{"id":40179,"date":"2023-04-18T08:22:06","date_gmt":"2023-04-18T06:22:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=40179"},"modified":"2023-04-26T05:41:19","modified_gmt":"2023-04-26T03:41:19","slug":"tips-for-using-dating-apps-while-traveling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/tips-for-using-dating-apps-while-traveling\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Tips For Using Dating Apps While Traveling"},"content":{"rendered":"

Picture it. You\u2019ve been frolicking in the sea all day. Salty, sweaty, sun-kissed bodies come together in harmony while the sun goes down just beyond your hotel room\u2019s balcony. Or maybe you\u2019re on a solo ski vacation and you find a hunk to cozy up by the fire and warm up with after a long day hitting the slopes.<\/span><\/p>\n

The romance novel fantasies are nice, but then again you might just want a local cutie to show you around and take you on some adventures while you explore a new place! Whether or not you use dating apps back at home, your approach will probably be a bit different while traveling. We\u2019ve rounded up our top dating app tips to help you get your groove on while exploring the world.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Use The Right App<\/b><\/h2>\n

No matter what your aim is, dating apps are a great tool to help you meet people, especially while traveling. Different apps are used in different places in the world, so you want to make sure you\u2019re using the right ones for wherever you find yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

A quick little Google search can give you an answer. Or you can always try downloading one that you\u2019re comfortable with, seeing what your options are, and trying another if there doesn\u2019t seem to be many options. It\u2019s probably best to focus on just one app so that you can limit phone time and make the most of your trip.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Switch Up Your Profile<\/b><\/h2>\n

Your approach to dating while traveling is probably different than back home. Which means your profile will also probably be different. You don\u2019t need to switch up too much, but it\u2019s helpful to have a quick description of how long you\u2019ll be there and what you\u2019re looking for.<\/span><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a great example: <\/span>\u201cI\u2019m traveling in Spain for three weeks and would love someone to show me around and help me practice my Spanish!\u201d<\/span><\/i> Even better if you can write some of your profile in the local language \u2013 if applicable.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Worried about all the time you spent to optimize your profile back home? Pro tip \u2013 screenshot your old one, and save your responses in your notes app so you can easily change it back.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Try Distance Mode<\/b><\/h2>\n

Ah, technology, what a blessing (when used responsibly). Want to do a little <\/span>*ahem*<\/span><\/i> research before saying <\/span>\u201cbon voyage\u201d<\/span><\/i>? Allow us to introduce\u2026distance mode.<\/span><\/p>\n

Not all apps have it, and sometimes you need to pay an extra fee for the ones that do, but distance mode can be a great way to help you prepare for a trip. And by prepare, we mean get inspired for what\u2019s to come and maybe have a few hot dates lined up.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When using distance mode, be upfront and honest. Tell them you aren\u2019t there yet but will be soon and would love to meet up once you arrive. It\u2019s probably best not to use it more than a week or so before your trip or the connection will probably lose steam.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Be Open-Minded<\/b><\/h2>\n

The reality is, you\u2019re probably not looking for a life partner while galavanting around an island in the Mediterranean. If you tend to have narrow criteria while back home, it might be time to throw those out the window.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019re not saying to drop all your standards, but logistics like their job and astrological sign may not be as relevant as when you\u2019re dating on your home turf. Besides, when traveling you\u2019re opening yourself up to new ways of living, cultures, languages, and of course \u2013 new kinds of people. The world is full of surprises and you don\u2019t want to block yourself off from a potential connection because of unrealistic expectations or standards.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Take Initiative\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n

You\u2019re probably not going to be in your destination for all that long, so you want to make the most of the time you have. Even if you\u2019re not normally, it\u2019s time to be bold. Put yourself out there. Make the first move.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is not the time to sit and wait for someone to reach out to you. Send the first message. Be flirtier than usual. Tell them when you\u2019re free and what you\u2019d like to do with them (we don\u2019t mean this sexually, but hey, do your thing).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Not to mention, you probably have a lot more free time than usual, so you don\u2019t have to worry about fitting dating into your normally busy schedule. Taking initiative and being bold can help you build up that skill so you can take it back with you into your \u201cnormal\u201d life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Be Safe<\/b><\/h2>\n

We have to say it, but remember to take certain safety precautions when meeting up with someone from a dating app \u2013 whether traveling or back at home. This means safe sex using <\/span>barrier methods like condoms<\/span><\/a> and talking about STIs, but also being aware of your personal safety.<\/span><\/p>\n

Here are some safety tips to keep in mind when dating while traveling:<\/span><\/p>\n