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It\u2019s that time of year again! Festive events, office parties, gatherings, Christmas Eve, <\/span>Christmas<\/span>, and <\/span>New Year<\/span><\/a> celebrations.<\/span><\/p>\n

And let\u2019s not forget about the Northern Hemisphere\u2014those who are cold and looking for a cuffing partner.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

All in all, dating over the holidays is hard. Especially when it\u2019s a <\/span>first date<\/span><\/a> or the beginning of a new relationship. It\u2019s basically a whole new set of rules that apply over this period.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Tiring, yes\u2014but if you follow some of our tips for dating during the holiday season, you may just enter the new year slightly unscathed.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Gift Giving<\/strong><\/h2>\n

If it\u2019s a new relationship, you\u2019re probably unsure of whether you need to get the new person in your life a <\/span>Christmas gift<\/span><\/a> or not. And if you\u2019re leaning towards gift giving, what should you get for them? Something grand and <\/span>romantic<\/span>? Or a little token of your adoration?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the best advice would be to actually talk to them about it. If you\u2019re not really in the space to have a serious chat about gifts, try to make it more informal. Just a little \u201c<\/span>So, are we exchanging gifts for Christmas? Cool if not, just want to be prepared!\u201d <\/span><\/i>could suffice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

But equally so, maybe add in something along the lines of how much you\u2019re both planning on spending, just so there\u2019s no unevenness.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Another idea is to just go shopping together and get something for one another. That way, you know everyone involved will like their gift. And your best bet may just be deciding to do an activity together, think small concerts, winter fairs, stand-up comedy \u2013 something a little grand for a date but that you’d both enjoy doing together.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Festive Events & Parties<\/strong><\/h2>\n

If you and your new partner have mutual friends, this will be a lot easier, as you\u2019ll probably be invited to the same party or parties.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

But what about work events? You know how some office gossip goes. Do you take your new person with you to these kinds of celebrations?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, you\u2019re just going to have to be brave enough to actually talk about it. And when you do, it\u2019s best to define where you stand. If it\u2019s a <\/span>casual dating<\/span><\/a> situation, it would be great for both partners to know beforehand as not to assume anything.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Family events are, of course, way more intense than a mere friend or work group hanging out. If you feel that the relationship you\u2019re in has a future, and both of you are comfortable with this kind of thing, then you can invite them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perhaps you\u2019d like to let your family know it\u2019s new beforehand though, just to avoid any intrusive or awkward questions. And if it feels too early, you can always approach the subject in a positive light \u2013 perhaps telling them that meeting the family means a lot to you and you hope that’s what’s in your future together.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Outfits to Events & Parties<\/strong><\/h2>\n

If you\u2019ve decided that you and your partner will indeed go to each others\u2019 festive events or parties, think about your outfit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re going to their work or family event, it\u2019s probably not the best time to show off your most revealing and\/or trendy outfit. You can never go wrong with a classic and timeless look.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

There will be many more occasions, with or without your new partner, to wear a sexy outfit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Intimacy<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The honeymoon phase of a relationship is great, largely because it\u2019s filled with exciting and new <\/span>sex.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

But when the festive season comes around, people are busy. End-of-year work deadlines, events, etc. You don\u2019t want to lose the sexual spark too soon, so we suggest making time for intimacy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Make sure to plan a date or two in advance so that you can enjoy each others’ company\u2026 and de-stress.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sex aside, having an intimate date or two simply to be with each other is a fantastic way to get to know them better and to connect.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It could even prompt the growth of a more meaningful relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Going Back to Your Ex<\/strong><\/h2>\n

A lot of people tend to reflect at the end of the year. They may realise that they\u2019re actually feeling quite lonely and they may look for solace somewhere familiar\u2026 such as with an ex.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This is usually a bad idea. Before you dive in and start texting your ex, ask yourself two questions: have the reasons or circumstances that led to the <\/span>breakup<\/span><\/a> changed? And would meeting with them lead you to fall into the \u201cshort-term gain, long term pain\u201d pit?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The answers to these can help you to decide whether it\u2019s worth the temporary company.<\/span><\/p>\n

Likewise, “cuffing” up a new partner just because you don’t want to feel lonely for the holidays isn’t good intentions. There is no need to jump the gun on anything new.<\/p>\n

6. The Holidays Spent Apart<\/strong><\/h2>\n

If you\u2019ve decided that you won\u2019t be doing holiday events and parties together, maybe a little chat about that is a good idea.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For example, deciding whether you\u2019re officially dating, if you\u2019re in an <\/span>open relationship<\/span><\/a>, or if this is merely a fling and both can do as they fancy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing quite as hurtful as finding out a new interest was intimate with someone else during the Christmas period when you had your sights set on them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Use this quality time surrounded by friends and family to recenter and figure out what you want for your future \u2013 maybe it’s enjoying the next few years traveling while single, and maybe it’s marriage and kids as soon as you meet the right person.<\/p>\n

7. New Year’s Eve Date<\/h2>\n

Are you wondering whether your new love interest is going to ask you to hang out on New Year’s Eve? Well, the general rule of thumb is, if they haven\u2019t asked you by Christmas, the chances are low.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Most people plan their <\/span>New Year’s Eve<\/span> celebrations a week or more in advance, so Christmas is a good goal to think about.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you haven\u2019t heard from them about spending the holiday together and you haven’t asked them, then you should probably go ahead and make your own plans.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Short-Term Relationships<\/h2>\n

Winter is also a notorious time for engagements, and when surrounded by other relationship milestones, we have to ask ourselves \u2013 are the flings worth it?<\/p>\n

A study by YouGov<\/a> found that men are more likely to answer yes to that question, as are Boomers when compared to Millennials. The top reasons to pursue short-term relationships during the holidays are to stay warm (28%) and avoid loneliness (26%), followed by having sex (23%) and having someone to watch TV with (18%).<\/p>\n

While those all sound nice, it’s really up to you to decide if you’re ready for a serious partner or if you even want one. And while it’s also cool to pursue something casual \u2013 as long as everyone involved is on the same page \u2013 we recommend doing some thinking before inviting or accepting holiday invitations.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

And if you do, an informal chat about things could just be the magic that brings you two closer in the new year. Wishing you tons of holiday fun!<\/span><\/p>\n

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