{"id":38282,"date":"2022-04-04T05:00:35","date_gmt":"2022-04-04T03:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=38143"},"modified":"2023-09-09T02:53:19","modified_gmt":"2023-09-09T00:53:19","slug":"g-tries-sila","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/g-tries-sila\/","title":{"rendered":"G Tries: SILA Clitoral Massager (Review + Video)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This week I try SILA, LELO\u2019s sonic clitoral massager which promises to help you reach the climax of your dreams, and let me tell you, she does not disappoint.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><script src=\"https:\/\/fast.wistia.com\/embed\/medias\/e96yz303g4.jsonp\" async><\/script><script src=\"https:\/\/fast.wistia.com\/assets\/external\/E-v1.js\" async><\/script><\/p>\n<div class=\"wistia_responsive_padding\" style=\"padding: 56.25% 0 0 0; position: relative;\">\n<div class=\"wistia_responsive_wrapper\" style=\"height: 100%; left: 0; position: absolute; top: 0; width: 100%;\">\n<div class=\"wistia_embed wistia_async_e96yz303g4 videoFoam=true\" style=\"height: 100%; position: relative; width: 100%;\">\n<div class=\"wistia_swatch\" style=\"height: 100%; left: 0; opacity: 0; overflow: hidden; position: absolute; top: 0; transition: opacity 200ms; width: 100%;\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"filter: blur(5px); height: 100%; object-fit: contain; width: 100%;\" src=\"https:\/\/fast.wistia.com\/embed\/medias\/e96yz303g4\/swatch\" alt=\"\" aria-hidden=\"true\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sila-review\/\">SILA<\/a> is inspired by LELO\u2019s infamous SONA clitoral massager, however, SILA has an overall bigger mouth, ideal if it\u2019s your first time exploring this type of pleasure toy. The larger surface area means that the contact with the clitoris is less direct whilst still covering the clitoris and inner labia. If this is your first-time experiencing LELO\u2019s sonic technology, don\u2019t be alarmed, it will feel different to your average bullet vibrator, but in the best possible way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At first, I was nervous that a clitoral massager might be too intense for me, however, I read a few user reviews on LELO\u2019s website and discovered that a lot of people had found the SILA less intense than other products in LELO\u2019s range, more of a slow building climax than an intense sensory overload. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This eased my nerves, and I was confident that this should be the first of LELO\u2019s products that I trialled for the blog. The reviews weren\u2019t wrong, the SILA isn\u2019t intense, it\u2019s extremely soft and gentle and the wider surface area does make the suction less direct to just the clitoral glans (the part of the clitoris that you can see at the top of the vulva.) However, the orgasm I experienced was far from slow and gentle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For me, the gentle but direct sensation of the SILA, brought me to climax extremely quickly. Though it didn\u2019t feel too intense on the clitoris, the orgasm itself was intense. The beautiful thing about that, is that unlike other toys, you can extend the orgasm and continue to use the toy through climax because the motion isn\u2019t overpowering. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SILA seems to understand the balance between wanting stimulation whilst being able to still feel sensation. I find that some toys which use direct clitoral contact, can replace sensation with solely vibration, which stops you from being able to lean into the orgasm. SILA, however, is extremely gentle and the vibration seems to encompass the entirety of your pleasure zone, rather than just obliterating the clitoral glans with vibration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The varying vibration settings and the ability to control the strength of the vibrations, means that you can, in theory, control the build of climax. I got a bit carried away and ended up increasing the intensity, which meant I wasn\u2019t able to explore all of the vibration settings before I orgasmed. It definitely wasn\u2019t a slow build for me!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-32267 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Aqua_425-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"sila product aqua\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Aqua_425-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Aqua_425.jpg 425w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But that\u2019s the amazing thing about SILA, in particular, that it is really designed to be in tune with your body. You\u2019re in control of the positioning, and only you can feel when the mouth is in the perfect place. This is why I\u2019d suggest saving this toy for your solo-play. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s the perfect toy to explore your orgasm and the realms of what it feels like for you to reach climax. Though it could be a great toy to use to explore communicating what you want from your partner, you\u2019d have to be extremely specific with your instructions as they find the perfect spot for you \u2013 this could be a great way to use your voice during sex with a partner if this is something you struggle with. But overall, SILA is like a sacred self-pleasure toy to me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think it\u2019s worth getting to know the vibration settings, so that you\u2019re not having to switch and search whilst using the product. But at the same time, this toy is all about exploration, so keeping the vibration intensity setting low will enable you to try all eight sonic wave intensity settings and decide which ones you like and what works for you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t go too fast out the gate like I did, take your time and let SILA do the work. It may be that after a few uses, you\u2019re able to increase the intensity earlier on, I definitely find that this took a bit of getting used to. The first time I used SILA, my mind was blown. You read the synopsis on the LELO website, and you think, \u2018surely I\u2019m not going to be soaring to heights of ecstasy\u2019 during a quick bedtime wank. But honestly, SILA is self-love in the shape of a beautifully designed handheld sex toy. Easy to hold, completely waterproof so no need to worry if you\u2019re prone to getting wet and has enough variety that you\u2019re bound to reach climax, even if it takes patience and exploration. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I highly recommend using LELO\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/personal-moisturizer-review\/\">personal moisturiser<\/a>, or any other lube that works for you, as it really helps with the initial positioning of the mouth. And that\u2019s all you need, just yourself, whatever setting you like to self-pleasure in, and a free hand to hold SILA in the right position and you are good to go! You\u2019re going to love it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a class=\"maxbutton-3 maxbutton maxbutton-shop-sila\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/sila\"><span class='mb-text'>SHOP SILA<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This week I try SILA, LELO\u2019s sonic clitoral massager which promises to help you reach the climax of your dreams, and let me tell you, she does not disappoint. &nbsp; SILA is inspired by LELO\u2019s infamous SONA clitoral massager, however, SILA has an overall bigger mouth, ideal if it\u2019s your first time exploring this type of pleasure toy. The larger surface area means that the contact with the clitoris is less direct whilst still covering the clitoris and inner labia. 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