{"id":38247,"date":"2022-02-24T16:38:39","date_gmt":"2022-02-24T15:38:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=37912"},"modified":"2022-04-13T09:06:45","modified_gmt":"2022-04-13T07:06:45","slug":"how-to-be-a-better-lover","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/how-to-be-a-better-lover\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Tips To Help You Be a Better Lover"},"content":{"rendered":"

If your satisfaction with your sex life has been lackluster, instead of finding a new partner or blaming it on both of you being <\/span>incompatible in bed<\/span><\/a>, it might be a good idea to learn how to be a better lover instead.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bad sex doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you or your partner. It simply means that there is plenty of room to learn new things to help you both enjoy sex more. So, here are seven simple tips that will surely help you learn how to be a better lover and start having mind-blowing sex.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Tip #1: Educate Yourself About Sex<\/span><\/h2>\n

Imagine if someone put you in a field and told you to go play football without explaining how to do it or how the game truly works. You might have watched a few seasons of Friday Night Lights, so you might think you know the idea of how American football should be played. However, TV series are scripted and staged, which doesn’t paint the most accurate picture of reality.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

In this scenario, you would suck at playing football. You would run around the field, trying to get the ball or throw a ball, because that’s what you vaguely remember hearing from others or seeing on the TV shows. But in the end, you wouldn’t be a good player.<\/span><\/p>\n

The same idea applies to sex. Unfortunately, most of us lack proper sex ed on the topic and learn about sex from porn or from hearing other people’s experiences. Now, when you don’t spend learning something and mastering the craft, how can you expect to be good at it?<\/span><\/p>\n

Because of that, your very first step when you’re learning how to be a better lover is to educate yourself on sex and sexuality. Read books, listen to <\/span>educational<\/span><\/i> sex podcasts and be curious about sex, your body, and your partner’s body in every way you can.<\/span><\/p>\n

Educating yourself on sexuality and learning how bodies work will help you understand your pleasure better and how to pleasure your partner better. It will also allow you to get rid of false images or opinions about how sex is supposed to be, which will open up many new opportunities to improve your sex life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Here are a few sex-ed resources you can start with:<\/span><\/p>\n