{"id":36554,"date":"2021-08-09T13:00:29","date_gmt":"2021-08-09T11:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=36554"},"modified":"2024-11-18T04:12:23","modified_gmt":"2024-11-18T03:12:23","slug":"bdsm-brat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bdsm-brat\/","title":{"rendered":"What Is a Brat in the BDSM Community?"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019re all familiar with the term \u2018brat\u2019, right? And often it comes with negative connotations. But in a twist, there\u2019s actually a world where being a brat is a desirable trait\u2026 that is, in the <\/span>BDSM community<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Well, this is not to say that <\/span>all<\/span><\/i> those who live the BDSM lifestyle find a brat appealing! But there definitely is a portion that feels their best when they either identify as being a brat, or being<\/span> in love<\/span><\/a> or lust with one.<\/span><\/p>\n

What is a Brat in BDSM Terms?<\/span><\/h1>\n

A brat is often an individual who identifies as a <\/span>submissive<\/span><\/a> or a bottom in a dom-sub relationship. They\u2019re usually defiant, and like to misbehave and act out towards their <\/span>dominant<\/span><\/a>, either verbally or physically.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Why? Mainly in hopes of being disciplined. The discipline is then gratifying for both the brat and their dominant, making it quite a match made in heaven.<\/span><\/p>\n

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