{"id":39654,"date":"2022-10-18T07:05:57","date_gmt":"2022-10-18T05:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=39654"},"modified":"2024-10-30T06:31:58","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T05:31:58","slug":"rollercoaster-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/rollercoaster-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Anxiety &#038; Depression Associated with On-Again, Off-Again Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Did you know that there\u2019s an actual term for on-again, off-again relationships? It\u2019s called \u2018relationship cycling\u2019, and encompasses people who have broken up and gotten back together with their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romantic<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> partner one or more times.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This kind of relationship behavior however, does run the risk of bringing on psychological distress for both partners, such as anxiety and depression. And these types of psychological distresses have even been scientifically proven of late in a 2015-2016 <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1111\/fare.12614\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> by <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kale Monk<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, PhD.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So today, we\u2019re going to zone in on this study, and bring to light the ways in which anyone has the capability of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">suffering<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when they experience relationship cycling.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We\u2019ll also look at some of the most common reasons why couples tend to go through the experience of on-again, off-again relationships.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scientific Research: Relationship Cycling &amp; Psychological Distress\u00a0<\/span><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The study looked at 545 individuals, all of varying sexual orientations. 59 percent of participants identified as female, 38 percent of participants identified as male, and 80 percent of participants were living with their romantic partner.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The average age was 35, the average length of the relationship was seven years, and 42 percent of these couples had children.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So while there was variation in the participants, they all had something in common: they were going through the motions in an on-again, off-again relationship. The study then aimed to look at their symptoms of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sex-and-depression\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">depression<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sex-and-anxiety-casey-tanner\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anxiety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> over a period of 15 months.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The results? This kind of dating behavior, was, in fact, associated with psychological distress and change in distress over time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Method: Measuring Levels of Mental Health<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>To reach a conclusion, the researchers looked at things such as:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If individuals were experiencing anxiety and depression<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If individuals had ever broken up with their partner then gotten back together, and if so, how many times<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The relationship type: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">same-sex<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> vs. different-sex<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there was an element of physical <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">violence in the relationship<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The amount of relationship <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">satisfaction<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The amount of relationship uncertainty\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Results: On-Again, Off-Again Relationships &amp; Psychological Distress<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The results of the study showed that yes, on-again, off-again relationships were associated with anxiety and depression. The severity of this anxiety and depression actually deepened the more times someone had broken up and gotten back together with a partner.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s also interesting about this study, is that it found that higher levels of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/advice-to-reject-after-a-breakup\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">breaking up<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and getting back together were linked to even lower relationship satisfaction overall.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, on top of feelings of anxiety and depression, the relationship itself may be worse the second, third, fourth etc. time around. Adversely, when two people are in a healthy <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romantic relationship<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it can aid in better physical and mental health.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In other words, the research found that <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cthe more frequent participants broke up and renewed, the more distress symptoms they reported at baseline and over time\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why Does Relationship Cycling Cause Psychological Distress?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mostly, the whole ordeal of breaking up and getting back together, regardless of circumstances, brings about a feeling of disruption and uncertainty.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It gives individuals the experience of going from relative stability where they learn to adapt, change roles, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">identities<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and circumstances, to a period of transition, which can be entirely disruptive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, when partners break up, not only does it impact an individual\u2019s relationship status, but also their life, such as goals, everyday events and tasks, and bigger life happenings. It\u2019s often associated with chaos, instability, uncertainty, and inability to make future plans.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s also a period of volatility towards partners during a break up, which can affect individuals in other spheres of their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So why do individuals tend to go through relationship cycling? Why are there couples out there who continue to break up and get back together, even if it seems as though their relationship is doomed?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, there\u2019s the aspect of lingering feelings, yes, but heavier than that, couples may have shared responsibilities, such as having <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">children<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, joint bank accounts, pets, and assets.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having said that, professionals recommend that it\u2019s better to either end a relationship that\u2019s going through relationship cycling, permanently, or to work hard to stabilise the relationship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the latter, they suggest doing so only if it feels as if there is a real possibility of creating stability.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies aside, why do couples tend to experience relationship cycling?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Common Causes As to Why Couples Experience Relationship Cycling<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Imbalance:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> it may be hard to attain goals or satisfy the demands of your life whilst in a relationship. However, you still care about your partner. So, you call it quits for a certain period of time before getting back together again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Incompatibility: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the chemistry may be undeniable, but when it comes down to bigger things in life, you may tend to have different views and opinions. Major issues, like rarely agreeing on anything, may push you apart, but it\u2019s the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chemistry<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that tends to pull you back in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Uncertainty:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> the fun is there, but the relationship itself may not stimulate you or give you what you feel you need. Then, once you break up, you tend to miss that person, which could inevitably bring you both back together. In the same token, someone may feel as though the grass is greener on the other side, so they <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">date other people<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, only to find that the grass was, in fact, not greener.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Lack of Communication:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when things are good, they\u2019re good. But when it comes down to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/casey-tanner\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communicating<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about the bigger things, maybe you or your partner aren\u2019t very good at expressing yourself. So, instead of talking things through, you avoid the issue and break up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>History:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for partners who\u2019ve been together for a certain amount of time, it seems almost impossible to envision themselves with someone else. Many don\u2019t want to feel as though they wasted a lot of time putting in the effort with one partner, so they break up and get back together, instead of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">starting something new with someone else<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, in essence, every relationship is unique. This study has merely given us insight into how on-again, off-again relationships can affect our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sex-masturbation-and-mental-health\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mental health<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, if you\u2019re experiencing relationship cycling, yet feel as though your relationship is worth saving, perhaps visiting a professional is a great idea? At the very least, some deep introspection will be helpful.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you know that there\u2019s an actual term for on-again, off-again relationships? It\u2019s called \u2018relationship cycling\u2019, and encompasses people who have broken up and gotten back together with their romantic partner one or more times.\u00a0 This kind of relationship behavior however, does run the risk of bringing on psychological distress for both partners, such as anxiety and depression. And these types of psychological distresses have even been scientifically proven of late in a 2015-2016 study by Kale Monk, PhD. 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