{"id":45223,"date":"2025-03-18T19:04:45","date_gmt":"2025-03-18T18:04:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=45223"},"modified":"2026-03-29T07:16:19","modified_gmt":"2026-03-29T05:16:19","slug":"how-to-incorporate-sex-toys-into-foreplay-tc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/how-to-incorporate-sex-toys-into-foreplay-tc\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Incorporate Sex Toys into Foreplay"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Foreplay matters. Think of it as an appetizer to sexual activity, getting you aroused and setting the tone for a more satisfying sexual experience. Many see sex as a goal-oriented activity that leads towards the finish line known as climax. But pleasure is a journey, not a destination, and foreplay is a fabulous way to embark on that adventure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For women, arousal takes time, and<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.oprahdaily.com\/life\/relationships-love\/a28829792\/foreplay-tips\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">studies say that foreplay can help<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Foreplay toys can help increase natural lubrication and ensure you feel as turned on and excited to engage in intercourse. After all, sex toys aren\u2019t just intended to be used during solo play. In fact, they can be a valuable resource for couples to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sex-toys-for-intimacy\/\">enhance intimacy and connection<\/a>, exploring new sexual territory and understanding each other&#8217;s desires and fantasies better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this guide, we\u2019re going to do a deep dive into the best sex toys and games, how to introduce them into your relationship, and techniques that will help you elevate your pleasure with steamier, more playful foreplay.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>How To Talk to Your Partner About Using Sex Toys<\/h2>\n<h3>Open Communication and Consent<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bringing sex toys into your relationship can be a sensitive conversation to start. But opening the door to this topic sets a foundation of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/relationship-communication-through-sex-toys\/\" rel=\"noopener\">communication and openness<\/a>. Consider bringing it up during pillow talk or at another time when you\u2019re alone and both of you are in a good mood.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can start by complimenting the other person, letting them know certain things that you enjoy during sex with them, and explaining how sex toys can enhance certain sensations even more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stick to language that\u2019s positive rather than focusing on dissatisfaction, explaining how hot you think it could be for a partner to use foreplay toys on you or have both of you use them. Still feeling shy? If you want to give some context before your chat, share this link, telling them how you read an interesting article about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/how-to-use-sex-toys-for-couples\/\" rel=\"noopener\">couples using sex toys<\/a> that you want to send them and discuss later.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t buy a sex toy to use together before discussing it beforehand, as this can make your partner feel pressured. Additionally, don\u2019t whip one out during sex \u2014 this can also add to pressure, and you want to ensure that they consent to using it beforehand.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Addressing Common Concerns<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some partners might feel as though sex toys will replace them, but this is the perfect chance to remind them that while you\u2019re still very much aroused by them, this process isn\u2019t about ego or feeling pressure to perform better. It\u2019s a way to <a href=\"http:\/\/lelo.com\/blog\/exploring-intimacy-through-sex-toys-tc\/\" rel=\"noopener\">improve connection and enhance pleasure<\/a> together. Reassuring them that a toy could never replace them and what turns you on about them. It\u2019s just a way to add a sense of adventure and ensure that both of you are as aroused as possible, which should always be the goal!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Choosing Toys Together<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can shop for a toy together online from the privacy of your home and turn it into an exciting experience (that anticipation is a kind of foreplay in itself!) For further guidance when shopping, read <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/sex-toys-reviews-and-comparisons-tc\/\" rel=\"noopener\">toy reviews<\/a>, watch demo videos, and discuss preferences with each other. You might learn something new about each other in the process!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Best Sex Toys for Foreplay &amp; How To Use Them<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/sila\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-40583 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Pink_425-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Pink_425-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Pink_425-120x120.jpg 120w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Pink_425-240x240.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Pink_425-360x360.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Pink_425-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Pink_425-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LELO_SILA_ProductShot_Angle_Pink_425.jpg 425w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/ultimate-guide-to-clitoral-vibrators-tc\/\">Clitoral Vibrators<\/a> &amp; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/ultimate-guide-to-bullet-vibrators-tc\/\">Bullet Vibrators<\/a><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These vibrators, which are ideal for pinpoint sensation, can be used to lightly tease various erogenous zones, like the neck, thighs, perineum, or nipples. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/nipple-stimulator-sila\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suction toys<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can mimic the feeling of a mouth sucking on the nipples. For added <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/best-vibrators-for-shared-intimacy-tc\/\">couple intimacy<\/a>, use vibrators on the clitoris or labia during kissing or oral play to amp up the sensation. You can show your partner where it feels good to use the toy on you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/smart-wand-2-medium\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-44211 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/SmartWand_M_black_pers2-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/SmartWand_M_black_pers2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/SmartWand_M_black_pers2-120x120.jpg 120w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/SmartWand_M_black_pers2-240x240.