u2019t visit her in the hospital, since the U.S. failed to recognize their love as binding. When told Spyer had just one year left to live, they flew to Canada and got married.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Soon after, Spyer passed, and Windsor owed <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hundreds of thousands of dollars<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in taxes on her wife\u2019s estate. Had they been a straight couple, she would have owed nothing. But since the U.S. didn\u2019t recognize same-sex marriage, she didn\u2019t stand a chance at seeing that money again \u2013 until she fought the law.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) may have blocked her from being recognized as Spyer\u2019s spouse, but Windsor wasn\u2019t prepared to let it rest. In 2013, Windsor v. The United States hit the Supreme Court, and the results changed the way the U.S. viewed marriage forever. In their landmark decision, Windsor was legally declared Spyer\u2019s widow. Through the persistence of her love, Windsor\u2019s case tore DOMA down.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. Michael Sam<\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30139 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/michael-sam-pride-293x300.jpg\" alt=\"michael sam pride\" width=\"293\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/michael-sam-pride-293x300.jpg 293w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/michael-sam-pride.jpg 766w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 293px) 100vw, 293px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It takes courage to be the first \u2013 and Michael Sam wasn\u2019t afraid. His whole life, Sam wanted to be a football player. His college career was a thriving success, starting with a full ride to the University of Missouri and ending with several accolades, including <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SEC Co-Defensive Player of the Year.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By the time he was ready for the NFL draft, Sam\u2019s name was on everyone\u2019s lips. Then, he did something no other NFL player had done before. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sam came out<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. In 2014, Edith Windsor had only just won her Supreme Court case. Being gay in public wasn\u2019t easy, especially in such a traditionally straight environment. But he was determined to be true to himself. When he still got drafted by the Rams, he was elated.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For him, that was the only news. For the rest of the country, something else made headlines: the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kiss<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that Sam had shared with his boyfriend on air after getting drafted was all over the place. And from there, the dream he\u2019d worked for so long to build proved to not be what he\u2019d hoped for. Bouncing from team to team, Sam wasn\u2019t treated with respect or given the shot he deserved. In 2015, he permanently retired from football.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But after an <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ayahuasca journey<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> revolutionized his relationship with himself, he found a new path beyond the world of sports. Now, Sam is a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">motivational speaker<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who uses his platform to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">share his experience coming out<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and inspire his listeners to be their most authentic selves. While the NFL may not have been ready for Michael Sam, the rest of the world rushed to greet him with open arms.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. Alice Nkom<\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30140 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/alice-nkom-pride-300x233.jpg\" alt=\"alice nkom pride\" width=\"300\" height=\"233\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/alice-nkom-pride-300x233.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/alice-nkom-pride.jpg 766w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In Cameroon, you can\u2019t talk about LGBTQ rights without talking about Alice Nkom. A forerunner of the LGBTQ movement, Nkom is the face of the fight for equality in Cameroon. She started making waves young, when she became the country\u2019s first female lawyer at the age of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">twenty-four<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When she got the credentials, Nkom immediately set to work protecting the Cameroonian queer community. Being gay is a crime there, one that can land you up to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">five years in prison<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. As a defense attorney for LGBTQ clients, she has made it her life\u2019s work chipping away at those laws. Her most famous case was <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jean-Claude Roger Mdebe<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a man sentenced to three years in prison for the crime of his identity, and whose case was protested by international human rights organizations around the world.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Her work is a constant battle peppered with <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">arrest threats<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and opposition from top to bottom, but Nkom keeps plowing ahead. In 2003, she founded a non-profit called the Association for the Defense of Homosexuals (ADEFHO) to bring peace and light to the LGBTQ community of Cameroon. Through connections with various human rights groups, the non-profit uses their voice <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to call for action following crimes against the LGBTQ community<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When asked why she works as hard as she does for her clients, her answer was simple. \u201cI must help them live&#8230; I must give them the strength to say, \u2018Yes, I am this way&#8230;.\u2019 I want to help people understand that being gay is OK.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One case at a time, Alice Nkom is doing just that.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6. Harvey Milk<\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30141 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/harvey-milk-pride-300x277.jpg\" alt=\"harvey milk pride\" width=\"300\" height=\"277\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/harvey-milk-pride-300x277.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/harvey-milk-pride.jpg 766w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A career man, Harvey Milk spent years content to keep his identity private. But as he fell in love with the bustling queer scenes of New York and San Francisco, Milk slowly untangled himself from the shadows. By the time he was in his forties, Milk had embraced his true self and become a symbol of growth in the gay community.