{"id":3971,"date":"2014-01-14T06:47:08","date_gmt":"2014-01-14T06:47:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=3971"},"modified":"2026-03-06T06:21:28","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T05:21:28","slug":"hes-really-thinking-top-male-sex-fantasies-uncovered","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/hes-really-thinking-top-male-sex-fantasies-uncovered\/","title":{"rendered":"What He\u2019s Really Thinking: Top Male Sex Fantasies Uncovered"},"content":{"rendered":"

When it comes to\u00a0men\u2019s erogenous zones<\/a><\/span>, one in particular is heads and shoulders above all the rest (literally). Archive and author of our intimate experiences, dreams and desires, the brain is hands down the sexiest organ of them all. It\u2019s also where we conjure up fantasies of all kinds, from the taboo to the improbable; Needless to say, sex is no exception.<\/p>\n

An intimate and creative<\/strong> outlet from our day-to-day reality, our fantasies give license to push sexual boundaries and explore possibilities for pleasure, without the oftentimes weighty repercussions of reality. Fantasizing about sex isn\u2019t just normal, it\u2019s almost universal.<\/p>\n

Men are from Mars\u2026<\/h2>\n

<\/b>However, and as with most things in life, men and women fantasize in different ways. Shattering the stereotype, guys\u00a0don\u2019t<\/i>\u00a0think about sex all the time, researchers at University of Ohio announced in 2011, and instead limit raunchy ruminations to a more practical 19 times a day, compared to 10 for the girls. Another key difference lies in the nature of fantasies, with a 2012 study at the University of Granada suggesting that where women\u2019s fantasies<\/a> are typically \u2018romantic\u2019 in theme, men\u2019s tend to be more \u2018exploratory\u2019.<\/p>\n

Of course, we don\u2019t need a scientist to tell us that when it comes to sexual fantasies, anything goes, and the only way to\u00a0really<\/i>\u00a0know what sexy scenes play out in your partner\u2019s mind is to ask. That said, experience tells us that guys in particular share more than a few fantasy fetishes, some of which may just surprise you\u2026<\/p>\n

Good Things Come in Threes\u2026<\/h2>\n

<\/b>A Classic\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

The threesome, it would seem, is the stuff of fantasies for many a hot-blooded male. For most, this dream scenario sees not one but two beautiful women fawning over our one lucky chap. Sensual stuff, its appeal is self-explanatory: not only does the threesome suggest virility and potency, it also appeals to men\u2019s typically visual imaginations.<\/p>\n

\u2026Shared<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, no two fantasies are ever the same, and some fellas find themselves all hot under the collar at the idea of sharing their partner with another man. That could be in order to pleasure a woman in ways that simply aren\u2019t possible without an extra body; or perhaps it\u2019s her implied submission that sets his pulse racing.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reasons behind a fantasy threesome, it\u2019s certainly not greed, neither is it gay, and nor does it signal infidelity. One of the most widespread male fantasies out there, it\u2019s also one of the sexiest.<\/p>\n

Master and Commander<\/h2>\n

<\/b>From Power Play\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

Next up: domination! Most of us relish the opportunity to relinquish responsibility once in a while, and that very same surrendering of control also applies to sex. Contrary to popular belief, this particular fantasy needn\u2019t feature a leather-clad, whip-wielding dominatrix; and could be no less prosaically linked to a partner\u2019s initiative, direction and assertiveness. Both, we\u2019re sure you\u2019ll agree, are pretty arousing.<\/p>\n

\u2026To Role Play<\/strong><\/p>\n

The imagination is a remarkable thing, and never more so than when it comes to fantasies concerning domination and submission. Scenarios we\u2019ve encountered include a female cop barking orders to her handcuffed detainee; a very bad teacher assigning naughty homework to an even cheekier pupil; or how about a sexy nurse taking very special care of her patient\u2026?<\/p>\n

With its potential for\u00a0sexual role-play<\/a><\/span>\u00a0and shameless excuse for sexy costumes (men\u00a0are<\/i>\u00a0visual creatures, after all), this one can be a lot of fun to explore and act out together.<\/p>\n

Location, Location, Location<\/h2>\n

<\/b>To Be Seen\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it: for most of us, the setting of our love-making is limited, generally confined to the bedroom and certainly behind closed doors. But fantasies are all about challenging taboos and for that reason,\u00a0sex in public places<\/a><\/span>\u00a0is a turn-on for many.<\/p>\n

It could be a tropical beach, a car park or even the welcome shadows of a darkened cinema. Aside from the thrill of an illicit locale, it\u2019s the possibility of getting caught in the act that really sets pulses racing.<\/p>\n

\u2026And To See<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, that same exquisite danger of being watched works both ways, with voyeurism being yet another popular male fantasy that once again taps into men\u2019s penchant for the visual. Sexy stuff, we\u2019re sure you\u2019ll agree.<\/p>\n

One in a Million<\/h2>\n

<\/b>This is just a very broad overview of some of the most popular fantasies out there, and as you\u2019d expect, guys\u2019 sexual wish-lists are as pleasingly unique as the men who enjoy them.<\/p>\n

For many, fantasies remain just that: an intensely private and deeply personal articulation of desire, like a thrilling daydream to return to time and time again. For others, though, sharing sexual fantasies not only unlocks possibilities for uniquely satisfying sex, but can also be an expression of intimacy and trust. Plus, it\u2019s just really, really hot.<\/p>\n

Whilst some may be best left unfulfilled, many fantasies can bring a whole lot of spice \u2013 not to mention loads of fun \u2013 to lovemaking when you share your desires with your partner<\/a>. Our advice? Dare to share and make those sexy daydreams a reality!<\/p>\n

Program Your Own Fantasies<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s one thing to imagine incredible pleasures, but what if you could make them reality? No, you can\u2019t create the perfect partner like in the film <\/span>Weird Science<\/span><\/i>, but the closest thing to it is called Sextech. <\/span><\/p>\n

So here\u2019s the very, very basic gist; Sextech will allow to program your sex toys to perform in the way you specifically want them to.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The first of these disruptive Sextech toys is the LELO F1S<\/a>. Imagine a masturbation sleeve, designed to the exact details of a male\u2019s sexual anatomy, equipped with sonic emitters that deliver resonating sensations deep into your genital tissue. In layman’s terms, you can control the sensations from an app on your phone. It also tracks your performance and gives feedback. Pretty neat-o if you ask us.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Enjoy 15% off LELO.com<\/a> with code VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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