{"id":4797,"date":"2014-02-13T15:14:41","date_gmt":"2014-02-13T07:14:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/?p=4797"},"modified":"2026-03-06T06:19:36","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T05:19:36","slug":"penis-big-deal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/penis-big-deal\/","title":{"rendered":"His Penis is Too Big: HELP!"},"content":{"rendered":"

This article was medically reviewed by Dr. Justin Lehmiller<\/b>, a social psychologist, researcher and award-winning educator. For more information:
\nSite<\/a> | Publications<\/a> | Instagram<\/a><\/p>\n

The old adage of never getting enough of a good thing isn\u2019t always true; too much red wine with dinner makes us late for work the next day, too much rum raisin ice cream with our red wine makes us have to hit the gym more, but too much penis? That can make a girl run away screaming.<\/p>\n

A quick look through our internet histories proves that extra-large penises do in fact exist, but when these rare specimens are encountered in real life and not on a monitor, your brain begins swimming with questions. How does he walk around with that thing? Did it just look at me? How am I ever going to get that in me?<\/i><\/p>\n

Since beginning this blog and asking for reader questions, what to do with a penis that\u2019s too big has been one of the most common among them, meaning that unlike the unicorn, a super-sized penis is no mythical beast. When encountered out in the wild, there are a few tricks to have up your sleeve to tame that overly endowed mega manhood.<\/p>\n

Never forget the Three F\u2019s: Foreplay, Foreplay, Foreplay<\/b><\/h2>\n

After you\u2019ve prepared yourself mentally, prepare yourself physically \u2013 and have fun doing it \u2013 by not skimping on the foreplay<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Take extra time with teasing to more properly prepare your body, allowing your sexual juices to begin flowing and getting your vagina well and properly ready to take on whatever comes along. Have him do this by focusing on your hot spots with his fingers or tongue<\/a>, or by having him use a small, palm sized vibrator<\/a>\u00a0on you to add that extra oomph.<\/p>\n

Also remember that the penetrative sex part of sex isn\u2019t always the be-all, end-all of intimacy; mutual masturbation<\/a>, oral sex<\/a>, manual stimulation<\/a> or stimulation with a sex toy<\/a>; it\u2019s all fair game, and all contributing to the same goal of satisfaction for both of you.<\/p>\n

Always remember the Three L\u2019s: Lube, Lube, Lube<\/b><\/h2>\n

One of the main reasons that foreplay is so important when dealing with a plus-sized package is that it helps you to naturally lubricate, making it easier and more comfortable in the insertion stage. However if time isn\u2019t on your side and you just need it right now, then a bottle of quality sexual moisturizer<\/a> is your best friend.<\/p>\n

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Apply it to the head and shaft of his sizable sex organ, as well as a dab on your vaginal opening to help him glide in and make the entire passionate process a much simpler, and much, much<\/i> more comfortable process.<\/p>\n

Be sure to recall the Three S\u2019s: Slow, Slow, Slow<\/b><\/h2>\n

When it comes to big penises, there are two dimensions that need considering; girth, and length. Girth-related issues can be overcome with foreplay and lube, as seen in the Three F\u2019s and Three L\u2019s above, but an excessively lengthy love organ can present some particular problems of its own.<\/p>\n

When the dong is long, there\u2019s a much higher chance of his penis bumping your cervix during thrusting, which is almost always an instant mood killer, as anyone who has had their cervix smashed can agree.<\/p>\n

A well-endowed gentleman should err on the side of being gentle, man; during both insertion and thrusting, he can\u2019t go barging in like it\u2019s the opening scene of Saving Private Ryan<\/i>. What you want to use is patience and an even pace during penetration, and avoid the pain.<\/p>\n

Spend the first few minutes of penetration with him making shallow thrusts before going deeper; this will be more enjoyable for you, as the nerves that we derive the most sexual pleasure from reside in the first two to three inches inside the vagina. Have him work this sensitive spot for a while, then increase the insertion when you\u2019re good and ready.<\/p>\n

When it comes to and extra-big appendage, don\u2019t forget the Three X\u2019s: XXXL Condoms!<\/b><\/h2>\n

No matter how large a thing he\u2019s packing, your protection is still of utmost importance (and what the whole article is about anyhow). If you do happen to hook up with a well-hung person, then be sure to have the correct protection on-hand: we\u2019re talking about XL condoms<\/a> of course.<\/span><\/p>\n

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While the onus should fall on the person who\u2019s packing the penis to bring the correctly-sized condoms for his particular prick, if he\u2019s not brought his own protection then having some L, XL or XXL-sized condoms on hand won\u2019t leave you both wanting.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019d never forgive ourselves for leaving out the Three T\u2019s: Tech, Tech Tech<\/b><\/h2>\n

Say fellas, if your penis is too big but you don\u2019t know how to use it properly (properly in this case meaning in a way that your partner is comfortable with), then you\u2019re wasting a natural wealth of pleasure for the both of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Like for instance; during penetrative sex, do you know which areas within your partner your extra large member is putting the most pressure on or transmitting the most friction to? That would be some valuable info to know, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Rather than the trial-and-error method that large lads have always had to rely on, the new field of Sextech can truly come in handy here. The newest advancements in pleasure do more than just provide incredible levels of stimulation: a Sextech item like the LELO F1S<\/a>\u00a0is able to provide feedback about your performance — it\u2019s a masturbation sleeve that can even tell you which contact points your penis is stimulating — and this is information you can take with you into the real world.<\/span><\/p>\n

It behooves you to keep in mind the Three P\u2019s: Position, Position, Position<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"The<\/a>As long as you choose your sex position wisely, even the biggest penis can be tamed<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sexual positions\u00a0that offer you total control are the ones you should go for, as they allow you to dictate the depth and pace of penetration, and position him and his large penis exactly where you want them.<\/p>\n

With a well-hung guy, the classic girl-on-top position offers you this perfect amount of control, as you use your thighs to control depth, and get a great workout at the same time!<\/p>\n

This is not to say that there are impossible positions that you simply cannot do if he\u2019s got a large one; any and every position can be tried and enjoyed by both of you if there\u2019s a healthy degree of bedroom communication<\/a>. Letting him know what works, doesn\u2019t work, and how things feel gives you just as much control as being on top, which, if you recall, makes up the Three C\u2019s: Communication, Communication, Communication!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Enjoy 15% off LELO.com<\/a> with code VOLONTE15<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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