{"id":37074,"date":"2021-10-12T15:17:08","date_gmt":"2021-10-12T13:17:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=37074"},"modified":"2021-10-19T10:10:33","modified_gmt":"2021-10-19T08:10:33","slug":"total-power-exchange","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/total-power-exchange\/","title":{"rendered":"Succumbing to the Lifestyle of Total Power Exchange (TPE)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some, giving up all control sounds like a nightmare. For others, it\u2019s the ultimate form of freedom. So when two people in the BDSM community pair together, each holding one of these notions, the basic premise for a total power exchange (TPE) relationship has the potential to blossom.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-37075\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/total-power-exchange_850x425.jpeg\" alt=\"total power exchange\" width=\"850\" height=\"425\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/total-power-exchange_850x425.jpeg 850w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/total-power-exchange_850x425-300x150.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/total-power-exchange_850x425-768x384.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is Total Power Exchange (TPE)?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Total power exchange is a specific type of power play that could happen between a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/what-qualities-make-a-good-dom\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dominant<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\/Master\/Mistress and a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/what-makes-a-good-submissive\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">submissive<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\/slave.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And while there are some who simply practice this kind of exchange exclusively during <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a scene<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, total power exchange is when the said power is maintained outside of scenes and in their everyday lives. For that reason, total power exchange is sometimes referred to as \u201c24\/7\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is not to say that the practices are extreme. They could be, yes, but this kind of power exchange could too be used in a form of gentle domination, like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/gfd-gentle-femdom-kink\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">FemDom<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, for example.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Either way, because of the nature of this lifestyle, those who engage in total power exchange often use the phrases \u201cMaster\u201d or \u201cMistress\u201d and slave. You\u2019ll note that the \u2018M\u2019 in Master and Mistress is capitalized, emphasising the power exchange at play.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting Started with Total Power Exchange (TPE)<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before any form of control is assumed, a couple will discuss what their needs, wants, likes, and dislikes are. They\u2019ll talk about types of rewards and punishments, duties, and come up with a suitable <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/deciding-hard-limits-safe-words\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">safe word<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to ensure ultimate safety and consent at all times.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this way, the Master or Mistress and their slave will set out a contract that solidifies their agreement. This contract will act as the base for the duration of their relationship, as opposed to communication prior to every scene.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a twist, however, it becomes evident during this conversation that the slave tends to have more power, as it is them who agrees or disagrees with ideas and practices.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A contract between a Master\/Mistress and a slave may include things such as:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Each partner\u2019s role<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Moments where any idea, act, or practice can be vetoed by the slave<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rewards and punishments<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to end a contract<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A Slave\u2019s Wellbeing in a Total Power Exchange (TPE) Relationship<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a relationship that practices total power exchange, it is mutually beneficial for both the Mistress\/Master and their slave.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As we mentioned, the notion of giving up full control being either a nightmare or a sense of freedom, each participant actively enjoys and seeks this kind of relationship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At the same time, it\u2019s important for Masters and Mistresses to understand that their slave\u2019s wellbeing is their responsibility. At all times, their sense of emotional, mental, and physical safety must be considered, ensuring that no harm is caused.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A slave too must understand their Master or Mistresses abilities and limitations in order for a fruitful and fulfilling total power exchange relationship to thrive. And, of course, things such as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/bdsm-beginners-aftercare\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aftercare<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/what-is-sub-drop\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sub drop<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d should be considered too.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aftercare is when, after a BDSM scene, a dominant or Master\/Mistress comforts their submissive or slave, and together they both feel an overall feeling of safety and comfort.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sub drop refers to, after an intense scene, a submissive or slave feeling down, stressed, or irritable. This happens when the rush of feel-good <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hormones<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> experienced during a scene starts to dissipate, leaving the body to re-regulate itself.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With that, effective aftercare could contribute to less of a sub drop in a sense. Aftercare can also extend to a few hours or days after a scene, which would include doing certain things to make a submissive or slave feel better.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perhaps they\u2019d prefer to be left alone, or maybe they\u2019d like to be in their Master\/Mistresses company in a loving manner, with candles, snacks, or warm blankets. All of these factors should be discussed during the contract phase of the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">9 Ways Total Power Exchange (TPE) Can Be Practiced<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While every Master\/Mistress and slave\u2019s relationship is different, here are some activities and forms of control that two people engaging in total power exchange could practice:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b> Wearing a Collar: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A collar could be worn by the slave to signify ownership.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Orgasm Control or <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/orgasm-denial-a-sexual-build-up-of-intense-pleasure\/\"><b>Orgasm Denial<\/b><\/a><b>:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A Master\/Mistress could allow or deny their slave the right to masturbate, or they dictate when they may or may not orgasm.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Bathroom Habits:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A slave may need to ask permission to go to the bathroom, or they may wear a diaper.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Financial Domination: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A Master\/Mistress may have control over their slave\u2019s money or make decisions on their behalf concerning when and how they work.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Position Control:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> When a slave enters a room, they should assume a certain position, such as kneeling before their Master\/Mistress.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Appearance Control: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A Master\/Mistress could control what their slave wears.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Chores:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A slave may serve their Master\/Mistress by doing household chores and everyday errands.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Services: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A slave may perform tasks and activities that the Master\/Mistress enjoys, such as giving them a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">massage<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, reading them a book, sexually satisfying them, or bringing them food.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Lack of Safeword or Safeword Revocation: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A Master\/Mistress may not use a safeword at all, as they may believe that it negates the sense of holding all control. Some may revoke the chosen-safe word. Both of these actions should be pre-discussed and written in the Master\/Mistress and slave\u2019s contract beforehand.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At the end of the day, the way in which total power exchange is practiced depends solely on the Master\/Mistress and their slave. One thing that is non-negotiable, however, is the communication and creation of a contract beforehand to ensure ultimate safety, satisfaction, and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/consent\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consent<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for both partners at all times.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On that note, consent can be given and taken away at any moment, regardless of what type of relationship is formed between two people. 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