{"id":30600,"date":"2020-07-20T12:33:20","date_gmt":"2020-07-20T10:33:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=30600"},"modified":"2020-07-28T09:54:21","modified_gmt":"2020-07-28T07:54:21","slug":"your-first-lesbian-experience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/your-first-lesbian-experience\/","title":{"rendered":"Navigating Your First Time Lesbian Experience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>PSA: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re never too old to figure out who you are. Whether you\u2019re having doubts about your career choice, your current partner, or your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexual orientation<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you have the power to change your circumstances and opinions.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And quite honestly, I totally recommend that you do work on something that\u2019s holding you back from living your truth. Insert clich\u00e9 quote here:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIf you don\u2019t like how things are, change it! You\u2019re not a tree\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Jim Rohn.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Right, so let\u2019s start at the beginning\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-30601 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/first-time-lesbian-experience.jpg\" alt=\"First Lesbian Experience\" width=\"660\" height=\"330\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/first-time-lesbian-experience.jpg 660w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/first-time-lesbian-experience-300x150.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I Think I Am a Lesbian, Bisexual, or Bi-Curious, What Now?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Right now, you\u2019re probably feeling a bit nervous, apprehensive, scared, guilty, excited, curious, and\/or aroused. You\u2019re feeling this way because you think you may have a sexual or emotional attraction to a woman or women.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Firstly, congratulations on taking that first step in acknowledging and trying to understand who you really are! This is a big deal! And luckily, society has come a long way in terms of accepting and embracing same-sex individuals.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And so, here comes the fun part\u2026 having your first-time lesbian experience. It can be daunting, but it can also be entirely thrilling and extremely erotic. And remember, nearly every adult, regardless of their sexual orientation, has had their \u2018<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/first-time-sex\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">first time<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2019 and it\u2019s usually a bit of a fumble in the dark\u2026 it happens, and it\u2019s normal.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, there\u2019s no linear or right or wrong way in which to \u2018be\u2019 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lesbian<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, bisexual, or bi-curious. You are free to take your time, speed it up, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/what-coming-out-should-look-like\/\">tell everybody<\/a> or tell nobody.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s also great about having these feelings in today\u2019s era is the fact that the world is rife with online resources, articles, and forums. This makes it a whole lot easier to connect with like-minded women and to experience a sense of acceptance and belonging.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then, when you\u2019re ready to act on your feelings, you\u2019re lucky to have a slew of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/5-best-hook-apps\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">online dating apps<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (or you could do it the old-fashioned way, if you prefer).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whichever way you choose to start experimenting, here is one of the most important guidelines that you can follow to make sure that it\u2019s not only a pleasant experience, but also one that considers and respects all parties involved\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be Open and Honest<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find yourself actively looking to connect with bi-curious, bisexual, or lesbian women, letting them know that you\u2019re new to the game as well as what you\u2019re looking for is only fair.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be very misleading for women you\u2019re talking to not to know that you\u2019re not yet openly gay or that you\u2019re simply looking to have your first-time lesbian experience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And while some women may like the chase, i.e. going after straight women, there are others who are genuinely looking for companionship. If you don\u2019t disclose your truth and thoughts from the beginning, feelings can get hurt and some may feel betrayed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then, once you\u2019re ready to take your new-found relationship the next level (sexually), here\u2019s a go-to guide to getting down same-sex style.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s Go Time!<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may think that because you\u2019re hitting the sheets with someone of the same sex, things will be a lot easier\u2026 and that could be true, however, every individual is different.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So when you\u2019re with a new partner, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation, it\u2019s highly likely that they\u2019re going to like things different to that of your last partner. The secret? Don\u2019t be afraid to ask!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First Time Fingering and Fondling<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sure, you may have fingered yourself dozens of times, but again\u2014everyone is different. Your partner may like to be fingered fast or slow, they may like one finger or they may want more, or they might just enjoy some <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">clitoral stimulation<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The trick is to start off slow. Take the time to massage and glide your fingers along her vagina until she\u2019s starting to get wet. Then, place one finger inside of her and gauge her reaction. Don\u2019t be afraid to be verbal\u2026 ask her if she\u2019s enjoying it, and if so, you can add another finger, trying different rhythms to find out which one she likes best.