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Ever wondered how others masturbate?<\/p>\n

The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior<\/a> conducted by the Kinsey Institute of Indiana University analyzed the results of people ages 14 to 19 to <\/span>discover if they masturbated and how often.<\/span><\/p>\n

They found that people of all ages masturbate. About 20% of men aged 18 to 59 reported masturbating two to three times a week, while a majority of women masturbated once a week or less.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s difficult to separate masturbation from pornography, and while there are downsides to the industry, like giving youth unrealistic expectations of sex, many people watch it to explore their fantasies. In the U.S., an estimated <\/span>69% of men and 40% of women<\/span><\/a> view porn each year, and the rise of <\/span>ethical porn<\/span><\/a> has given sex workers more safety while serving viewers more realistic content.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

So, what are people <\/span>fantasizing<\/span><\/a> about while they\u2019re masturbating? Whether it\u2019s on-screen or in their heads, these are the most common sexual fantasies.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Oral Sex<\/h3>\n

People love cunnilingus<\/a>. Whether it\u2019s vulvas or penises, giving or receiving<\/strong>, oral sex is an international fan favorite. 87% of men and 78% of women fantasize about taking part in oral sex.<\/span><\/p>\n

Curious about sex toys that mimic the sensation of someone going down on you? Check out the <\/span>SILA<\/span><\/a> or <\/span>O<\/span>RA 3<\/a> clitoral vibrators.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Location-Based Fantasies<\/h3>\n

Sex doesn\u2019t always happen on a bed, and many people like to fantasize about fornicating in unique places.<\/span><\/p>\n

81.7% of women and 82.3% of men fantasize about having sex in an unusual place like the office or a public restroom<\/strong>, while 84.9% of women and 78.4% of men fantasize about having sex in a romantic location like a deserted beach<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Many people are intrigued by the idea of <\/span>exhibitionism<\/a><\/strong>, with 57.3% of women and 66.1% of men fantasizing about having sex in public<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Having Sex with Someone Besides Your Partner<\/h3>\n

Someone keep popping into your head when you’re aroused? 66.3% of women and 83.4% of men fantasize about having sex with someone they know who isn\u2019t their partner<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fantasizing about someone is not a form of cheating and doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t love and desire your current partner. This also follows the rising popularity of non-monogamy<\/a> and <\/span>polyamory<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Power Plays<\/h3>\n

Kink can allow people to experience the intense sensations that come from being in a submissive or dominant role<\/strong>. Whether or not people are actually engaging in power play with other people, it remains a hugely popular fantasy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

64.6% of women fantasize about being dominated while 46.7% of them love the idea of dominating someone. If this peaks your interest, check out Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationships<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Threesomes or Orgies<\/h3>\n

The more, the merrier! 75.3% of women and 56.5% of men tend to think so at least. People who said they were into having sex with three or more people were into a mix of genders<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Threesomes and moresomes can be an awesome way to explore sexuality and heightened sensations, whether it\u2019s in your head or in your bed.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Anal Sex<\/h3>\n

Anal sex can be incredibly intense and erotic for everyone involved, no matter your gender or sexuality. 64.2% of men fantasize about having anal sex. It\u2019s unclear whether that means being penetrated or doing the penetrating<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you want to dive into this fantasy, you may want to try a prostate massager like the <\/span>LOKI Wave 2<\/span><\/a> prostate massager or the <\/span>SORAYA Beads<\/span><\/a> gender-neutral anal beads massager. Just don\u2019t forget the <\/span>lube<\/span><\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n

Other Common Fantasies<\/h3>\n

Our list doesn\u2019t stop there. The world of human sexuality is wide and vast.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Here are some other common sexual fantasies:<\/span><\/p>\n

    \n
  • Ejaculating on your partner<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Having sex with your current partner<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Role-play and BDSM<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Watching someone undress without them knowing<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Queer sex<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Watching people have sex<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Having sex with someone with very large breasts<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Handjobs and fingering\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Did we miss anything on this list? Comment your go-to scenarios below.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Ever wondered how others masturbate? The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior conducted by the Kinsey Institute of Indiana University analyzed the results of people ages 14 to 19 to discover if they masturbated and how often. They found that people of all ages masturbate. About 20% of men aged 18 to 59 reported masturbating two to three times a week, while a majority of women masturbated once a week or less.\u00a0 It’s difficult to separate masturbation from pornography, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":232,"featured_media":41471,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[914],"tags":[465,135],"coauthors":[1028],"class_list":["post-41978","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-masturbation","tag-fantasy","tag-masturbation"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nThe Top Things People Fantasize About While Masturbating<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Humans are sexual creatures with active imaginations. We explore the top fantasies people have when masturbating. 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