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Whether you\u2019re getting down with one person or several, there\u2019s a ton of fun to be had! And even though the notion of a gang bang can be kind of daunting or even foul to some, others find it <\/span>ext<\/span>r<\/span>emely erotic<\/span>. Whatever your pleasure, treasure! This is why we\u2019re adopting the attitude, the more the merrier.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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So, if you\u2019ve ever wondered about gang bangs\u2014what it entails, how to have one, and other saucy details, we\u2019ve got you covered. It\u2019s a wild ride, not for everyone, but still an intriguing practice, that\u2019s for sure.<\/span><\/p>\n

What is a Gang Bang?<\/span><\/h2>\n

A gang bang is usually more than three people who engage in different sexual activities with one specific person. This person is the focal point in the gang bang, meaning that the others involved will direct their sexual acts onto that person.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A gang bang is usually one woman surrounded by several men, but this could be done in reverse (called a \u2018reverse gang bang\u2019) and entails one man and several women.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Whichever kind of gang bang, the participants don\u2019t engage in sexual acts with each other, but only with the person of focus. The sequence of sexual acts differs, and some participants may simply stand back, <\/span>watch<\/span><\/a>, and <\/span>masturbate<\/span> whilst \u2018waiting their turn\u2019.<\/span><\/p>\n

What are some of the biggest gang bangs that have ever taken place? Well, there was a porn star, Annabel Chong, who engaged in 251 sex acts with men, making it the biggest gang bang at that time (1999).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The gang bang was recorded as a <\/span>porn film<\/span> called, <\/span>The World\u2019s Biggest Gang Bang,<\/span><\/i> and was hosted by Ron Jeremy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Then, in 2003, the record was set at 757 men in less than 24 hours, and in 2004, porn star Lisa Sparxxx had sex with 919 men in less than 24 hours.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Is it Normal to Fantasize About Gang Bangs?<\/span><\/h2>\n

The short answer? Yep, it\u2019s pretty normal. In a study by <\/span>Justin J Lehmiller Ph.D.<\/span>, it was found that one of the seven most common sexual fantasies was multi-partner sex (<\/span>threesomes<\/span>, <\/span>orgies<\/span><\/a>, and gang bangs).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For this particular fantasy, 95% of men and 87% of women agreed to have fantasized about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, it was found that 87% of men and 72% of women found the idea of <\/span>sexual taboos<\/span><\/a> appealing, which too could very well pertain to experiencing a gang bang.<\/span><\/p>\n

Another study<\/a>, done by the researchers at the University of Montreal in 2014, said that 28.3 percent of the women and 13.1 percent of the men had had one or more fantasies about having sex with more than one man at the same time. 24.7 percent of the women and 73.3 percent of the men fantasized about having sex with more than one woman at the same time.<\/p>\n

And while this doesn\u2019t necessarily correlate to a gang bang (it could merely mean a <\/span>threesome<\/span>), it does give insight into the way in which these men and women feel about sex with multiple partners.<\/span><\/p>\n

A possible reason for this fantasy is simply because of the taboo and\/or shame factor alone. <\/span>\u201cShame and sexiness tend to be strongly tied together,\u201d<\/span><\/i> says Liz Powell, a psychotherapist.<\/span><\/p>\n

Can a Women Who Fantasizes About Gang Bangs Be a Feminist?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Interestingly, the whole idea of a woman desiring or fantasizing about a gang bang could bring to light the notion of feminism. Some women may believe that they\u2019re a \u2018bad\u2019 feminist if they have fantasies about or engage in this kind of sexual act.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ingrid Mouth, a porn performer, gives her opinion on the matter by saying:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cWomen like sex. Some women like sex with multiple partners. There\u2019s nothing wrong with sex and there\u2019s nothing wrong with having a fantasy. And if your gang bang fetish specifically involves degradation, well, that\u2019s a whole fetish unto itself that is not gender-specific, and which can be hot as fuck in a consensual setting.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Another way in which to look at it would be from the view of a writer, Amanda Kerri:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s not the people using the woman in the center of the gang bang. It\u2019s her body and sexuality that\u2019s the center of the lust, and she\u2019s in full control of it.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Kerri too states that a gang bang need not necessarily be done with one female and several cis males. It could include women or trans people wearing strap-ons, which is an interesting perspective when looking at <\/span>feminism<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Is Group Sex and a Gang Bang the Same Thing?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Not necessarily, no. Group sex is an umbrella term that could be a <\/span>threesome<\/span>, foursome, an orgy, etc. Group sex is about all play partners giving and receiving pleasure.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A gang bang, however, is a different kind of sexual act that involves four or more people, with one person being at the center of giving and receiving pleasure\/sexual stimulation. As mentioned, the participants do not engage with one another equally but focus on one person.<\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s the Difference Between an Orgy, a Swingers Party, and a Gang Bang?<\/span><\/h2>\n

An orgy involves five or more participants. During an orgy, all guests can engage with each other freely, with consent, in an open and judgment-free environment.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A swinger party<\/span> usually consists of couples who visit the event together and exchange partners. It does not always involve an orgy or group sex, but more so couples going into different rooms or spaces to be intimate, or having people watch.<\/span><\/p>\n

Then, of course, a gang bang is one person being the focal point of sexual pleasure.<\/span><\/p>\n

A Final Word: Group Sex Etiquette\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

If you find yourself somewhat curious about participating in a kind of group sex (be it a threesome, foursome, orgy, or gang bang) or even hoping to visit a swinger party, here are a few things you may want to keep in mind\u2026\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

6 Tips on Group Sex Etiquette<\/span><\/h3>\n