{"id":41886,"date":"2024-03-17T05:05:06","date_gmt":"2024-03-17T04:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=41886"},"modified":"2024-03-17T05:05:06","modified_gmt":"2024-03-17T04:05:06","slug":"the-dangers-of-love-bombing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/the-dangers-of-love-bombing\/","title":{"rendered":"The Dangers of \u201cLove Bombing\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all want to connect with others, and for many, that means exploring different romantic and sexual relationships, b<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ut meeting someone that you have a connection with can be easier said than done. That\u2019s why it can be so exhilarating when you feel like you\u2019re finally getting a hot dose of romance.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most of us who are actively dating have been in a similar scenario: You connect with someone on app. Your conversation is electric and there&#8217;s even more chemistry in person. The conversations quickly escalate to doting on this special connection neither of you has experienced before and envisioning your futures together.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sound familiar? If you\u2019ve been in this situation, you may have been love bombed (or maybe you did the love bombing). This complex mix of hormones and emotions is important to understand in order to have a healthy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>What is love bombing?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love bombing is when someone overloads you with extreme amounts of affection at the beginning of a relationship. This can look like excessive flattery, showering you with gifts, being extra affectionate, or constantly praising you. When someone is love bombing, they get attached very quickly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Starting a new relationship is exciting, but moving too fast can make you lose your balance and forget your priorities. That\u2019s what happens in the case of love bombing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This isn\u2019t necessarily a sign of an intense connection. In fact, it could be the warning signs of an emotionally manipulative or abusive relationship, or may just lack the solid foundation most relationships need to thrive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Signs you\u2019re getting love bombed<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do you know if you\u2019re getting love bombed?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While the bombardment of gifts, flattery, and overcommunication of feelings can be a dead giveaway, there are some other more subtle signs of love bombing.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling anxious outside of excited butterflies<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling like something isn\u2019t quite right<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You feel overwhelmed in the relationship<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You stop spending time with your friends\/family or doing things you love<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner gets angry with you when you spend time with other people\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner gets angry with you when you need space<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/what-is-gaslighting\/\">gaslights<\/a> you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pressure to pick up the pace of the relationship<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><b>Why love bombing can be so damaging<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love bombing can feel incredible at first, especially if you tend to be anxiously attached or haven\u2019t gotten this level of attention in a while. When someone showers you with gifts and talks about growing old together after you just met, it can make you feel like you\u2019re being swept off your feet. But starting a relationship like this can be potentially harmful for all parties.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting love bombed can give you a huge boost of self-esteem. While it\u2019s healthy and normal to feel a sense of interdependence and comfort from others, it\u2019s not healthy for your self-esteem to depend entirely on someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sexual-boundaries-and-saying-no\/\">Setting boundaries<\/a> is important in every relationship, including romantic ones. Relationships that have a foundation of love bombing may lack the boundaries that are needed to grow into a healthy and balanced dynamic.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love bombing can also be a form of emotional manipulation. People who love bomb aren\u2019t always doing so to make you feel loved and needed, they\u2019re often doing it to gain control over the situation, whether or not they realize it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/what-is-love-bombing-5223611\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">psychologists<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> warn that love bombing can be the starting point of an abusive relationship and that it may be done more often by people with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/signs-youre-dating-a-narcissist\/\">narcissistic personality traits<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Can you go from love bombing to a healthy relationship?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You realize that you\u2019re in a love bombing dynamic and that something needs to change. At the same time, you genuinely believe that you have a special connection with this person and you may even see a future with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, you\u2019re left wondering \u201cCan I turn this case of love bombing into a healthy relationship?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, yes you can. People evolve, and so do relationships.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Things may have started out hot and heavy but if you\u2019re able to communicate in a healthy way and express to each other what your intentions are, you may be able to move forward. If you got very caught up in each other\u2019s orbit at the beginning of the relationship, but are able to set healthy boundaries and maintain your own lives outside of the relationship, that\u2019s a good sign as well.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That being said,<\/span><b> if there are warning signs of emotional manipulation or abuse, it\u2019s important to end this relationship<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> before things escalate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>How to stop the love bombing cycle<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel like you get love bombed repeatedly? This could be a sign of an anxious <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/relationship-attachment-styles\/\">attachment style<\/a> or lack of boundaries. If this is you, it\u2019s important to work on your self-worth outside of relationships as well as determine what your values are in a relationship. Therapy can be a great tool for this.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re someone who love bombs people, it\u2019s important to step back and evaluate where you\u2019re coming from in your love life. Figure out how to pace yourself and see what your intentions are. Are you projecting from a place of hurt or abandonment?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you love bomb, you often don\u2019t see who the person in front of you really is and instead see them as a tool or opportunity. Remember to see this person as an individual, not just a concept.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While healthy relationships can come from love bombing, it is a potential warning sign of abuse and should be examined with discernment. Remember who you are, what you want out of a relationship, as well as all the other things that bring joy to your life.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all want to connect with others, and for many, that means exploring different romantic and sexual relationships, but meeting someone that you have a connection with can be easier said than done. 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