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Known for his persistence, Milk wanted to go beyond being a vocal advocate; he wanted to be part of local politics. But running for a seat on the San Francisco Board of Supervisors in 1973 as an out, gay man wasn\u2019t easy, and he lost. Instead of giving up, he ran again in 1975, only to lose again.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rather than get discouraged, he worked out in the field to build queer visibility. From convincing unions to hire more gay employees, to founding the Castro Village Association protecting queer workers, Milk worked hard to earn the title \u201cMayor of Castro Street.\u201d And in 1977, he finally won the title of Supervisor, becoming <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2018\/11\/27\/670657965\/40-years-after-the-assassination-of-harvey-milk-lgbt-candidates-find-success\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">one of the first out LGBTQ members of public office<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in the United States. During his time in this office, he fought California\u2019s Proposition 6, a bill that would have banned the LGBTQ community from becoming teachers.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When Milk was assassinated only eleven months after his election, the promise of this politician was cut short. Milk may be remembered now more for his death than his life, but in his years advocating for his community, he opened the channels for all the queer politicians that are in the U.S. Congress today.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7. Lena Waithe<\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30142 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/lena-waithe-pride-300x239.jpg\" alt=\"lena waithe pride\" width=\"300\" height=\"239\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/lena-waithe-pride-300x239.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/lena-waithe-pride.jpg 766w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our foreparents paved the way so that icons like Lena Waithe could rise to the top and inspire the rest of us to move towards our dreams. An LGBTQ icon, Lena Waithe is not afraid to take up the space she deserves. Dissecting the intersections of race and sexuality with candor, humor, and grace, her work as a screenwriter and actor moves millions, whether that\u2019s with her TV show <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Chi<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or her 2019 movie <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Queen &amp; Slim<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. She takes the responsibility of being in the spotlight seriously, and each event becomes an opportunity to push the dialogue \u2013 just look at the times she\u2019s been invited to the Met Gala and turned her outfits into <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">acts of defiance<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s through this belief in herself and the integrity of her actions that she climbed the steady path of her career. By 2014, Waithe had made it to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Variety\u2019s<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> list of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">10 Comedians to Watch<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. And by 2017, she had arrived. For her outstanding writing on <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Master of None\u2019s<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> episode \u201cThanksgiving,\u201d Waithe became the first Black-American woman to win an Emmy for Outstanding Writing for a Comedy Series. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When she received her award<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, she knew what it meant to queer people of color everywhere. \u201cThe things that make us different,\u201d she said. \u201cThose are our superpowers.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If her continued journey in stardom is any indication, the more authentically we answer the call to be ourselves, the stronger that power becomes.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8. Alexya Salvador<\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30143 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/elxya-salvador-pride-300x285.jpg\" alt=\"alexya salvador pride\" width=\"300\" height=\"285\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/elxya-salvador-pride-300x285.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/elxya-salvador-pride.jpg 766w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A reverend, a teacher, and a beacon for social justice, Salvador is always on the go. Being trans* and living in Brazil, she says her body is <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">inherently political<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Instead of letting that hinder her, she has embraced her differences, making waves in 2018 as the first transgender person to run for office in Brazil.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You could say Salvador is a woman known for firsts. The first openly transgender pastor in Latin America, she later became the first trans* ordained reverend there as well. Guided by her love of making the world better, Salvador became the first transgender woman to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sur.conectas.org\/en\/alexya-salvador-it-is-against-this-god-who-kills-that-we-are-fighting-and-resisting\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">adopt children<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in Brazil as well.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When she was growing up, Salvador didn\u2019t have role models who showed her everything she could become. Now, her life\u2019s work is to change that for everyone who comes after her. That\u2019s why, on top of everything else she does, her primary career is in education. Every day, she works to show young people that they can flourish as their truest selves.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">teacher<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, she is patient, knowing she\u2019s not just teaching grammar; she\u2019s teaching diversity. Salvador\u2019s kindness and persistence have formed every step of her still-evolving political and public journey. With endless compassion and an eye for possibility, she moves forward, combining joy and advocacy to make Brazil a lusher place for her LGBTQ community \u2013 one first at a time.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the wake of so much uncertainty, it\u2019s easy to feel small, to feel invisible. That is why, this Pride, we should honour those who came before us, those who are fighting for us now, and those heroes who are yet to come. These eight brave icons were one of those people, they have forged our history and are continuing to write it each and every day.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Enjoy 15% off <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LELO.com<\/a> with code <span style=\"color: #800080;\">VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Through millennia of forced silence, the LGBTQ community has persisted \u2013 and with more of us holding positions of power now than at any other time in history, our communal voice is louder than ever. The history of pride is still in the making. Some people started it, for generations to come. 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