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can then go for the highly-praised \u2018come hither\u2019 motion. This is when you place your finger(s) about two inches inside of her towards the front wall of the vagina until you feel skin that is more bumpy. Once found, persist to do the hand motion. This is a great technique in which to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">stimulate her g-spot<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but remember to trim your nails beforehand to avoid scratching.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Orgasmic Oral Sex<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Again, start off slow. You could begin by giving her gentle kisses along her body, making your way down south. And just because you have a vagina doesn\u2019t mean that you know what she will like. Some women may have a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/good-in-hood-things-you-didnt-know-about-the-clitoris\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sensitive clitoris<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, so it\u2019s best to start around the clit. You can do this by licking up and down the labia, then changing your rhythm to see how she likes it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You could then either ask, or gently move towards the clitoris to see if that\u2019s something she\u2019ll enjoy. It\u2019s all about verbal and physical communication\u2026 that is, asking her what she likes, as well as listening to and taking cues from her body.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Strap On: Yay or Nay?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many believe that sex isn\u2019t really sex unless there is penetration involved. For that reason, people often question <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sex-between-women-how-do-lesbians-have-sex\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how two women can actually have sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. The truth is, sex is whatever you want it to be. When two women are intimate with each other, this can be considered sex. You don\u2019t need to have a penis nor a strap-on in order to call it sex.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, a lot of women find that they orgasm easier simply with clitoral stimulation as opposed to penetration. That\u2019s not to say that some strap-on action can\u2019t be pleasurable. Again, everyone is different.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bear in mind however, that practice makes perfect, and if you\u2019re experiencing same-sex fun for the first time with someone who is understanding and willing to walk you through it (or fumble through it), you\u2019re definitely on a good path to amazing lesbian sex.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Additional Tips for a Safe and Amazing First Time Lesbian Experience<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t Be Misled:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Girl-on-girl action is not immune from STI\u2019s. When there is an exchange of fluid, passing on an STI is possible. Using a dental dam can help prevent this. Additionally, if you\u2019re sharing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/types-of-sex-toys\/\">sex toys<\/a> you should definitely be washing them thoroughly before they enter a new orifice. You could also <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/hex-under-the-microscope\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">use a condom<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on the sex toy for added protection.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t Overthink It: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your first same-sex experience can be nerve-wracking but if you allow yourself to overthink, you could miss out on the many benefits of your experience. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/make-sure-stress-doesnt-doom-bedroom\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Overthinking during sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can lead to a lack of climaxing, and creating an imaginary barrier between you and your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>No Two Bodies are the Same: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As already mentioned, it\u2019s important to have an open mind and to remember that pleasure is subjective. What feels good for you may not feel good for your partner. Try not to feel despondent if you are fumbling your way in hopes of creating sexual bliss. Use <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/communication-as-a-tool-for-better-sex\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and practice, and you\u2019ll get there.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Be Proud of Yourself:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Going for what you want, and embracing who you are is a cause for celebration. You should be extremely proud of yourself for knowing who you are and living out new experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think that you\u2019re ready for your first time lesbian experience? It can be completely thrilling and arousing, so why not embrace your curiosity? Just make sure to take your time, breathe, and do what makes you feel comfortable. There are fun times ahead\u2026 get ready for the ride.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>PSA: You\u2019re never too old to figure out who you are. Whether you\u2019re having doubts about your career choice, your current partner, or your sexual orientation, you have the power to change your circumstances and opinions.\u00a0 And quite honestly, I totally recommend that you do work on something that\u2019s holding you back from living your truth. Insert clich\u00e9 quote here:\u00a0 \u201cIf you don\u2019t like how things are, change it! You\u2019re not a tree\u201d &#8211; Jim Rohn. 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