{"id":35842,"date":"2021-06-30T13:00:21","date_gmt":"2021-06-30T11:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=35842"},"modified":"2024-12-19T06:00:56","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T05:00:56","slug":"gfd-gentle-femdom-kink","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/gfd-gentle-femdom-kink\/","title":{"rendered":"(GFD) Gentle FemDom: A Kink You Never Knew You Wanted?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The images and ideas that are conjured up when thinking of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/light-dark-kinky-vanilla-suggestions-add-bdsm-to-the-bedroom\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM and kink<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can sometimes be misleading or inaccurate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For many who are unfamiliar with these kinds of practices, it may seem daunting, strange, outlandish, or even down-right abusive. In actuality, these terms are completely unreliable, and couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, in the realm of BDSM and kink, if practiced correctly, there is a tremendous amount of respect, trust, and sometimes, love. The acts that come with this kind of lifestyle should always involve two consenting adults who both derive pleasure, happiness, and an overall feeling of wellbeing from said-lifestyle.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And today, we\u2019re going to introduce you to a more gentle side of BDSM. That is, gentle FemDom, aka gentle female domination, aka GFD.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is Gentle FemDom?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gentle FemDom is when a female, or a partner who identifies as \u2018femme\u2019, dominates their partner in a gentle way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It isn\u2019t anything like the scenes you may have seen in films or porn that incorporate intense acts of domination sans emotion. It\u2019s a more caring and loving way in which a female nurtures yet takes charge of her <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/what-makes-a-good-submissive\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">submissive<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or partner while they engage in mutually-beneficial acts.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The term \u2018gentle FemDom\u2019 is, in a way, a defiance against the male-centered, unemotional scenes that are depicted in the media, and oftentimes doesn\u2019t include forms of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pain<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, degradation, or emasculation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A gentle dominatrix will take charge but also reward her submissive or partner in a tender and affectionate manner. As for the submissives, these individuals oftentimes take great pride in serving their dom, and also usually glorify them physically and emotionally. Despite this, the sub gains just as much satisfaction as their dom, without the use of physical or emotional control\/pain.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Are Some Examples of Gentle FemDom?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While extreme acts that involve pain and humiliation are often off the table, there are other acts of domination that tend to happen in this kind of dom-sub relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Some examples of gentle FemDom can include:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/intima-silk-blindfold-review\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Blindfolding<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Teasing<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/edging-tips-for-better-orgasms\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Orgasm delay<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Orgasm denial<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Collaring<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Body Worship<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Light <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bondage-toys-for-beginners-and-experienced\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bondage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, like tying of the hands<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acts of servitude, like performing chores and errands<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Light control over every day decisions, such as outfit choices<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>As for rewarding one\u2019s sub, here are some examples:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gentle stroking<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Words of affirmation and praise<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Giving or receiving <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/pussy-eating-101\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">oral sex<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allowing the sub to touch themselves<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allowing the sub to climax<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are merely examples and suggestions, and each dom-sub relationship will be unique with agreed-upon conditions and consent.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gentle FemDom: A Vanilla Version of Domination?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Calling gentle FemDom a vanilla version of domination is actually quite apt. For this reason, many submissives seeking a gentle dominatrix may prefer to have real relationships with their doms as opposed to hiring a professional dominatrix. In this way, the sub can continuously lavish their dom with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/love-languages\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">attention, physical touch, gifts, acts of service, and words of affirmation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As for the gentle dominatrix, she may really enjoy holding a sense of power and responsibility over her sub, but usually has no intention or interest in harming them in any way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gentle doms could enjoy taking on this role partly because of the male-driven society we tend to live in, but there are, of course, other reasons why this lifestyle may be appealing to both men and women.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Experimenting with gentle FemDom could also be the first step for some in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">experiencing the BDSM lifestyle<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. And it\u2019s the perfect way to dip your toe into this magical world, as it\u2019s done with the intention of love and empathy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gentle FemDom: A Form of Domination You Never Knew You Wanted!<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For those who\u2019ve just learned about the wonderful term \u2018GFD\u2019, you may be thinking to yourself <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWow, this is a form of domination I never knew I even wanted,\u201d <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">which is the case for these <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reddit users<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Original Post:<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOne of my biggest turn-ons is taking care of a cute boy and sexually making him feel really good. The idea of tying a guy&#8217;s arms above his head and just worshiping his body (in a way that makes him blushy and embarrassed) is a huge fantasy in my head. It goes beyond sexual though. I love comforting boys and holding them in my arms and stroking their hair gently, whispering to them, and essentially babying them.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Comments:<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cMy God that sounds amazing.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI didn\u2019t know I wanted this until OP described it.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYeah, really never thought about it before but that does sound good.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI love having a woman in control at times.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWay too much of femdom stuff involves pain and humiliation which are both definitely turn offs for me. No pain, no humiliation, just erotic buildup and pleasure.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBeing made love to by a woman and just being able to relax and savor the whole thing would be my definition of heaven.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAs a guy, it feels like so much pressure is on you to perform, so being taken care of and worshipped honestly sounds blissful.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI&#8217;d be surprised if you find anyone not willing.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having said that, is gentle FemDom something you didn\u2019t know you wanted?<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The images and ideas that are conjured up when thinking of BDSM and kink can sometimes be misleading or inaccurate.\u00a0 For many who are unfamiliar with these kinds of practices, it may seem daunting, strange, outlandish, or even down-right abusive. 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