{"id":33886,"date":"2021-04-26T23:25:05","date_gmt":"2021-04-26T21:25:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=33886"},"modified":"2026-01-30T06:31:27","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T05:31:27","slug":"lube-is-important-for-anal-play","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/lube-is-important-for-anal-play\/","title":{"rendered":"Why is Lube So Important for Anal Play &#038; What Lube Should You Be Using?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, you love a bit of anal pleasure? Fabulous! Those who embrace this kind of play are welcoming a whole new world of delicious sensations to their sexual experience.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anal<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> isn\u2019t for you though, that\u2019s fine! Whatever floats your boat! But if you are either active or intrigued when it comes to this kind of fun, there are a few things that you may or may not know&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, today we\u2019re talking about lube! <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/all-lubed-up-ready-to-go-why-and-how-to-use-lube\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Soft, silky, wet anal lube<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You know, the stuff that makes any sexual activity even more enjoyable? And not just for women, as many might believe. Lube is a sensual sexual wellness product that\u2019s just as important for men too.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like, when it comes to women, she either needs to produce lubrication naturally, or use lube. This is because sex without it can be pretty uncomfortable and even painful. Then, when it comes anal pleasure (for both men and women), the anus hardly produces any natural lubrication at all.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does that mean? There\u2019s no question about\u2026 lube is absolutely essential for good health and wellbeing. Without lube, anal sex can be excruciating, and life\u2019s just too short to deal with that kind of pain and discomfort.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Anal Lube Should You Being Using?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The lube you decide to use depends on your preference, but it\u2019s generally thicker kinds of lube that are better for anal sex.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is because the tissue in and surrounding the rectum is more sensitive than vaginal tissue, and using a thick lube will help reduce friction and abrasion.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At the same time, bear in mind that some lubes may not be safe to use with <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">latex<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, such as oil-based lube. Oil lube tends to weaken latex, which is something surely no latex user wants to experience. Additionally, petroleum-based lube, like Vaseline or baby oil, actually destroys latex, so steer clear of this kind of lubricant for safety reasons.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using thicker lube should also be in conjunction with slow and mindful <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/why-anal-play-can-feel-good-for-every-body\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anal play<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. The anal sphincter needs to be relaxed in order to receive and enjoy the experience.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We suggest engaging in different kinds of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/better-world-oral-sex-day-tips\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">oral sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/ways-men-and-women-can-use-a-vibrator-during-foreplay\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">foreplay<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> beforehand to enhance arousal, and to gently massage or tease the area before any kind of penetration.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And then, the million-dollar question: what lube should you be using for anal play? We suggestwater-based lube, as it\u2019s silky and slick<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Water-based lube is safe to use with latex, and is body-safe too, making it the real winner at the end of the day.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s often more comfortable to place the lube in your hand and glide it between your fingers to warm it up before you place it on your lover.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then, when it\u2019s time for your anal adventure, remember to take it slow and allow the receiver to verbalise how they\u2019re feeling in order to maximize pleasure and comfort. Respect and consent are always a must!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using a condom is also advised for new partners or for those engaging in fun when both partners have not been tested. This will lower the chance of spreading STIs and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/hiv-aids\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HIV<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. And in the case of going from oral sex to anal play, like rimming, you could consider using a dental dam as a barrier between the mouth and the anus.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this case, be mindful of the condom, as lubrication does increase the risk of it slipping off. Holding the condom at the base of the penis when intercourse is over is a good idea to help prevent this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/review-roundup-lelo-hex-condoms\/\">Condom<\/a> Tip:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> If you\u2019re not a fan of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">condoms<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and believe that it dulls sensitivity, you can place a dollop of lube onto the head of the penis before you put on the condom. This will enhance sensitivity and pleasure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And now you\u2019re ready to give anal play a go, or perhaps make your session even more sexy, pleasurable, and safe! Have fun!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, you love a bit of anal pleasure? Fabulous! Those who embrace this kind of play are welcoming a whole new world of delicious sensations to their sexual experience.\u00a0 If anal isn\u2019t for you though, that\u2019s fine! Whatever floats your boat! But if you are either active or intrigued when it comes to this kind of fun, there are a few things that you may or may not know&#8230; So, today we\u2019re talking about lube! Soft, silky, wet anal lube. 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