{"id":45668,"date":"2025-04-22T05:29:07","date_gmt":"2025-04-22T03:29:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=45668"},"modified":"2026-03-17T06:02:18","modified_gmt":"2026-03-17T05:02:18","slug":"best-dildos-for-solo-and-partner-play-tc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/best-dildos-for-solo-and-partner-play-tc\/","title":{"rendered":"The Best Dildos for Solo and Partner Play"},"content":{"rendered":"

With so many options on the market, finding the best dildos to add to your sex toy collection can feel overwhelming. Realistic dildos, suction cup dildos, fantasy dildos, dildo vibrators… there are many types to choose from.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether you’re flying solo<\/a> or want something to enhance partnered play<\/a>, a dildo can be a great way to add some spice to your erotic routine.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re not sure how to determine which dildo is right for you, this guide covers everything you need to know about picking the perfect dildo for solo play, partnered play, and versatile dildos that work for both.<\/span><\/p>\n

What To Consider When Choosing a Dildo<\/span><\/h2>\n

First, we want to understand what makes a great, body-safe dildo. Believe it or not, there are a number of factors you want to keep in mind before you make a purchase.<\/span><\/p>\n

Material Safety<\/span><\/h3>\n

Your health and safety always come first! That’s why you want to opt for body-safe dildos<\/a> only, made from non-porous materials like medical-grade silicone<\/a>, borosilicate glass, or stainless steel.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

These materials don’t harbor harmful bacteria (when cared for properly\u2014more on that later), are easy to clean, non-toxic, long-lasting, and most importantly, feel great against your skin.<\/span><\/p>\n

Plus, these materials are resilient to temperature changes, so you can use them with ease if you want to experiment with<\/span> temperature play<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Avoid porous materials like jelly, rubber, plastic, or mystery materials you’ve never heard of before. You can never know what sort of toxins they may contain and porous materials like jelly are a breeding ground for harmful bacteria.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Shape & Size<\/span><\/a><\/h3>\n

From slim and beginner-friendly to thick and filling, dildos come in all sizes and shapes. While bigger may seem like a better option, it may not be the case for everyone. So, always diligently measure the size of the dildo before buying, especially online.<\/span><\/p>\n

When it comes to shapes, different variations will offer a unique experience. For example, curved dildos are great for targeted G-spot<\/a> or P-spot stimulation during anal play, while beaded glass dildos are great for more wide penetrative stimulation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Think about what kind of stimulation you enjoy the most, and choose accordingly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Solo vs. Partner Use<\/span><\/h3>\n

Some types of dildos are better suited for solo play, while others shine in partnered play. For example, for solo users, suction cup dildos that can be attached to a wall or a piece of furniture can be the perfect way to explore hands-free solo pleasure. For partnered play, double-ended dildos or vibrating dildos may offer better mutual pleasure experiences<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Suction Cup vs. Strap-On Compatibility<\/span><\/h3>\n

Depending on what form of play you enjoy most, you may want to make sure the dildo you buy has a suction cup or strap-on compatibility. As we touched on briefly before, suction cup dildos are perfect for solo play because they offer hands-free pleasure.<\/span><\/p>\n

But if you do intend to use a dildo with a partner, you may want to invest in a dildo that’s strap-on compatible and has a flared base for safety and stability.<\/span><\/p>\n

Best Dildos for Solo Play<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you’re exploring on your own, you want a dildo that helps you tune into your body’s desires and discover new ways to experience toe-curling pleasure. These are the types of dildos we recommend for solo users:<\/span><\/p>\n

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Curved Dildo<\/span><\/h3>\n

Perfect for internal exploration of all the pleasure spots, a curved silicone, glass, or stainless steel<\/a> dildo is a great choice for solo players. It’s designed to easily find the G-spot or P-spot if playing anally and give you just the right amount of targeted stimulation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Silicone curved dildos are usually firm yet flexible, giving you just the right amount of pressure. They often are soft and feel just like real skin. Glass or stainless steel dildos feel amazing, too, and are great for temperature play. However, they’re often more firm and don’t offer any flexibility.<\/span><\/p>\n

Curved glass dildos often come with texture, though. That can add an extra layer of sensation during solo play. So, it’s definitely worth keeping that in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Suction Cup Dildo<\/span><\/h3>\n

Of course, suction cup dildos are a solo player’s dream and an amazing choice if you love hands-free pleasure. The suction base allows you to stick the dildo to the wall, floor, headboard, or coffee table so you can easily explore different penetration angles and positions without having to hold the toy.<\/span><\/p>\n