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/SmartWand_M_black_pers2-360x360.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/SmartWand_M_black_pers2-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/SmartWand_M_black_pers2-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/SmartWand_M_black_pers2.jpg 425w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Massage Wands &amp; Sensual Massage Oils<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While clitoral vibrators and bullets are great for a pinpointed feel, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/ultimate-guide-to-wand-vibrators-tc\/\" rel=\"noopener\">massage wands<\/a> allow for broad stimulation. Start your foreplay off with a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/full-body-sensual-massage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sensual rubdown<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Using your hands, rub in massage oil before using the wand to massage your partner\u2019s shoulders, back, and thighs before moving to the inner thighs and genitals. LELO warming massage oil heats things up even more and has a delicious flavor to lick your partner head to toe or pivot into oral play.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Finger Vibrators<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A finger vibrator acts as an extension of your hand, making it perfect for beginners or those who want a more organic foreplay toy experience. Depending on the design, slip it over your finger or between two fingers, enhancing manual stimulation with subtle vibrations that you can control to speed up, make more intense, or explore different vibration patterns.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/tiani-duo\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-44197 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TianiDuo_ProductShot_OceanBlue_425-1-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TianiDuo_ProductShot_OceanBlue_425-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TianiDuo_ProductShot_OceanBlue_425-1-120x120.jpg 120w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TianiDuo_ProductShot_OceanBlue_425-1-240x240.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TianiDuo_ProductShot_OceanBlue_425-1-360x360.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TianiDuo_ProductShot_OceanBlue_425-1-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TianiDuo_ProductShot_OceanBlue_425-1-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TianiDuo_ProductShot_OceanBlue_425-1.jpg 425w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Couples\u2019 Vibrators &amp; Wearable Toys<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/remote-controlled-toys-for-long-distance-relationships\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Remote-controlled vibrators<\/a> allow you to play around with different power dynamics and sex games either in private or in public. Taking turns with who has control can build anticipation while allowing you to explore a sub-dom dynamic. Vibrators with a remote control can be used during foreplay and to tease in public. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/wearable-vibrators\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wearable toys<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be worn during penetration and stimulate the G-spot and clitoris to encourage simultaneous orgasm.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Nipple and Sensory Play Toys<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sensation play indulges the senses in different ways to enhance erotic pleasure and add new sensations into the mix. Vibrating nipple clamps heighten sensitivity, while feather ticklers (or an ice cube) can gently tease and send shivers up your partner\u2019s body. Looking to get a little rougher? A Wartenberg wheel can take things up a notch.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Blindfolds &amp; Restraints<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM can enhance mystery and anticipation while <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/introducing-bdsm-toys-into-your-relationship-tc\/\" rel=\"noopener\">introducing power dynamics<\/a> that can heighten excitement further. With any form of BDSM, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/ensuring-consent-in-bdsm-tc\/\" rel=\"noopener\">getting consent<\/a> beforehand is key. Consider using a vibrator or sensory play toy on your partner while they\u2019re blindfolded or restrained to enhance sensation while exploring submission.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/tor-2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-44219 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TOR-2.2_Product_GREEN-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TOR-2.2_Product_GREEN-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TOR-2.2_Product_GREEN-120x120.jpg 120w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TOR-2.2_Product_GREEN-240x240.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TOR-2.2_Product_GREEN-360x360.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TOR-2.2_Product_GREEN-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TOR-2.2_Product_GREEN-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/LELO_TOR-2.2_Product_GREEN.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Cock Rings &amp; Penis Vibrators<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/the-best-cock-rings-tc\/\">Cock rings<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/ultimate-guide-to-penis-toys-tc\/\">penis vibrators<\/a> are designed to increase blood flow and sensitivity for both partners. Both can be used as a foreplay toy to enhance a handjob or blowjob. A <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/tor-2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vibrating cock ring<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be worn during grinding or dry humping and simultaneously pleasure the clitoris or anus. Both a cock ring and a penis vibrator can be used like a handheld massager to tease sensitive areas before penetration.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Oral Play Enhancers<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/who-invented-oral-sex\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oral sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is one of the best ways to give (or receive) pre-penetration attention. This can be done with vibrating tongue rings, stimulating sprays, and balms, which offer a tingling, cooling, or warming sensation. There are even<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/bijoux-oral-sex-balm\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">oral sex balms<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">designed specifically for this purpose. Edible body powders and flavored lubes can also encourage playful licking and teasing with a tasty twist. