{"id":36665,"date":"2021-08-26T13:00:50","date_gmt":"2021-08-26T11:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=36665"},"modified":"2024-12-19T06:10:31","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T05:10:31","slug":"clothed-female-naked-male-cfnm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/clothed-female-naked-male-cfnm\/","title":{"rendered":"The Female Gaze: The Thrill of Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM)"},"content":{"rendered":"

The notion itself: Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM), doesn\u2019t exactly seem like anything special, does it?<\/span><\/p>\n

Picture a Sunday morning where a female partner is in her pyjamas and her male partner is naked. They\u2019re just hanging out, chatting, making breakfast, or maybe he\u2019s just about to <\/span>hop into the shower<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Now this <\/span>would<\/span><\/i> be quite ordinary if that\u2019s what Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) <\/span>actually<\/span><\/i> meant! But in the <\/span>BDSM community,<\/span> that\u2019s not really what it is at all\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

What is Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM)?<\/span><\/h1>\n

In the realm of BDSM, more specifically <\/span>FemDom<\/span><\/a> (female domination), CFNM is when a dominant woman is in the company of a submissive male who isn’t wearing clothes. In this way the male\u2019s vulnerability and submission is emphasised, and the female\u2019s control is heightened.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The fun doesn\u2019t just stop there though\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

During this kind of scene, the female has been given the consent of the naked male to perform all kinds of erotic acts on them, which is usually that of humiliation, teasing<\/a>, torture, and bondage.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Why is Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) Appealing?\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) is essentially about the power of the female gaze, in this case: sexual power. In this way the male is the object, which goes against mainstream society, especially <\/span>porn<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The majority of porn videos have been created with the male gaze in mind. And so, when the roles are reversed, it gives females a sense of power and control. This alone can be an erotic thought, almost to the point of it being a <\/span>taboo<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

CFNM can also merely be a form of porn and\/or entertainment for women. It\u2019s a role reversal whereby the female is sexually liberated while the men are seen as sex objects.<\/span><\/p>\n

For males, Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) can be highly appealing for a number of different reasons. They may have an <\/span>exhibitionism<\/span><\/a> kink, which is then explored during this kind of play. For many men, exposing themselves in front of a woman can be very arousing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Additionally, a male may actively seek a female dominant to submit to: receiving humiliation, torture, rewards, punishment, and more.<\/span><\/p>\n

Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM), Have You Experienced it?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Quite surprisingly, you may have experienced Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) yourself, in the case of going to a male <\/span>strip club<\/span>. In this scenario, the women are fully clothed while the men get naked and become the object of admiration.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

And so, many women, either as a night out or for a bachelorette party, make their way to a male strip club or enjoy the scenes of a male stripper as a means to be entertained and have a laugh.<\/span><\/p>\n

How to Practice Clothed Female, Naked Male (CFNM) at Home<\/span><\/h2>\n

So you want to give CFNM a go! You needn\u2019t be in the BDSM community, nor practice any other kind of non-vanilla sexual acts, to enjoy it. It can be experienced at whatever level you and your partner are comfortable with. You could even enjoy it as a form of <\/span>role play<\/span><\/a>, if that\u2019s what you\u2019re into.<\/span><\/p>\n

With that, here are some ways you can practice CFNM\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n