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Looking to add some more gay sex positions to your bedroom routine? Perhaps need a few foreplay ideas and tips to try something new? There\u2019s always room to spice things up while getting intimate!<\/span><\/p>\n

So, whether you\u2019re seeking a different kind of thrill, feel like experiencing different sensations, or just intrigued, this article will reveal all!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve compiled a list of different gay sex positions, gay oral sex positions, different foreplay ideas, and some tips and tricks so that you can get even more creative during your trysts.<\/span><\/p>\n

The Dynamics of Gay Sex<\/span><\/h2>\n

During gay sex, there will be one \u2018top\u2019 and one \u2018bottom\u2019. The top is usually the one who penetrates anally, while the bottom is usually the one who receives <\/span>anal penetration<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s also possible for one or both to be \u2018versatile\u2019, which essentially means that they\u2019re happy to be the top or the bottom.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gay Oral Sex Positions<\/span><\/h2>\n

Gay 69 Techniques<\/span><\/h3>\n

1. Gay 69:<\/strong> You can enjoy this classic whilst lying down, on your knees, sideways, sitting, or standing, depending on your comfort and flexibility level.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A fun twist could entail one sitting down, while the other flips over and faces away from their partner. Then, the one on top will rest their knees beside their seated partner\u2019s knees or on the seat\u2019s armrest, giving access to each other\u2019s intimate parts.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gay Blowjob Techniques<\/span><\/h3>\n

2. Ariel:<\/b> Allow one partner to grab onto something, or be tied up in such a way that they\u2019re dangling, while their partner gives them a <\/span>blowjob<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Face Fucking: <\/b>While one partner lies down, the other gets on top and thrusts their penis into their partner\u2019s mouth.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Crab: <\/b>One partner sits back with their legs widened, either resting with their feet flat on a surface, or wrapped around their partner\u2019s back, as the other gives them oral.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Squatting:<\/b> One partner is seated while the other climbs on top and squats up and down into their mouth.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Gay Rimming Techniques<\/span><\/h3>\n

6. Prone: <\/b>One partner will lie down flat on their stomach, while the other sits or bends in such a way that they have uninterrupted access to rimming pleasure.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Shoulderstand:<\/b> One partner lies down on their back and lifts their legs back as far as they can go, allowing the other to rim them.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Kneeling: <\/b>One partner is on their knees with their back facing their partner while pushing their ass out. Or one kneels over their partner\u2019s face in a suitable position to receive a rimjob.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gay Foreplay Tips<\/span><\/h2>\n

9. Gay Ass Massage: <\/b>A sensual way to create heightened arousal, and prepare for anal fun, is to indulge in a sensual ass <\/span>massage<\/span><\/a>. This too could become more spicy with spanking or whipping.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. Gay Footjob:<\/b> One partner places their penis in between someone\u2019s feet and either thrusts their pelvis, or allows their partner to move their <\/span>feet<\/span> in such a way that a jerking action is created.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. Gay Sword Fighting:<\/b> Rubbing or knocking two penises together either for fun or arousal.<\/span><\/p>\n

12. Gay Helicopter:<\/b> One partner sits on top of the other and dangles their penis on their partner. This could also be done during gay sex.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gay Sex Positions<\/span><\/h2>\n

13. Bodyguard<\/span><\/h3>\n

This is essentially <\/span>doggy style sex<\/span><\/a>. You can practice it by having both partners standing up, sitting on their knees, or standing with one leg perched up on top of a surface while the other stands. Both will be facing away from each other as one thrusts into the other.<\/span><\/p>\n

14. Bumper Cars<\/span><\/h3>\n

Both partners will face away from each other on their stomach, lying topsy-turvy, allowing their asses to touch, and thus allowing for penetration.<\/span><\/p>\n

15. Cowboy Splits<\/span><\/h3>\n

One partner is on their back with their legs open, the other sits on top of them with their legs even wider (or in a split position, if possible!), allowing for penetration.<\/span><\/p>\n

16. Standing Leg Glider<\/span><\/h3>\n

One partner lies on their stomach with their legs and ass hanging off a surface so that the other can penetrate them.<\/span><\/p>\n

17. Inverse Missionary<\/span><\/h3>\n

The <\/span>missionary position<\/span><\/a>, positioned in such a way that anal sex is possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

18. Pyramid<\/span><\/h3>\n

A tricky one, but one partner will position themselves in such a way that they\u2019re lying on their back, and lifting their legs in the air with their lower back slightly raised. In this way, the other can climb on top, use their partner\u2019s legs for stability, and have penetrative anal sex.<\/span><\/p>\n

19. T-Square<\/span><\/h3>\n

One partner will be on their back, holding one leg up and to the side. The other will glide in from the side, allowing the one receiving penetration to jerk off simultaneously.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Gay Sex Tips and Tricks<\/span><\/h2>\n

20. Experiment<\/span><\/h3>\n

Not every gay sex position will work for you and your partner. For example, if one is tall and the other is very short, you\u2019ll be able to enjoy different kinds of positions as opposed to two people who\u2019re more beefy. The trick is to try different angles, and work your level of flexibility into the equation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

21. Squeeze<\/span><\/h3>\n

When you\u2019re receiving anal sex, and you\u2019re all warmed up, squeezing your hole will give you and your partner an extra boost of tight penetration.<\/span><\/p>\n

22. Condoms<\/span><\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re having a threesome, foursome, or more-some, be sure to change the <\/span>condom<\/span><\/a> between partners.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

23. Kegels<\/span><\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re the one penetrating, do a stretch of kegels whilst inside your partner. This will result in your penis going up and down, which will stimulate different places in your partner. And if you\u2019re unfamiliar with <\/span>kegel exercises<\/span><\/a>, it\u2019s the action of squeezing your pelvic floor, as if you needed to pee, for a few seconds, then releasing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

24. Vibrating Cock Rings<\/span><\/h3>\n

A sexy addition to your routine, a <\/span>vibrating cock ring<\/span><\/a> will enhance pleasure for both partners. Depending on your chosen cock ring, you could experience perineum tingles, or a tease on your cock and balls\/ass. It also helps one stay harder for longer, and to have stronger erections.<\/span><\/p>\n

25. Breathe<\/span><\/h3>\n

For newbies and experienced anal sex enthusiasts, <\/span>breathing<\/span><\/a> will help you to control your orgasms, and if done correctly, could help delay them.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

And so, here you have a bunch of new things to try in the bedroom! Which one are you dying to try first?<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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