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Fun Ways to Use Sex Toys in Foreplay<\/h2>\n<h3>Start Slow &amp; Build Up Excitement<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anticipation is the key to good foreplay, so don\u2019t rush through it. Start slowly, layering in sensations with your hands and mouth, adding in toys and starting lightly to explore sensitivity.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Play a Foreplay Game<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Turn up the heat before the main event with naughty dice or card games that let fate decide your pleasure. These games incorporate unpredictable toy play and allow you to take turns exploring different body parts.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Experiment with Temperature Play<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Temperature play is a form of BDSM that uses the thrill of heat and cold for an electrifying effect. Metal or glass sex toys can be heated up or cooled down with water. Warming or cooling lubes and massage candles are accessories you can include in your session and are a great way to enhance sensation without sex toys.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Use a Remote-Controlled Toy in Public<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s nothing like a little public play via shared secret control to spice things up and drive each other wild with anticipation. Wearable toys like cock ring and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/hula-beads\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vibrating ben wa balls<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can let you explore pre-intimacy play before you get home to each other, when you\u2019re out on a date, or even when running errands.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Layering Sensations for Maximum Pleasure<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Laying sexual sensations can lead to a symphony of pleasure. Use a vibrator during oral play, or use <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/using-more-toys-at-the-same-time\/\">multiple toys at the same time<\/a>, like an internal vibrator and a wand. You can also weave in sensation play, using a teasing feather as a toy that rumbles against your body.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/common-mistakes-sex-toys\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Common Mistakes to Avoid<\/a><\/h2>\n<h3>Not Communicating Preferences &amp; Boundaries<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Open lines of communication create a necessary safe space. Always get enthusiastic consent from a partner and discuss likes or dislikes beforehand. Check in with your partner frequently and consider establishing a safe word.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Going Too Fast, Too Soon<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rushing into toy play too fast can kill the mood. Gauge sensitivity by easing into foreplay toys for maximum comfort. Start with kissing, cuddling, and hands first.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Choosing the Wrong Toy for Foreplay<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Foreplay is all about getting warmed up, so start with something gentle like a vibrator on a lower setting or a feather tickler rather than a high setting or a penetrative toy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Skipping Lubrication<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using lubricant ensures smooth and comfortable stimulation \u2014 it enhances pleasure and prevents injury.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Ignoring <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/cleaning-and-caring-for-sex-toys\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Hygiene &amp; Toy Cleaning<\/a><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Safety is sexy, so keep those toys sanitized for safe play to avoid the spread of bacteria.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Safe Use &amp; Aftercare<\/h2>\n<h3>Cleaning &amp; Storing Your Toys Properly<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After use, sanitize toys with antibacterial soap and warm water or a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/lelo-toy-cleaning-spray\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex toy cleaning spray.<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Store toys in separate, clean pouches to prevent damage, as silicone toys rubbing against each other can cause damage.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Checking Toy Compatibility with Lubricants<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not all lubes are equal \u2014 while silicone lube can be longer-lasting, it can damage silicone toys, so always use<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/personal-moisturizer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">water-based lube<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on them. All lubes can be used with glass or metal toys.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Post-Foreplay Connection<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even when foreplay is over, it\u2019s crucial to check in on your partner\u2019s experience and make sure everyone is comfortable and satisfied. You can have a verbal check-in to deepen intimacy. Aftercare is also important \u2014 communicate what that might entail, whether it\u2019s cuddling, showering together, or eating pizza in bed!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Mastering the Art of Foreplay<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Foreplay toys, accessories, and tips can enhance playtime and deepen intimacy between couples. They\u2019re the secret ingredient to more satisfying sexual encounters. The key is to explore together, communicate openly, and check in with your partner before, during, and after play.\u00a0 All of this will help you better understand each other in and out of the bedroom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To take your relationship to the next level, check out the best-rated foreplay-friendly toys for couples.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Enjoy 15% off <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LELO.com<\/a> with code <span style=\"color: #800080;\">VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Foreplay matters. Think of it as an appetizer to sexual activity, getting you aroused and setting the tone for a more satisfying sexual experience. Many see sex as a goal-oriented activity that leads towards the finish line known as climax. But pleasure is a journey, not a destination, and foreplay is a fabulous way to embark on that adventure. For women, arousal takes time, and studies say that foreplay can help. 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