{"id":42092,"date":"2024-04-19T07:45:28","date_gmt":"2024-04-19T05:45:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=42092"},"modified":"2025-09-13T03:40:15","modified_gmt":"2025-09-13T01:40:15","slug":"queer-sex-toys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/queer-sex-toys\/","title":{"rendered":"The Best Sex Toys for Queer Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sex toys are one of the best ways to create more opportunities for pleasure, increase accessibility, and have more fun in and out of the bedroom! While they\u2019re often thought of as a tool for masturbation, sex toys are a great option whether you\u2019re having sex with yourself or someone else.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For queer people, especially queer women, sex toys are not a \u201csubstitution,\u201d but a wonderful way to amp up your sex life. Still, finding the right one for you and your partner can be a game of trial and error \u2013 a fun game at that.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re on the hunt for your first toy as a couple, or you\u2019re looking to add to your extensive collection\u2026 we\u2019ve got something for everyone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s LELO\u2019s round-up of the best toys for queer partnered sex:<\/span><\/p>\n

LELO Switch<\/h2>\n

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The LELO Switch<\/a> is a high-end, hybrid pleasure toy that combines internal stimulation (a vibrating insertable component) with external stimulation (a flexible external arm). It\u2019s made from body-safe materials, fully waterproof, and features multiple intensity levels. It offers customizable settings so you can adjust vibration patterns and strength to suit your preferences.<\/p>\n

Because it offers both internal and external stimulation, you can experiment with different sensations. Whether you prefer gentle buzzing, stronger pulses, or alternating patterns, the Switch gives you flexibility.<\/p>\n

SONA 2 Cruise<\/h2>\n

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One <\/span>study<\/span><\/a> found that<\/span> 36.6% of women require clitoral stimulation for orgasm.<\/span> Another 36% said that while that wasn\u2019t needed for orgasm, their orgasms felt better when they had clitoral stimulation with penetration.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

There are so many possibilities when it comes to clitoral play. <\/span>SONA 2 Cruise<\/span><\/a> is a sonic clit vibrator designed for people who want to experience bigger, longer, and more intense orgasms.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The soft and deep \u201cmouth\u201d covers more surface area with twelve vibration settings for you and your lover to choose from. While its ergonomic design is easy to use on yourself, it can be exhilarating to watch your partner move through different levels of pleasure when you use it on them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

MONA Wave<\/h2>\n

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Penetration isn\u2019t always part of sex, but for those who do enjoy it, sometimes you crave something that hits a little deeper than your fingers can. Especially when it comes to targeting your <\/span>G-spot<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019re here to expand your options with the <\/span>MONA Wave<\/span><\/a> G-spot toy. Its slightly curved shape is designed to hit just the right spot whether it\u2019s yours or your partner\u2019s. The innovative WaveMotion\u2122 technology creates a finger-like massage motion for intense G-spot stimulation.<\/span><\/p>\n

This toy is awesome during intimate play. You can combine it with a clitorial massager or ask your partner to use their hands while you use the toy on them \u2013 or vice versa.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

IDA WAVE<\/h2>\n

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When you hand over the control to your pleasure (literally), it can create a wave of surrender that opens up new possibilities. That\u2019s the beauty of the <\/span>IDA Wave<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This app-connected dual vibrator also utilizes WaveMotion\u2122 technology on two powerful motors to stimulate you or your partner’s clit and G-spot simultaneously. Ride off into the sunset while one of you takes the reins using the app to explore a wide range of vibration patterns. Now that\u2019s an act of surrender.<\/span><\/p>\n

White you\u2019re on the app you can also get amped up by perusing thr library of vivid erotic literature, 4,000+ sexual wellness articles, and valuable relationship tips.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Lubricant<\/h2>\n

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This list wouldn\u2019t be complete without the secret ingredient\u2026 lube. Even if you don\u2019t \u201cneed\u201d it, lube is an incredible addition to any sexcapade. Especially when you\u2019re using toys!<\/span><\/p>\n

Toys tend to make things a little drier than skin-to-skin contact, and even if that\u2019s not the case for you and your boo, a little extra moisture can go a long way in the pleasure department.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Before you go picking up any old bottle, make sure that the lube you choose is body-safe and also safe for toys. Most of LELO\u2019s toys are made from premium silicone, so you\u2019ll want to opt for water-based lube vs oil-based which can break down silicone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Luckily for you, there are options. The <\/span>Neutra Water-Based Lubricant<\/span><\/a> is designed to add an extra silky-smooth gliding sensation, the <\/span>LELO Personal Moisturizer<\/span><\/a> helps keep you feeling vital and luxurious, and the <\/span>Hyaluronic Acid Personal Lubricant<\/span><\/a> is medical grade to keep tissues well-lubricated and moist.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tips for using sex toys<\/h2>\n

Using a new toy can take a second to get used to, especially when you\u2019re using it on someone else\u2019s body. All of LELO\u2019s toys are ergonomically designed to give you the smoothest experience possible, but that doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t use a few pointers.<\/span><\/p>\n

Keep these tips in mind when taking your new toy for a spin:<\/span><\/p>\n

Start Slow<\/h3>\n

With such powerful engineering, vibrators can really pack a punch. Luckily, most toys have a wide range of vibration patterns to choose from.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Our recommendation? Start on the lowest or one of the lowest settings, breathe into your body, and slowly work your way up if that feels right for you and your partner. It\u2019s also totally fine to stay on the lowest one. You know your body best!<\/span><\/p>\n

Communicate<\/h3>\n

Using new toys can be intimidating or awkward sometimes, just like sex. <\/span>That\u2019s OK, you\u2019re both human! Using your words to say where you like it, if you want it stronger or softer, and if you need a break is important for building trust and increasing intimacy. Likewise, be sure to ask your partner if you\u2019re using a new toy on them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Plus, communicating while you\u2019re having sex can be a huge turn-on for everyone involved.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sink into Pleasure<\/h3>\n

There\u2019s no rush. This is your time to connect with your partner on a deeper level, as well as your own body. Toys are a nice bonus, but this is about your relationship, whether it\u2019s romantic, sexual, or both.<\/span><\/p>\n

Try to sink into each other\u2019s pleasure and enjoy the ride!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sex toys are one of the best ways to create more opportunities for pleasure, increase accessibility, and have more fun in and out of the bedroom! While they\u2019re often thought of as a tool for masturbation, sex toys are a great option whether you\u2019re having sex with yourself or someone else.\u00a0 For queer people, especially queer women, sex toys are not a \u201csubstitution,\u201d but a wonderful way to amp up your sex life. Still, finding the right one for you […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":232,"featured_media":41397,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[912],"tags":[525,764],"coauthors":[1028],"class_list":["post-42092","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-for-couples","tag-better-sex","tag-lgbtq"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nThe Best Sex Toys for Queer Sex<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Sex toys can help enhance pleasure, connection, and accessibility for women. 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