{"id":40591,"date":"2023-06-28T08:16:32","date_gmt":"2023-06-28T06:16:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=40591"},"modified":"2023-07-11T02:06:06","modified_gmt":"2023-07-11T00:06:06","slug":"sex-conversation-starters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sex-conversation-starters\/","title":{"rendered":"Conversation Starters to Amp Up Your Sex Life"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sexual chemistry starts in the brain. Intimacy deepens the better that you know someone, and pleasure is easier to access when you\u2019re having honest conversations about sex and life in general.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Talking about sex, no matter how fun it is, can be daunting.\u00a0 So we\u2019re here to offer some inspiration.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re looking to spice things up with a long-term boo or want to start off on the right foot with a new fling \u2013 we\u2019ve got some conversation starters sure to take your sex life to the next level!<\/span><\/p>\n

The Emotional Relay<\/b><\/h2>\n

Emotional vulnerability is sexy! Have you had those moments where you dump your heart and soul into someone and all of a sudden you\u2019re so much more present with them? That\u2019s because you tend to feel more comfortable sexually when you\u2019re being open and honest with your partners.<\/span><\/p>\n

While you certainly don\u2019t need to unload all your baggage to have great sex with someone, it can help connect you and make you feel like there are fewer barriers between you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, different people bring different things into your life. Some partners may be there just for sex. While some you may want to deepen your relationship with. These are the dynamics where it\u2019s helpful to share what\u2019s on your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Conversations like talking about past relationships, what you want out of your relationship, and things that may hold you back sexually or emotionally can all help deepen your connection \u2013 and make the sex that much better.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Tune In To My Fantasies<\/b><\/h2>\n

We all have fantasies. Sexy daydreams and naughty places that we drift off to. Maybe they\u2019re with past partners, celebrities, or even with your current partner. Fantasies are normal, and certainly nothing to be ashamed about.<\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, it can be incredibly sexy to share these fantasies with your sexual partners. Have you always <\/span>dreamed of having a threesome<\/span><\/a>? What other people are involved? What sort of *activities* do you get into? What role does your partner play in this?<\/span><\/p>\n

Again, they\u2019re not entitled to know every thought that\u2019s going through your mind. You can share however much or little you want to share with them. You can also tweak the plot if need be, maybe by replacing your celebrity crush and making your partner your co-star in this scene. Who knows? Maybe they\u2019ll even be able to make your dreams come true.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Share Your Sex Bucket List<\/b><\/h2>\n

If you don\u2019t have one yet, it\u2019s time to make a sex bucket list. You can probably figure out what this is, but a sex bucket list is a list of sexual activities that you would love to try some time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Here are some fun ideas to get you started:<\/span><\/p>\n