If budget is not a problem, then you may want to invest in one of those suction-thrusting dildos. These toys often come with remote controls<\/a> or an app that allows you to control the speed and the rhythm<\/a> of the thrusts. All you have to do is relax and enjoy the ride.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dual-Density Realistic Dildo<\/span><\/h3>\n

A realistic dildo with dual-density silicone combines a soft, skin-like exterior with a firmer inner core that’s perfect for a lifelike feel. The realistic design often has ridges and textures that add extra sensations that can add more dimension to your solo exploration. Perfect for a slow, sensual solo session.<\/span><\/p>\n

Weighted Dildo<\/span><\/h3>\n

Looking for even deeper sensations? Then, a weighted dildo is the perfect choice for you! You can choose one made from stainless steel that feels sturdy in your hand or a silicone one that has internal weights. The heaviness enhances the feeling of fullness and intensifies every sensation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Best Dildos for Partner Play<\/span><\/h2>\n

When it comes to the best type of dildos for partnered play, you want to look for something that facilitates the connection<\/a>, allows you to enjoy mutual pleasure with ease, and makes it easy to try different types of play.<\/span><\/p>\n

Strap-On Compatible Dildo<\/span><\/h3>\n

For couples interested in harness play, a strap-on-compatible dildo with a flared base is essential. It works great for vaginal penetration and pegging. Silicone is the perfect material because it’s firm enough for thrusting but feels comfortable and soft against sensitive skin.<\/span><\/p>\n

When choosing the dildo, make sure the size is right for your harness and it fits well. If you’re both beginners, opt for a smaller dildo in length and girth and then increase the size as you get more experience.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, consider choosing strap-on-compatible dildos that have vibrators integrated into them to add extra sensations for the penetrating partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Double-Ended Dildos<\/span><\/h3>\n

Double-ended dildos are perfect for couples who want to explore shared penetration. It works great well for both vaginal-to-vaginal or vaginal-to-anal play. These dildos are often long and flexible, made from soft silicone. It allows you to explore different positions to find one that hits all the right spots, and it bends well to fit different bodies.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Vibrating Dildo<\/span><\/h3>\n

If you want more stimulation, then a vibrating dildo like<\/span> ELISE 2<\/span><\/a> will be your top pick. Vibrating dildos add an extra layer of sensations which can be great during foreplay<\/a> not only for penetrative exploration vaginally or anally but also for exploring erogenous zones all over your body.<\/span><\/p>\n

Choose a toy that has multiple vibration settings so you can experiment with new sensations together with your partner. Some dildos may even have remote controls, so you can give full control over your pleasure to your partner and let them tease you into oblivion.<\/span><\/p>\n

Best Multi-Use Dildos for Both Solo & Partner Play<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you want something that’s versatile and works both for solo and partnered play, these are the best types of dildos for you to consider:<\/span><\/p>\n

Dual-Density Dildo with Suction and Flared Base<\/span><\/h3>\n

The Swiss army knife of dildos right here. It has a lifelike feel thanks to the dual-density silicone that feels soft yet weighty, a suction cup for hands-free play solo or with a partner (let them watch you), and a flared base that makes the toy hardness compatible just in case you’re in a mood for some pegging<\/a> or penetration.<\/span><\/p>\n

Slimline Dildo with Curve<\/span><\/h3>\n

The slim design helps make the dildo easy to use for anal and vaginal penetration, depending on your mood. The curve allows you to get both the G-spot and the P-spot, depending on what you’re into. Use it solo or with a partner\u2014bonus points if it vibrates (like ELISE 2), so you can add an extra layer of sensations and use the dildo for external exploration of all the pleasure spots.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vibrating Silicone Dildo<\/span><\/h3>\n

A vibrating dildo made from body-safe silicone adds extra intensity to your erotic routine, whether you’re playing solo or with a partner. Look for one that has a remote control, plenty of vibration modes, and maybe even a thrusting mode so you have plenty of space for pleasurable experimentation and never get bored.<\/span><\/p>\n

How To Clean and Care for Your Dildo<\/a><\/span><\/h2>\n

Taking care of your sex toys is important for two reasons:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. It protects your health.<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. It extends the lifespan of your sex toys so you can play for years to come.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Here’s everything you need to know about how to clean and care for your new dildo:<\/span><\/p>\n

    Cleaning<\/span><\/h3>\n

    Always clean your dildo properly before and after each use. Non-porous materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel are super easy to clean:<\/span><\/p>\n