{"id":34009,"date":"2021-05-01T23:57:12","date_gmt":"2021-05-01T21:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=34009"},"modified":"2021-05-07T15:12:08","modified_gmt":"2021-05-07T13:12:08","slug":"global-love-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/global-love-day\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Love Unconditionally: A Global Love Day Lesson"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unconditional love is hard to explain. Applying it to ourselves is sometimes even more difficult. That\u2019s why this Global Love Day is inspired by the phrase \u201cLove begins with me.\u201d Our self-love is often buried beneath layers of trauma, guilt, and pain, which makes it easy to overlook the fact that love is always present.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-34011 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/global-love-day.jpeg\" alt=\"global love day\" width=\"850\" height=\"425\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is Global Love Day?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Global Love Day is a global holiday dedicated to expressing unconditional love.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When is Global Love Day?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every year on May 1.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How did Global Love Day start?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The history of Global Love Day began in 2004, when \u201cThe Love Foundation\u201d began the holiday with the hopes of unifying and celebrating humanity through acts of love. Their website states it best:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are one humanity on this planet.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All life is interconnected and interdependent.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All share in the Universal bond of love.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love begins with self-acceptance and forgiveness.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With respect and compassion we embrace diversity.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Together we make a difference through love.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First things first, is unconditional love possible? Those who ask this question, along with those who are quick to answer it, often mistake what unconditional love really means. You\u2019re probably apt to say something like \u201cthe love between a mother and child,\u201d but unconditional love is different from familial bonds. It <em>can<\/em> exist between familial bonds, but people often search for it in romantic relationships as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unconditional love means caring about someone else\u2019s happiness even though it has no benefit to you. The \u201cfeel good\u201d feeling released when someone else\u2019s happiness makes us happy is the brain\u2019s signal of love that supersedes any type of exchange. In essence, it\u2019s about giving without reciprocation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tips for Unconditional Love<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/communication-as-a-tool-for-better-sex\/\">Communicate your wants and needs<\/a>, including emotional, spiritual and physical or sexual.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stop getting caught up in the details. Once you start nit-picking, all you do is facilitate a wedge between you and your partner. It also creates a hostile environment where everyone starts taking things personally and getting defensive.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respect your partner as your equal. Of course, you\u2019ll split the responsibilities, but including one another in the smallest of decisions is a signal that both of you are in this, together, just like you vowed to be.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Does unconditional love hinder or strengthen mental wellbeing?<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/institutpsychoneuro.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Beauregard2009-Unconditional-love.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">One study<\/a> finds that unconditional love activates rewarding parts of the brain that romantic love otherwise doesn&#8217;t. It also activates the same parts of the brain associated with desire, euphoria and addiction. The question if it&#8217;s less risky is up to you to decide.<\/p>\n<p>On the flip side, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pnas.org\/content\/early\/2013\/09\/18\/1315458110.abstract\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">another study<\/a> finds that children who receive unconditional love are more resilient in adulthood because they are less likely to suffer from trauma and other mental health issues and they&#8217;re also less likely to suffer from physical diseases related physiological systems.<\/p>\n<h3>So, are there any downsides to unconditional love?<\/h3>\n<p>Some argue that unconditional love isn&#8217;t something that&#8217;s given, it&#8217;s a long a grueling process. Even if it is, this selfless act, especially when taught to yourself, shows that love can exist, no matter the circumstance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unconditional love is hard to explain. Applying it to ourselves is sometimes even more difficult. 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