{"id":4649,"date":"2017-05-30T07:13:48","date_gmt":"2017-05-30T07:13:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=4649"},"modified":"2026-02-19T06:25:04","modified_gmt":"2026-02-19T05:25:04","slug":"top-turn-ons-womens-sexual-fantasies-laid-bare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/top-turn-ons-womens-sexual-fantasies-laid-bare\/","title":{"rendered":"Top Turn-Ons: Women\u2019s Common Sexual Fantasies Laid Bare"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Whether they\u2019re mined deep inside the imagination; or fragments of a memory skewed over time; or simply inexplicable, involuntary desire, sexual fantasies offer a creative outlet for the mind to wander like no other. Nothing if not sexually-motivated, daydreaming about sex*\u00a0 is something each and every one of us gets up to. Indeed, those pleasurable erotic distractions that get you feeling all tingly inside aren\u2019t just normal; they\u2019re practically universal!<\/p>\n

And that, we hope you\u2019ll agree can only be a good thing: the imagination offers limitless scope for exploring our sexuality, discovering what turns us on and gets us aroused<\/a>, and pushing boundaries, all within the confines and privacy of a fantasy. Erotic daydreaming can even give license to the taboo, minus, of course, any weighty repercussions of reality. Many people fantasize about things they\u2019d never actually want to do in real life and so simply put, when it comes to fantasies, anything \u2013 yes, anything<\/i> \u2013 goes.<\/p>\n

Sensual States<\/h2>\n

The Great Outdoors<\/strong><\/h4>\n

The imagination takes us to all kinds of far-flung places, and dreaming about sex outside of the bedroom<\/a>\u00a0 is a fantasy for many a hot-blooded female.<\/p>\n

Whilst the location may vary, when it comes to sensual settings, when you fantasize about\u00a0al fresco<\/i> lovemaking, it lets you indulge a naughtier, exhibitionist side<\/a> of yourself without ever actually being in danger of being caught. It could be on a beach, the rhythm of lapping waves matching that of our lovers themselves; midst the rustling of leaves, deep inside a dense forest; or perhaps our lucky lady and her partner, find themselves marking their space in a field of swaying grass. The nice thing about these fantasies, unlike the reality, is there is no grass or sand up one\u2019s private parts to worry about!<\/p>\n

Such imaginary idylls aren\u2019t, of course, every woman\u2019s cup of tea, and her mind may equally drift to floodlit car parks; restaurant bathrooms; or perhaps the back row of a darkened movie theater\u2026 That\u2019s the thing about fantasies: they\u2019re wonderfully, pleasurably, deliciously unique.<\/p>\n

Good Things Come in Threes<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Next, the threesome<\/a>: an extremely common fantasy for men and women alike, no matter the permutation of bodies to enjoy.<\/p>\n

Whatever their sexual orientation, loads of ladies dream about adding another woman to the mix. Why? Well, why not! Many women identify as heterosexual but find themselves being turned on by the prospect of enjoying the attention of someone who has an intimate female knowledge of what just feels good.<\/i><\/p>\n

But, then again, who doesn\u2019t want to be the center of attention? Two guys working in the most tantalizing of tandems to fulfill her every desire\u2026 It\u2019s hot stuff, and another titillating fantasy for many.<\/p>\n

A Man in Uniform<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Ah, who doesn\u2019t love a man in uniform? A clich\u00e9 it may well be, but also an undeniably hot one for several reasons.<\/p>\n

Number one: chances are he looks good \u2013 smart, put-together and neat. Disheveling him presents a lot of fantasy fun, trust us.<\/p>\n

Second: a man in uniform may represent someone heroic \u2013 a firefighter, a cop or maybe a soldier. So, he\u2019s brave, fearless and a protector\u2026 need we say more?<\/p>\n

Finally, the idea that our lustful lady could divert said superman from whatever his very important duties may be \u2013 fighting crime, saving the innocent, battling fires \u2013 can be a huge turn-on, not to mention ego boost extraordinaire.<\/p>\n

For similar reasons, celebrities and even politicians are just as likely an object for many a female fantasy, be it for their perceived glamour, unattainable status or sheer influence.<\/p>\n

Rampant Reveries<\/h2>\n

An Unknown Entity\u2026<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Have you ever found yourself fantasizing about sex with a stranger, someone whose face \u00a0(and body) you completely create in your imagination? \u00a0Perhaps they lock eyes on the commute home, sharing an unspoken and intimate agreement of passions ahead. Maybe they find each other in the din of bar, silently connecting and disappearing into the night. Or who knows, maybe it really is<\/i> that hot electrician sent out to, ahem, fix her fuses?<\/p>\n

Sex with a beautiful stranger presents a world of possibilities for all things taboo, for everything we\u2019re told with an all too depressing frequency that \u2018nice\u2019 girls don\u2019t do. Because here\u2019s the thing: for all the previously unimaginable strides society\u2019s taken in terms of equality of the sexes, women are still, in certain circles, somehow expected to be less reckless, less carefree than men. Not being so is precisely what makes this fantasy so tantalizing.<\/p>\n

Master and Commander<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Who among us doesn\u2019t enjoy relinquishing responsibility once in a while? Of course, in reality, sex doesn\u2019t come with instructions for guaranteed pleasure, but just imagine if it did: we\u2019d follow them to the letter.<\/p>\n

Now, let\u2019s pretend those directives are delivered in a sexy, commanding growl and, well, what\u2019s a girl to do? Submission can be very, very sexy<\/a>.<\/p>\n

As ever, this one works both ways and for many a woman, commanding her lover to cater to her every sexual whim is undeniably hot.<\/p>\n

Clearly, this one may just call for some sexual role-playing<\/a>\u00a0 \u2013 think an impertinent student and her ultimately swayed professor; a handcuff-wielding<\/a> cop dominating her very<\/i> bad detainee; or even the temporary \u2018ownership\u2019 of a client over his prostitute.<\/p>\n

One last thing: women are blessed with vivid imaginations, with or without the costume\u2026<\/p>\n

Live the Dream<\/h2>\n

From the feasible to the downright frenzied, women\u2019s fantasies run the whole gamut\u2014even if none of these scenarios tickle your fancy, it’s certain that whatever does is a fantasy enjoyed by more than just you. Some hover within a tantalizing closeness to reality; while others should \u2013 and do \u2013 remain just that: an intimate fantasy, best confined to the realms of the imagination. That said, sharing your innermost desires with your partner<\/a> can bring a whole lot of naughtiness to sex. Give it a try, and perhaps you will find yourself bringing some of your most erotic of daydreams a step closer to reality!<\/p>\n

*In this article, we are using the words sex and intercourse as synonymous, as is done in popular culture in general. However, we\u2019d also like to acknowledge that most women don\u2019t orgasm from intercourse alone and need some type of clitoral stimulation, either alone or coupled with penetration.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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